I Dont Know Wat To Do

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moe_310 - May 21

I AM 3 WEEK PREGNANT AND I AM 16 I LIVE WITH MY SISTER AND SHE DONE SO MUCH FOR ME AND NOW I DONT KNOW HOW TO TELL HER I AM PREGNANT I KNOW THAT I AM GOING TO GET KICK OUT...... I DID HAD A PLACE TO GO WHAT I DID WASNT MEANT TO HAPPEND IT JUST HAPPEND AND I CANT CHANGE THE PAST .... NOW MY BABYDADDY DID SOMETHING STUPID AND I THINK HE GOING TO HAVE TO GET AWAY FROM HERE NOW I DONT KNOW WAT TO DO AND I DONT GOT A PLACE TO GO I FEEL SO WEIRD AND DUM AND SAD AND MAD I HAVEINT EVEN TOLD MY PARENTS YET BUT I KNOW THEY WILL BE MAD AND THEY WILL ALWAYS ACCEPTED ME BUT I DONT WANT TO GO LIVE WITH MY PARENTS BECAUSE TO MUCH PEOPLE LIVE THEIR AND EVERYBODY DRAMA AND ME AND ALL MY SISTERS HAD A BABY AT A YOUNGE AGE AND NOW IT LIKE FUKKKKKKKK WAT THE FUKK DO I DO

 

amanda17 - May 21

I really don't know why this is such a common question... You are pregnant, you can't hide it. Everyone is going to find out eventually... Not even necessarily from a baby bump either. My mom knew I was pregnant before I did, all because I had popcorn and ice cream for breakfast. So you might as well just tell everyone and you'll end up wherever you end up. And if you live with your sister and she also had a baby at a young age... chances are she won't kick you out...

 

Teddyfinch - May 21

why are these young kids coming on here freaking out because they had unprotected s_x and got pregnant. are the kids of that generation that ignorant that they don't know what condoms and BIRTH...CONTROL...pills are for? take ownership for your stupidity and tell people. i don't think they'll make you homeless when you're pregnant. (and no offense to the girls of that generation. not all are seeds from the stupid tree)

 

Naomi98 - May 21

Indeed. And so who exactly would you like to see posting questions on this forum? Just out of curiosity? I don't get why it bothers you all so much that someone is .... oops.... pregnant (I'm guessing a few of you know what that's like) and freaked out about it and looking for a little support or advice. Surely at least some of you can empathise with what this girl is going through. What's the point of a teen forum if the only responses someone can expect are dismissive, judgmental and offensive. Yeah yeah before you all jump down my throat, it's a public forum, you've got the right to say what you want. So my advice to Moe, come over to the Signs of Pregnancy forum and post there. We get a lot of messages from girls who've been treated like lepers here - believe me, you're not the only one.

 

amanda17 - May 21

O_O Well as a pregnant teenager myself of course I can relate... But it's like what do you say to that? Yeah she has to tell your parents, she has to tell everyone. Sooner or later she's gonna walk down the street and people are going to know... It's not like anyone has a choice. It's just a silly question to ask... What does she mean "what do I do?" What else CAN she do? That's why I'm confused as to why it's such a common question... It shouldn't be a question at all because it's not an option... there is no need for advice on it.

 

Teddyfinch - May 21

i just don't understand the "what do i do poor me" questions these kids have. they want sympathy, but i have none for a girl that can't keep her legs shut and then doesn't understand how she got pregnant. life's a b___h and you just have to live with it.

 

Amanda19 - May 22

Who would I like to post on this forum? Of course pregnant teenagers, but those with a little common sense. These posts am I pregnant, dont know how to tell my family, so scared to tell my family etc. What the heck do they want us to do?! They need to grow up, take responsibility tell their freaking parents. And we are not pregnancy tests, they need to get in their car/ bike, go to the store, buy a test, pee on it and wait 3 minutes like the rest of us do!

 

terri - May 23

man some ppl on here are such jerks. people come here to share their experiences or to ask questions and for general advice. if you dont have anything nice to say to anything that someone is posting move on to another one that you could do some good and give someone else some advice that might benefit them.

 

angelmonkey - May 23

how can you give advise when the person doesnt even make sence? huh!? and if you actually read the post some people do give advise, but some perfer to five there opinions on the situation! which they have the right to do, if people get offendedby people's opinions then they should find another forum!

 

Teddyfinch - May 23

i don't care if the OP doesn't like what my opinion is. i'm still being a lot nicer than people on the street will be.

 

iona - May 24

ADOPTION ADOPTION ADOPTION!!!!

 

terri - May 24

addysmummy, you sure got a nice mouth on ya for being someone's mummy. i hope that you teach your children more than what your dirty mouth says all over here. as far as what you wanna say about me go ahead i know different and i do good by my kids and i am still with the father. so i am not going to play your childish games. i know what i said in my first post must have upset ya cause you turned right hateful but than again i dont care. so for now you can play this lil she said this so i am going to say this..blah blah c___p with yourself for now cause i have got better things to do with my time. i came on here to get advice or help out someone else not to degrade anyone else or what they feel.

 

angel_jd_steven - May 24

I was 18 when i got pregnant with my daughter and my boyfriend and myself were homeless at the time. i told my mom asap bc i felt like if i dont tell her i wont get the care that me and the baby need. she was p__sed at first but she got used to the idea and helped with taking me to the doctor and helping us find somewhere to live. i feel like if i hadn't of told her i wouldn't have my 2 year old right now i would have lost her via miscarriage or the state would have taken her. tell your sister first bc you live with her and then if she's cool with it she can help you tell your parents. there is always help out there you just have to look for it. no one can help you if you don't help yourself first. good luck to you!!!!!!!!!!!

 

terri - May 25

iam sure that if you use your trashy mouth on here than you more than likely use it in front of your kids. i wonder how long it will be before they begin to copy what mommy says... thumbs up to you on that. hopefully none of the teen moms take your advice on that.

 

amanda17 - May 25

No one's parenting abilities should ever be questioned over the internet... Unless they are flat out telling you how they treat their kids. Who knows how they act around their children, you can't compare it to how they act online.

 

MelissaP - May 25

Someone must have rubbed you the wrong way AddysMummy, to be so biiter. There really is no need.

 

MelissaP - May 25

*bitter*, I mean.

 

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