Confused Amp Amp Need Advice HELP
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okay well im only 17 years old. me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 2 years and we started off having protected s_x, then we stoped using protection..im on the pill though. he has told me a few times that he came in me a little..but i never became pregnant. this last weekend though we had s_x constantly and he came inside me everytime and i forgot my pills at home so i didnt take them that weekend..i started feeling different like i was having some kind of symptoms and thought i could of been pregnant then i took a home test and it was negative..so a few days after we had s_x again and i didnt take my pill that day either (stupid!) and once again he came inside me..the next day i started my period but it only lasted for like 3 days and wasnt that heavy. hes been talkin about havin a baby with me and wants us to get a place sometime this month but my parents would kill me..so could i still be pregnant eventhough i had a light period?? or what do yall thinks happening?? im so scared and confused..because if i aint pregnant then i kind of have a feeling that something could be wrong with me causing me not to have kids because if hes done it that many times in me and i havent got pregnant yet (which i dont wanna be) then..well..idk..i want kids one day.. i just need some advice
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Have you been on the pill for months? Perhaps you are having an upset cycle because of your irregular pill-taking. Don't worry about not being able to have kids - that is an issue you can confront when the time comes, in the unlikely event that it is a problem. Meanwhile you need to tighten up on your birth control. Buy your own condoms and put one on him every time he wants in. Get better with your pill routine. Take a couple more tests at one week intervals using first morning pee, just to be sure of your status. Good luck!
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thanks for the advice and yes i been on the pill for like 2 years now. im just a lil scared but plan to take another test in like a week or so.
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NEVER purposely get pregnant if you aren't sure you want to have kids. I'm a teen parent, I had my daughter when I was 17 and trust me it makes everything in your life difficult. Having a child consumes every waking (and even not waking) moment of your life. I don't think your boyfriend really understands what it means to have a kid otherwise he really, really wouldn't want you to have one so young. Get back on condoms, start taking the pill regularly, and tell your boyfriend he's out of his mind to want to have a kid right now.
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Like grandpa viv said, it might be your cycle messing up due to irregular pill use.
But if you are afraid that you are pregnant no matter, take a test. That will solve all issues hopefully.
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