In Need Of Advice Pg1262921580
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I am currently 19 years old and live at my boyfriend of 8 months house with his mother. i have a condition where i have had cysts on my overies which limited my chance of having children to 25%.. i havent used any form of protection for this reason for two years with my previous partner and current (whom have all had std tests) and have just found out that i am pregnant. i come from a very strict catholic family who would want me to keep it but still respect my decision IF i was to abort the baby. i have a casual job as a rep for my fathers wine business but am afraid i wont be able to work if i decide to keep the baby. my whole family don't like my current bf as they think he is a bludger. i really dont know whether i should abort the baby as i have such a low chance of falling pregnant yet am unaware of the possibilities having a child this young may be. i have type two diabetes, just recovered from ross river fever and foot and mouth disease so my health is just getting back to normal and i am really stressed about what i should do. also the father of the baby is half aboriginal so what would the benifits be?
please help me with my decision
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Life down under is so different! I think you are trying to weigh the odds of being able to conceive again, versus the desirability of this particular pregnancy. Your family does not have to know about an abortion, if that is the way you decide to go. Your doctor will advise you about diabetes and pregnancy. You had probably resigned yourself to never having children, and now you have this opportunity which may not be repeated, no telling about that. Many women in your situation would decide to seize the chance. GL!
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dont have an abortion. exspecially if your chances aren't good at ever getting pregnant again. this could be your only chance to have a baby...
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