Really Needing Some Answers Here Please Freaking A Little

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aheadofthegame009 - December 29

My boyfriend of 4 years and I (I'm 17) were fooling around 2 days before my period was supposed to start. I never took off my spandex shorts (the underwear I was wearing), but he had some prec_m on his p__s, and he pressed it up against my spandex for about 30 seconds. I don't have my period yet, and I should have gotten it yesterday, today, or tomorrow. My cycle sometimes is not a perfect 28 days, but its usually 28-31. My br___ts are sore, and I am a little tired- but I have been stressing a lot because my boyfriend is leaving for a few months for business and I also am a little sick, I have a sore throat, congested, feverish, etc, which is probably what is making me tired, but I am not positive. I have had a little cramping but I am taking medication that is not supposed to interfere with my period but can cause abdominal cramping, so...sigh. I don't know if I am pregnant or not or what the chances are. My only symptoms are slight cramping, br___t tenderness, and a little tiredness, but keep in mind my period is supposed to be here any day, and I'm sick, and I have been stressed. I know this is a little confusing but I am just trying to put in all the factors so I can get genuine opinions. Considering how the conception would have happened and when it was in my cycle, what do you think the chances are?

 

V9653 - December 30

I really have a bunch of questions from this one, but I won't get into it. Anyway... you should be fine. The thing is that the getting pregnant through your underwear thing should not be taken so literally. Yes, it happens but think logically about it. You know how sometimes things are getting hot and heavy and you're in your undies and you give him a hand job or he just b__ws on his own on your underwear. Well, if it soaks your undies and you are wet from the excitement then the sperm has a flow from on fluid environment to another to swim up into the v____a. I'm guessing if he just had prec_m then he didn't soak your underwear. So that's a dry environment. Sperm can't do anything in a dry environment but die. So really you're worrying about becoming pregnant from a p___s touching your undergarments and if that were really possible then God I would have been pregnant soooooooooo many times! Actually the pregnancy rate would be ridiculous. Here's the thing, you aren't even considered late yet because like you said, sometimes your cycles differ a little bit. Even if your period doesn't come today, tomorrow or the next day, it really could be from you being sick. It happens sometimes. Sometimes you get a little virus and it makes you a little late. So unless theres something you aren't admitting to on here, you aren't pregnant. Also, s_xual contact two days before a period, will usually not lead to pregnancy because there isn't an egg to fertilize. Your egg has already come down and broken down. Now there are some women who will ovulate right before their period, but they consider that a fertility problem because you have to have a certain amount of days after fertilization of the egg so that the egg can implant, etc. If you get a fertilized egg 2 days before your period, its going to barely make it to the uterus before the uterus starts shedding, so that egg gets thrown out with the bleeding. So wrong timing in the cycle, no actual s_xual contact, and another logical explanation for missed period and symptoms=not pregnant.

 

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