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what really? why ?? awe hun

I dunno, you just get a little older and start to realize the difference between loving someone, and being in love with someone. He's the sweetest guy I know, he's a good person, a good father and my best friend. I'm just not in love with him.

i'm sorry to hear that, if you ever wanna talk or anything you can get my msn off my facebook, i'm sure you will do great with Ellie, I'm sure Harold will be involved as much as possible.

i know you dont like me but im sorry to hear that.......i remmeber a couple of months ago you siad you were not sure if you were in love anymore, everything happens for a reason and you may be happier if you are not in love with him...........im sure he,l still be involved in ellis life and im sure it will be fine good luck

aww sweety I am so so sorry to hear that> I havent really told anybody this but maybe now is the time..My husband and i are kinda going through the same thing right now. we are trying to figure out if we want to try to make it work or not, so far it is looking like not. but we have so much going on with my medical problems, work, school, the kids, we are just winging it right now and sleeping in different rooms. I am not trying to "up you one" I just want you to know if you need somone to talk to i am going through the same sort of thing. :::hugs::::

hubby and i have been together since i was 15 and we have just grown to be two people that dont seem compatible with each other anymore : (

Oh hunny... are you sure about that? are you alright? You going to be OK???

Yeah I'm okay. I feel guilty though. I'm sure this all came as a surprise to him. I just kinda stopped feeling the same way about him... I stopped having that "for sure" feeling. I didn't want things to continue that way. So when I told him that he said he understood, and that he just wants me to be happy, even if it's not with him. It might end up just being a separation for a short time... but I'm just not sure at the moment. He said he's still going to be involved with Ellie, but he wants to give me space at the same time. I already feel like she's so much work with his help, I'm scared how things will be just her and I.

Well you might just be going through a little phase, subconciously being afraid of marriage and all that might have pushed you to a point where it's like OK I'm not ready. Hopefully everything will be fine, even if you stay separated or together.

To me this sounds like, I'm not ready for the big step phase. I mean, i know sometimes people grow out of eachother, but i dont ebleive they ever fall out of love. tel me, do you still think abotu him night and day? Wonder what hes doing....who hes with, how his day went. Do you see other girls in his future, and whats the first thing you think abotu when you see that. Do you really see him away from you, or do you think you do because things are moving fast for you. Your young, you have a child together...maybe its making you a little hesitant to find flaws that aren't there. I mean, its possible you dont love him, but....i just dont think you can fall out of love. You can move on, find something better. But...you'll still always love him.

you always regret what you let go. remember that. and really think about why you feel with way. space is good, and makes it easier to find the result of a problem.

Well one of the red flags, and this is embarra__sing for me to admit...was that this morning when we were cuddling... I pictured that he was someone else. After he packed all of his stuff, he told me he was going to hang out with Nicole, a girl that I've been jealous of in the past (that he's not aware of) and I didn't feel jealous at all. After we broke up I went out with Ellie and my mom, we were gone for about 3 hours and I thought about him maybe twice in that time, for a second or two. One thought was "I hope he's doing alright." and the other thought was "He would like this coat." Also about a week ago we had moved the wedding year to 2012. So it's not like things were rushing. I can picture him with other girls, but in my mind he's never really happy with them, and that makes me feel bad.

well maybe this time will be good for you to seperate....maybe you just feel like...you didn't get a chance to play the feild enouhg. I know that some women only meet the one guy and then think, i have nothing to compare it too, and leave. only to regret what they lost. I mean, i can't be sure because they are your feelings...but i kinda went through the same thing so maybe i can help. I'll do my best.

Well I hope everything works out well for the both of you - together or not. I don't know, there were times growing up where I broke up with Jeff and we dated other people for a few months but we always ended up together (it only happened twice in high school) but when we were apart we missed each other so badly, and we always talked always went to each other. But then again I NEVER felt that way about him, the whole not thinking of him thing.

I've been talking to him online a lot, trying to maintain a friendship. I invited him over today but he said he'd prefer not to come. For a while I had been picking apart everything he said and getting upset over really stupid things. I'm not like that, I'm a really laidback person and it takes a lot to offend me, but for some reason everything he said annoyed me. If it's not meant to be than it's not meant to be. I don't want to force anything... And it's really hard to be happy with someone when you're too busy being annoyed at stupid things...and I mean REALLY stupid. Like, we were giving Ellie a bath, and I use two wash cloths (he uses one) he said "Why do you use two?" and I started screaming at him "Why do you always have to nitpick at me?!" Maybe it just came to be the time where we just needed to go our separate ways.

Well maybe things just aren't working right now. That's OK!