Really Really Worrried And NEED Some HELP PLZ
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Sooo i'm really really worried because I dunno if i'm pregnant or not, and its gunna be a while for my period so i dunno if Im gunna get it or not and the reason i need to know is cuz i have a bf and well i'm not attracted to him or anything and its complicated cuz i dont wanna hurt his feelings and well i kinda slept with another guy on the 31st.. and got my "period" the day after but what if that was implantation bleeding and I just thought it was my period?? I also need help cuz i dunno how to tell his guy that i dont wanna be with him, without hurting him, and i know that if i tell him i slept with someone else it'd hurt him even more!!!! SO please help, i dont know what to do, and i just cant be with him anymore, we've been together for a month and he's already REALLY serious about me!!
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*sigh* Okay well. You probably aren't pregnant. Implantation bleeding is much, much lighter than a period. You'd see the difference. And if your period was due the day after you had s_x then you most likely weren't ovulating. As for this guy... Just tell him the truth. I mean if he's serious about you it's gonna hurt either way, get it over with.
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If the only time you had s_x all month was the day before a regularly expected period, and the period came as expected, you are not pregnant. As for the REALLY serious boyfriend, tell him he is experiencing infatuation, not love, and you both need to cool it. He may also be the controlling type, and you need to learn to steer clear of that. Good luck!
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Yeah, I doubt you are pregnant! You ovulate like 14 days before your next expected period, not a day before. Also implantation bleeding happens like a week after the conception s_x. Accordinig to your dates you shouldn't be ovulating until about now or soon (it just depends on how long your cycle is, but I'm going on the average). Also, the man dilemma isn't that hard. You've only been together for a month, sooooo, he'll get over it!!! Just be gentle, like tell him the truth but be gentle. Tell him that you realize you just want to be friends, and don't want to be tied down to one person unless you are sure that it could go somewhere other than friendship. You don't necessarily have to tell him about sleeping with someone else, unless you know there is someway its going to get back to him.
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