Goodbye-pg121637995987

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preppy1982 - July 20

first of all, in my post I was referring to the girls who were meant, and again, if you read it, it specifically says "if the shoe fits, wear it" - if it doesn't apply to you - ignore it. you can offend me and "burn" me all you wish - it makes no diff to me at all. The fact that you have been here for god knows how long and know the board inside out, and I'm just "new" really means nothing. I'm not saying that angelmonkey is innocent, in fact I do admit that she probably lied. What I do not agree with is the way she was run off this fourm. Neither one of you little girls owns this board, you have no right to run anyone off it and the point is your (now Ashley pay attention, in this instance it's YOUR) mouths are way too big and it's uncalled for. You're (again Aslhey, now it's YOU'RE = YOU ARE) rude, mean and b___hy. You may see me as rude, mean and b___hy as well, but I have yet to run anyone off this board. Bottom line is you need to mature and really concentrate on what's important which is raising your family, not running people off the boards. I find it astonishing that you don't priorotize finishing school and establishing good careers before running off and having babies (I know that me and my DH have careers and still find it difficult to have enough savings to provide for our children and I'm not talking day to day living, I"m talking about college funds etc.). I don't imagine anyone here not older than 18 was able to secure employment good enough to do all the day to day and have left over. I hope that you're OK with the way you have treated angelmonkey and that you can sleep at night knowing that you have robbed her of probably much needed support network. If you found out she was a lier etc. and didn't want to help her, you should have ignored her and let someone else support her and answer her questions. The last time I checked, nobody died and made you God, so that you get to decide who stays and goes. Next time, use your head and think before opening that big old mouth of yours!

 

amanda17 - July 20

Her lying had nothing to do with what started this whole thing. I really don't care that she lied... as she explained she had an ok reason for doing it. Just goes to show, you don't know what you're talking about.

 

grow_up - July 20

*thinks preppy is a lamer and no longer worth responding to* *points a remote at her and hits the mute b___ton*

 

durante baby - July 20

*Yawns*.....I sleep very well at night, thank you for checking in on that.....and you are wrong young one..."The Dark Side" owns this forum! Muahahahahahahaha!

 

grow_up - July 20

chhhhhhhhh haaaaaaaa *plays star wars music*

 

hope-31 - July 20

i gotta go get a big bowl of popcorn for this one,lo! i seem to miss everything lately! hows everyone doing,teddy,amanda,grow-up?

 

grow_up - July 20

Share dammit! *takes hope's popcorn and puts the empty bucket over her head* I'm doing peachy keen and you schmoopsie poo

 

hope-31 - July 20

well actually sinc you asked i am pretty c___ppy. stil ttc #1 and after 2 failed iui's i am having a laparoscopy done to see if the endometriosis is bad cuz i have a lot of pain laely. they cant do it till sept so i have to do a month of bcp in august before but i guess its not like all i have been doing is working so whats a few more months.enough of my pity party. all this drama really cracks me up. i love reading all of the funny posts its like old times.

 

amanda17 - July 20

Whatever happened to the dark side gift baskets?!

 

newbaby2009 - July 20

Im sorry guys. My feelings are just so hurt by preppy that im gona have to leave the forum. Im also gona seek some counseling b/c her words have just hurt me so deeply.

 

dontremember - July 21

If you have about 10 jobs and are working all the time to 'provide your kid with a bright future'... well this I don't really understand. You can have all the money in the world, but if you're at work all the time and your kid is stuck in a daycare/nursery, how are they ever going to develop personally? It's ridiculous to say spend all your time working, you are then missing out on the most valuable time in a childs life when they are learning from you and developing their personality. And no before you say it, I have ALWAYS worked when I've had my child, but at times when my child sleeps. Most days have gone with no sleep. So am I going to go at another time so I never see my child and they don't know who I am? Your silly att_tude astounds me, you come on here telling people how big bad and naughty they are for focusing their attention on a liar, but are acting as pathetic as anyone else. When I made an apology, most graciously accepted it, angelmonkey didnt, even though she was fantastically childish with me, I apologised to her, she didn't bother accepting it, so that goes to prove what she is like. At the risk of sounding childish, I take back my apology to her because she was utterly pathetic, and her lack of wit makes her an easy target on here. And to me, anyone defending her and getting all upset about it, IS her.

 

dontremember - July 21

plus, I don't for a minute believe anything "trajic" happened, it's one of those "I'll make em feel bad" posts, where she really doesn't get it right. Apology my a__s, it sounded more like a sulky kid stamping their foot and sarcastically shouting I'M SORRY OK without actually meaning it.

 

RylansMommy - July 21

WOW! Your stupid! NO ONE told her to leave, she decided to. Thats her problem... plus if here is so bad she can go to another "Support network" then when she lies to them she'll have to find another...so on and so forth. Im not sure what school you went to but...um im suprized they graduated you!

 

RylansMommy - July 21

** Oh also she said she would only be gone a few weeks..so how you got never comming back, and people running her out...im not sure. Mabey you should learn to read.

 

ashley_1991 - July 21

haha go rylans mommy=)

 

V9653 - July 22

Then she posted an apology, that if you notice is a-"I'm sorry but I have a right to be mean", that's not an apology!!! Now it was a start and could have slowly led to reconciliation, but as soon as someone new popped up defending her, she started posting, "yeah, those b___hes" type of replies which makes her apology null and void. I tried to talk to her and figure out what the deal was because it became obvious to me that there was a bigger more serious issue going on and she needed help. Now at that point yes the girls were going a little far and were full on retaliating, as girls do when someone walks up talking trash and at the same time very obviously aren't being honest. Some of us are older and experienced with things like this and see that it is very clearly an insecure person who is going through some major life upsets and is crying for help. At the same time while I will say the girls went too far, because once I saw that previous pregnancy post, I figured that it was either something thta she really didn't want to talk about, or it wwas something she was ashamed of, and that would b__w the lid off of whatever emotional struggles she's going through. You are doing the same thing. You have come on here defending Angelmonkey which is fine, but you didn't have to go as far as to attack all the girls like they are all stereotypical teenage whores who pop out pigtlets just to get more benefits from the government. That aint right. You don't know these girls. First of all, they do show signs of immaturity at times (which shouldn't be brought up in this thread because it was Angelmonkey who was being the most immature, and couldn't open her eyes to that even when people were tryin gto help), but what do you expect. But these girls have stories, and there isn't one here that I have found to be the typical stereotype, and I think some of these girls will be found ten years from now and will put most of us to shame. So...Angelmonkey, I hope you took my advice I offered in the last post. If you ever need to talk you can let me know and I can give you my myspace info and you can find me on there, because though your actions were in my opinion wrong, we all were wrong at moments, and there really is a bigger issue that you reallly need support on, and I understand how much support is needed and I am here for you for anything you may need. Now let's squash all of this, because it's just becoming an all new war that isn't worth it.

 

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