How Am I Suppose To Take This
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okay so i posted a vent last night and it was just a really BAD day, then last night as jon and i went to go to bed, i mentioned something about htis girl he had over (we split for a few weeks about a month back in march and he had this girl i HATE come over) and he said he needed to tell me something and i was like umm okay, (and i asked him after we got back together did you sleep with her and at first he said yes and when he saw how upset it made me a few days later he said he only told me he slept with her to hurt me (cuz i broke up with him) and that he really didnt i didnt believe him but i let it go and now almost 6 months later) he said yes he slept with her, i wanst mad that he had s_x with her as much as i was mad that for 6 months once in a wile i would re ask him and i would get the same answer, he doesnt talk to her at all no more partly becasue once i foudn out she was there i saw her a few days later and i kicked her ass but im hurt and iunno,, any advice on this one guys.. preferably nothing to rude lol i dont know how much more drama i can take
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oh and
he said he kept it from me cuz ive had problems with depression in the past and he didnt wanna hurt me or the baby's but he had to tell me cuz its killing him knowing that hes been lying to me,,,,,
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Well its definately wrong that he lied for so long, even if he was doing it to protect you. But it was also wrong for him to have s_x with another girl so shortly after ya'll broke up. I wouldnt make a big deal about it. It was 6 months ago and ya'll was broken up.
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You "kicked her a__s"....what is that suppose to mean?
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Well, it's wrong he lied but at least he is honest now. And you weren't together so you can't really be angry for things you did when you weren't together. Tell him how you feel about him lying to you.
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i tried but i was just so shocked i cried and cried,, and i kicked her a__s as in i "beat" her up, not for being with jon but cuz of the things she was saying about my kid and the things that she was threatening to do. im not really mad at him for sleeping with her im more upset that he would do that when we where on;ly broken up for a short time, i know he didnt feel anything for this girl it was really just to upset me .. thank you addysmom, will try to tell him that it hurts to know he oculd keep that from me, !
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not to mention she is due jan 25 and was claiming it was his but the dates dont match ,,,,,
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You beat up a pregnant woman...?
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no she wanst pregnant at the time
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Thats good. I was about to be upset with you lol. But if shes due in Jan., she got pregnant in April. So as long as you beat her up in March...
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lol yup march break :D but like i know i shouldnt be upset but she posted her ultrasound photo on facebook and i couldnt help but pray that its not jons baby..
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Are you still concerned that it may be?
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he just keeps saying its not mine dont worry about it ,,,and im like umm yeah i am worried about it,,
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yeah, i really am , like iunno, he's known her for a long time and i mean if he can keep having s_x with her from me i dont wanna have my baby girl and then 25 days later find out he has another baby.. honestly i think i would kill him
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Did they have s_x in April too?
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well we where living in belleville and i wasnt there for a few days and she cmae down from london (5hr train ride) so i went to my moms the night after i found out she was at my house the secnd night she was there they had s_x,, then 4 days later they came to london and he stayed with me all march break well then april 3 we moved into our new apartment in london and she only lived about 10 min bus ride from where we where, i had friends over 2 nights and he went out he could have very well gone over and seen her, i really dont trust him eough to think that he didnt or hasnt at some point seen her since we moved back in april, if her due date is jan 25 when in april would she have gotten pregant?
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he says the night they had s_x in belleville( wichis the only time that he will admit to doing it) that they used a condom and they never finished cuz is mom kept walking the room so i guess they didnt want her to know or soemthing
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