I Need Help REALLY BAD

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optimusprime - October 12

ok so my ex and i had protected s_x, just after her period, and i pulled out still when i had to c_m. Well now she says she is spotting, and has every symptom except one. What are the chances of her being pregnant?

 

V9653 - October 12

I'd say the chances are pretty slim. First to be pregnant she has to be ovulating. Most women don't ovulate right after their period, it is pretty much our dead zone because we just got cleaned out from the last cycle and are just starting to rebuild the tissues and blood that will cushion the baby that we lost with our period. So most women ovulate about a week after their period ends. Also you said you had protected s_x AND pulled out. Which really is putting the chances of any sperm touching her to a very very very low level. Just because she is spotting and having symptoms does not make her pregnant. She could be going through some kind of hormonal or bodily change that is throwing off her cycle. A lot of times when that happens, you get weird symptoms that seem to mimic pregnancy symptoms. If she is late, have her take a pregnancy test, but if she is pregnant I'd start asking (in a nice way) if she's been being active with anyone else, or you need to ask yourself if you had any high risk s_xual behavior about a week after this incident. I'll be honest with you, if you guys are kind of young, and were or have just broken up but were serious, or she really loves you, it could be an emotional pregnancy. You have to know that s_x is to have babies and connect souls forever. When a girl is having s_x kind of young and is in love with you but is in a way rejected (you guys broke up) sometimes she will hope for a pregnancy which is something that will tie you guys together forever. I saw it sooo much in high school and my first semester of college. It creeps guys out, but you just have to understand that if you guys were serious, or she is having s_x because she loves you, she is accepting the idea and possibility of carrying your child. When you break up, it isn't just easy to just let go of that. Now I don't know if this is the case, just an idea, and if this is the issue you should have some compa__sion and sit down and talk to her about it, and lay out what it is that you really feel and expect from her. Be honest-but to answer your question, the chances of her being pregnant is LOW!

 

newbaby2009 - October 12

Ive seen you post this question many time before, in several different forums a couple weeks apart. I remember your name bcuz its the name of one of our horses.

 

AddysMummy - October 12

Go to school, s_x ed plz.

 

amanda17 - October 12

My school never taught me about pregnancy symptoms or ovulation. I basically learned it all through the grape vine, and pregnancy-info of course. They were just like "Penis, Vagina, babies. You will get pregnant and get STDs!!! Condoms only work 97% of the time!!!"

 

AddysMummy - October 13

She isn't pregnant, stop asking, go to planned parenthood or something, GAH.

 

Teddyfinch - October 13

would the one symptom she doesn't have happen to be a positive pregnancy test? bring back chast_ty belts!

 

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