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I thought it was supposed to be "itss tori" but... yeah I guess sooooooo.

My sister is 17 and when she told my parents...wow...my dad took it soooo well. at first he was kind of suggesting an abortion but when my sister said she was against it he was fine with that and is now excited...when i told him a few months after i found out ( I'm 21 ) he was pretty p__sed because both of his daughters are now pregnant and was afraid that i would load it all on him. but now he is excited in a way but he would never say he hated us for what happend, he just jokes around saying oh wait until you have a daughter and this happens to you lol. just jokenly.

Alright this is getting creepy! When I was younger I was desperate for my dad's approval. He was only ever proud of my brothers and sisters, and he was only ever proud of how drunk they got. I never wanted to lower myself like that, so eventually I was like... forget it. Haha. Yeah I wanted him to be proud of me but not if it meant not being proud of myself.

hi. i wasn't 13, but 18, living with my boyfriend at the time ( i am now 23, almost 24) he proposed to me be4 i got pregnant by him. what advise can i give you, first of all tell your parents, and the baby's father! you have to tell him, because it's his child to, even if he is an a__s about it, it is better he know's, talk to your parents, but you do need to know is this, if you think you are old enough to have s_x, that makes you old enough to have a baby and take care of your responsiblity! you have to tell somebody, because the longer you wait, the more angryer your parents get! but don't worry, when your parents know, i am sure they will do everything in there power to help you, you are there child afterall. best of luck

Yeah with my mom she was always proud of my brother and sister for superficial c___p, like getting cool cars, being hot, getting gfs/bfs, etc. She HATED me because I was such a goodie-goodie-got good grades, didn't get all excited over boyfriends, didn't dress up, dressed in black, wore black makeup, and painted my nails black-she wanted a black barbie doll and it just wasn't me. Nowadays the only thing she wants to do with me is drink and talk about catching men-which always turns into a disaster cuz I'm st ill not that way.

Haha I went through that wearing all black stage too. Actually I'm still kind of in it, it's wearing off though. :P My dad hated that too. I caked on the eyeliner and every day I'd wear dark/black jeans, studded belt, black shirt, black or red nail polish, black shoes with skulls on them, I even dyed my hair black, or a few times cherry red (but the color never lasted long) I also had my lip pierced twice which he hated too. All of my peers seemed to think I looked cool though *shrugs* I'm not like that so much anymore. When I got pregnant I decided to make the transition so when the time came where I needed to get a job I wouldn't get these weird faces and have no one take me seriously (previous attempts were tried) Soon I'm going back to my natural hair color (redhead :P) and probably wear a lot of bright colors or earth tones. I do have some bright clothes but they're all accented with black accessories. I just can't help myself. And I was a goody-two-shoes too. I still am. No drugs, drinking, smoking, I do good in school, I even used to volunteer as a tutor at my school because I have the second highest gpa... I'm also a part of a teen-help program for teens who abuse drugs, AND I even give speeches to junior high students about how they should wait to have s_x and/or use protection (ironic, eh? Being a teen parent is actually why they wanted me to do that though, I gotta tell everyone how hard it is... it kinda sucks because they make me leave out the good things about being a parent, it makes it sound like I dread it) So yeah I'm very goody-two-shoes... I really can't see why a parent would want their kid to be more concerned with socializing than doing things like that to help people. You'd think it would be the opposite.

Jeeze I didn't even think about that... I dunno I don't feel like I compare my daughter to myself... She just seems too perfect to compare to. I'll have to start looking out for myself doing that.

Well right now she's still so young, but one day when she gets to be ahandful you might find yourself being like "oh gosh you are acting just like your father" Or it might be something else random and someone around you will say don't get so upset, you do the same thing, and that will be when you need to catch yourself. But I don't think you'll have to worry too much right now, because youdon't seem like you carry around a lot of pain or resentment towards people. I think those feelings are what damage your children. Unless you end up going through some really major changes later, with your family or your boyfriend, that really kick you down in the dumps, and you feel like your carrying the pain around with you everyday, you should be fine. hope that makes sense.

I'm a pretty forgiving person so I don't have grudges against anyone. I think I'd be happy if she was acting like her daddy :) I mean the only person I have any problem with is my dad, and I don't necessarily hate him or dislike him at all... I acknowledge that he's the type of person Ellie and I shouldn't be around, I forgive him for being who he is but it still doesn't change the fact that he's not one who fits in to my lifestyle. Hm. I dunno, I'll still watch out for it.

Well I am 16 so my problem wasnt AS BAD as yours but mine was pretty bad. I lived a pretty sheltered life with alot expected out of me. I told my mother as soon as I found out. The way I figure it...they are there for you...they will find out sooner or later. Its better that you tell them rather than someone else tell them. From there on youll have the support you need and the best option for you will be chosen and youll be fine. So just tell your parents what happened and be completely honest.

Well im not here 2 say anything bad abt you. 13 is pretty young but I think you should do what's best. First tell the baby's father. If he decides 2 support you during your pregnancy then you both should tell your parents. Don't be scared to tell your parents I know it seems like the scariest thing in the world, but in the end everything will be fine. Your love you they should understand. If you don't want the baby, you can give him/her up for adoption. BUT DO NOT ABORT!!! PLz! I hope the best for you keep me posted. Hope this helped.

umm when i went to the doctors at 16 the doctor told me that i better tell my parents that day cause he was calling later-no matter what. seems fishy......

and at first you said your frends took you to the doctor, then you said your aunt.

I believe it depends on what state and country your in what there laws are regarding age and telling parents.