He Wants Me To Abort

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rachel2121 - August 15

ok about 3 weeks ago i was on the pill and the day me and my boyfriend had s_x i took my pill at the rite time but i started a new job and the time i was takin them was not convient any more so i started forgetting to take my pill and for about 3 or 4 days after we had unprotected s_x and he did ejaculate inside me the day i took my pill but the days following i took them at irregular times like 3 or 4 hours difference so i just stop taking the pill all together because i could not remember to take it about a week later we had s_x again unprotected but he did not ejaculate in me this time he pulled out i had my period on the second of this month i stopped taking my pills about 2 weeks into the month and i started bleeding again so i had 2 periods this month i guess you can say and my boyfriend and i talked bout the situation and he said if i was pregnant that he would want me to abort the baby..i would never do that but im afraid that he will walk out of the childs life if i dont but im NOT considering it just want the best for the baby but do you think there could be any chance i could even be pregnant because the irregular way i was takin my birth control and i don kno if it means anything but i started the pills only about a week and a few dayz before we had unprotected s_x when he first ejaculated inside of me...it was the first month i was on the pills

 

rachel2121 - August 15

i havnt been having symptoms of pregnancy tho the only thing is i have been having alot of cramps in my lower abdomin and yesterday i felt COMPLETLY sick after i smelled bbq sause lol...idk why it was weird but other then that i feel pretty normal...im hungry but im alwayz hungry so i dont believe that applies but and help please...!!

 

makeeEMstressx3 - August 15

hmm its thee same exact thinq with me & my boyfriend i am 7 weeks preqnant and he tells me the same thinq ..

 

Grandpa Viv - August 15

Aren't you supposed to use some other protection the first month you are on the pill? Your random pill schedule makes it impossible to tell if you might be pregnant or just reacting to upset hormones. My advice is to quit s_x and pills until you are sure what's up. Buy some condoms and make sure they are properly used if you can't avoid s_x. Take a couple of pregnancy tests at one week intervals starting Aug 22, using first morning pee. If you aren't pregnant, some less easily forgotten contraceptive like the Ring or Patch may work better. Good luck!

 

rachel2121 - August 15

yes you are suppose to use another form of birth control during your first month of the pill but at that perticular day was kind of sper of the moment type situation and we did not have anything i know it was a foolish act but cant take it back but im jus a lil confused cuz i don know if there is a chance or not jus cause i heard if u take your pills irregular then u still hav a chance or gettin preg on the pill and being that it was also so early in the pack that i jus started would also put the odds against me but on the other hand the day i had unprotected s_x that he "actaully" ejaculated in me i took my pill but the next day and days following i did not take the pill right and i jus quit all together due to forgetting them but i had my period about 3 weeks ago then i stopped the pill and had another period last week but it was only 2 weeks from the first one in the same month i have stopped bleeding about 3 or so days ago and i still have cramps in my lower stomach and i feel a lil nausous but nothing really serious to a__sume i was pregnant just very unsure and scared cuz i would like the baby's father to be apart of itz life but idk i guess ill jus wait to takk a test

 

jelly94 - August 18

Well you could be pregnant even though you are on the pill it does not fully mean it will protect you. But if you are pregnant do not abort. Keep the baby or if anything give the baby up for adoption. You may think right now that the father will walk out but you will never know especially when he would see the baby. If he does there are a lot of programs that will help you out. But so what if he walks out if your pregnant its all about the baby and remember you will always have your baby =)

 

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