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My boyfriend and I had s_x on Halloween. we used a condom. I was supposed to start my period the next day on the first on novmeber because that's when i got it last month. but in september i didn't have my period at all. this was the first time in a year that we have had s_x. i keep getting cramps like i'm going to start. what should i do? i'm really worried.
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If that was your first time in a year having s_x, and you had s_x on the halloween and was suppose to start on the first then the timing would be completely wrong for you to be pregnant, on top of that sperm live for 24-72 hours and it takes at least 6hours to actually jump abord your egg. So basically hypotheically speaking if you were pregnant you would only be a few hours pregnant so there really is no way to tell. You can wait a few weeks and if still no period then take a test, if you reallything there could have been a accident you can still go get the morning after pill....I honestly dont think you are pregnant though so i wouldnt recomend the morning after pill, because it iss bad for your body. I think you need to just wait it out and be patient for your period to arrive
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I don't think you're pregnant at all, I think you're probably having symptoms from just having s_x. If you were pregnant you wouldn't know, it'd be way too soon for any symptoms too. So just take a deep breath. In a few weeks if you don't get your period, test honey. but sometimes even the smallest thing can throw off our periods.
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I agree. If you used a condom correctly you should be fine. Most likely you are just experiencing some odd cycles, especially since you say that in september you skipped a period. To add on to what DB said, you wouldn't even be pregnant right now. 1. his s____n is probably sitting in a condom right now. 2. even if there was a slip up, you aren't pregnant until the egg is fertilized and it goes down into the uterus (which takes about 2 days), then implants, which takes a few more days. Usually people do not get pregnant until about a week after they have s_x. This is why pregnancy occurs during ovulation, and ovulation occurs two weeks before your next period is due. The egg needs time to get fertilized and travel down into the uterus before the uterus sheds its lining. If you are due for your period any minute, most likely you have already released an egg and even if it happens to get fertilized-which I doubt the egg is even still present-then it won't get enough time to implant before your period starts. Just relax, you should be fine. Give it another week, and if your period comes on then I bet there are other things at play that you might want to talk to your doctor about since you've had that missed period in Sept. Good luck, and really, you shouldn't worry.
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sorry I meant to say, if your period doesn't come on
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thank you all for your answers. i'm glad to say that i started this morning. when i told my boyfrined he was happy and sad. we both want a family of our own but we know now is not the time. i can't thank you all enough for you support. i'm sure if my boyfrined were to read your answers he would want to thank you all too.
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