Why Bother Asking

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Teddyfinch - May 28

why do you (the ones who say "could i be pregnant") and ask for our help? we didn't tell you to have unprotected s_x. we didn't tell you to skip your birth control or tell him to forget the condom. and if you're pregnant, we wouldn't know! so why bother asking these questions and rattling off symptoms?? if your period is still over a week off and you have all of these symptoms that you are sure is pregnancy, you aren't. because you won't feel it that fast. and if you've missed your period...take a damn test! don't come on here asking!! we don't see through our monitors into your uterus. this will just be another ignored "take a test before asking" post but i felt i had to say it. this should tide me over for a while. oh and for those who seem to think you have to be a certain age to buy a pregnancy test, you can buy them at the dollar store.

 

iona - May 28

Ahhhh, we have been though this so many times, but I think new people come on just as quick. The thought that some girl has unprotected s_x (it what ever way) then ask if she CAN be pregnant is just scary.

 

tuesdaypm - May 28

Hey Teddy, how far along are you now and how you both doing?? :)

 

Teddyfinch - May 28

i am 15w2d today and so far so good lol. the rough start has kept me on my toes, but dh and i have bought two little pretty green onsies. and since our little baby finch is due in november, we got one with feet on it so the baby doesn't get cold as our take home suit. hopefully the baby won't be too big for it lol. we're really starting to enjoy this and i feel more and more movement every week so it's surprising to me lol.

 

Teddyfinch - May 28

ty for asking =) how have you ladies been?

 

amanda17 - May 28

Wooo feeling movement already? You're lucky, I didn't feel anything until I was 19 weeks... Or maybe I did and I just ignored it because her first kick felt really strong. I never felt any "b___terflies" it was definitely someone kicking me haha! Didn't you say you and your dh were debating whether or not to find out the s_x? Have you come up with a resolution yet? I don't want to make any decisions for you but... I want to know the s_x! Haha. When I had my ultrasound to find out my girl's s_x I was shaking from being sooo excited. Do you have any motherly instincts about the s_x?

 

ChannY - May 28

You know what? I completely agree!! This whole thing, "am i pregnant", "will i be pregnant through pre-c_m", "condom broke, am i pregnant". baah baaah baaah, it's ANNOYING!! We are not DOCTORS!!! How are we spose to know whether you are or not. Just simply take HOME PREGNANCY TEST or GO TO THE DOCTOR!! Pardon my cap-locks, it's getting frustrated when these young ladies are asking too much. By the way Teddyfinch, i bet you're excited!! Are you going to find out the s_x of the baby?

 

grow_up - May 28

Like oh mah gawd youz all shuld b totully ashaymed ov urselfs u stoopid beeaches! Dis iz suposed ta b a prgnany frorum 4 support and shyt. LMAOOOO two other types of posters that get on my nerves. The ones who sound so dumb and ignorant you can't even understand what they're asking and it gives you nightmares to think such morons could possibly risk reproducing..........then the ones who complain about your complaints as if you're wrong for having an opinion and fail to realize they're doing the same d__n thing.

 

Teddyfinch - June 2

amanda: yeah we were debating, but we decided to go ahead and find out. turns out there aren't many cute yellow and green outfits that we like lol. i really don't have any instincts yet, but i keep saying "she" probably because my mom is sure it's a girl so she calls it she and my big sis says it too, but dh thinks it's a boy and i mean it was his half that decided it lol. but oh yeah, yesterday i had horrible pains in my chichi's and i have a whitish clearish stuff leaking out. apparently it could be my colostrum? craziness! i'm 16w today and in 2 weeks i have my sono to hopefully see doodle or no doodle. and now i can feel movement when i'm standing and not just when i'm laying on my tummy. i can't wait until my hubby can feel it.

 

Teddyfinch - June 2

seriously if my little sister ever comes to me saying "omg i had unprotected s_x! kuld i b pergant?" i will straight up slap her in the head. some of these girls....omg lol.

 

Merciii - June 4

Because they're thick?

 

Teddyfinch - June 4

hmm true, but it felt good to vent lol

 

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