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i forgot to mention he pulled out when we had s_x, if that helps at all.

If you got your period, then you're not pregnant. All of the symptoms you described could be the onset of your period.

you probably aren't pregnant. and the pull out method isn't a method. it's an excuse. "i like it more without the condom" or "i don't want to get fat on the pill". so don't cry if you have yourself a denial baby because you guys didn't wrap it up or take a pill. or get a shot every 3 or 4 months.

excuse me, teddyfinch, but i'd just like you to know that i'm very aware pulling out isn't a method. Honestly, though, when you tried your hardest not to have s_x because neither of you really believe in premarital s_x, sometimes things happen. And I don't appreciate you being rude, and insulting me, since I'm dealing with my situation the best that I can- and you don't even know what my situation entails. Just for your information, since your acting like I'm some idiot who would just have s_x without protection without a good reason (I'm an intellegent person, teddyfinch- i go to one of the best universities in the nation), that was my first time. And the second time I had s_x, I used a condom. Now for someone who's willing to help rather than insult me about a mistake I know i've made, i had heavy bleeding for two days, but it seems to have slowed down already- is that still considered my period?

i'm not being rude. i'm being truthful. if you don't want a kid, take the 5 seconds to put on a condom. or if the moment catches you and you don't think about it (and i know it happens) then take a pill in the morning. if you don't want to know someone's honest opinion, don't bother coming to a public forum because you'll get the truth. go somewhere they totally support people not using any protection and then freaking out about maybe being pregnant. and i don't think you're an idiot, so don't tell me what i think of you, because i don't think that. you aren't using all caps like some people and you speak with good grammar so yeah i never thought you were an idiot. i do think you ask obvious questions. i don't see why you'd wait until your bleeding stops, but whatever makes you happy and since a lot of clinics do free pg tests, why not? and if you're so smart to go to "one of the best universities in the nation" then you'd know about the dangers of unprotected s_x and you should know better. your book smarts mean nothing in the real world hun when it comes to common sense. now i'll be honest with you. i think you have your period and it's not a pregnant one (i had one of them). it sounds like your period just took a break but watch it because it may disappear for months at a time and then you might want to see a doctor for that.

actually, if your period was just a few days late, you might have been stressing around ovulation time. that's common for college students to stress (duh right?). stress won't delay a period, but ovulation, so think back to when you think you might have been fertile and see if you had any big tests or even if you had your first time then because that in itself can be stressful no matter how much it's enjoyed.

Thank you for your help. And to answer some of your questions, I can't get to a clinic because I'd need someone to drive me there, and I've only told two close friends, neither of which could bring me. And I know book smarts aren't going to help me in real life, but it felt like you were kicking me when I was already down. I know I made a mistake and I'm trying to deal with it in the best way I can. Also, even if i wanted to, my mother wouldn't ever let me go on the pill. And even if she did I wouldn't- it scares me and I should have more self control than that. Honestly, I appreciate your help. I had just woken up when I read that, and it was like a kick in the stomach, seeing as I'm very aware having s_x without a condom is a mistake. So again, sorry, and thank you for your help. Do you really think I'm okay?

I know all this, which is why we're not planning on having s_x anymore until we can actually handle the consequences. I was just saying, I came here for help- not a lecture, because I f***ed up. Big time. And still, you don't understand the situation completely, but one thing's for sure and that's that he's not in the relationship for the s_x. This is the first guy I've had s_x with, and I'm not planning on sleeping around with other people. I just wanted some advice from people who had some experience, because right now, I'm in this alone (I only have guys trying to help me, which can only be helpful to an extent when it comes to physical issues) and I've been terrified. I don't need lectures, that's not how I learn. I've figured out for myself how much responsibility having s_x is, and we're going to try not to have s_x (but have condoms around if things get out of hand). I just wanted opinions and help, because I've never been through this before, and hopefully I'm not in this position again in the future. I don't need people telling me that having s_x without protection is stupid. For goodness sakes, I know that. I do know how to say no, but sometimes you have to make the decision when your not at your strongest and you make the wrong choice. But I'm trying to deal with my actions, which is what I needed help with, not being told that I was stupid for something I did. I know that already, and that isn't helping me when I've already sorted that out with my partner. I didn't mean to offend anybody, and I'm sorry. I really appreciate the help.

Well I'm pretty sure I told ya that I think you aren't pregnant but you do need a lecture if you are sitting there worrying about pregnancy. Sorry.

so your mom won't let you get on the pill, but she'll let you have s_x. smart mom... if you can't get on the pill, you really should know better than to be having unprotected s_x. obviously you have no self control because you use the pull out excuse and self control would be a condom or no s_x at all. no pity for you, sorry. and you wouldn't take the pill? it scares you? so you'd rather have a baby to take care of at your young age than take a pill that isn't something to be scared of. that's just dumb. i'm totally honest in my posts, and believe me if you're pregnant at this young age, you'll be thankful to have someone only being as "mean" as i am. anyway, i still say you're not pregnant. don't start worrying until you actually have something to worry about. stress delays ovulation, which delays period, which in turn stresses you out even more. and you can convince yourself you're pregnant and suffer a hysterical pregnancy which means it's all in your mind. chill until around the 27th when you had your last period.