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wow! i cant believe this is happening to me
im a 16 yr old guy and i got this girl 15 yr old pregnant and she dosent want an abortion but i do she wants the baby i told her that im not ready to be a dad and i dont wanna be with her and i dont have much money if you know what i mean plz how can i try to convince her that having a baby at the age 15 isnt a good thing!
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no it's not a good thing but it wasn't all her doing. you're half the problem here buddy so step up or snip it.
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you can try and convince her to give it up but i don't think it's going to work so just live it up it half your baby too/
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You maybe young, and scared, but if she isnt wanting to give up the baby than more props to her. She is stepping up to the plate, and becoming a mature adult. You both arent ready for a child, but just because you arent ready for a baby, that doesnt mean you should kill another human beings life because you are too selfish to step up.
It takes two tango, when you have s_x you run the risk of getting someone pregnant, or getting pregnant. That was your decision so live with the consequences.
Becoming a dad, of parent isnt a bad thing. Yes it maybe hard, it may scare the c___p out of you but its apart of life.
Just think what would have happened if your mom aborted you? I understand that none of this was planned and you were just trying to have a good time and everything but life isnt that easy. You are young and you can do it. You cant blame her for wanting to keep it, she understands everything a little more than you, and understands that life is more precious and valuable than to be selfish about and not step up to the plate.
There are a lot of young women getting pregnant now a days... My friends sister has two children and is only 16, there are multiple people that are younger and much more in debt and raised a child or children. This isnt about you anymore, YOU wanted to have s_x now deal with the aftermath. Its time to grow up. You are going to need to finish school, and instead of having fun after school you are going to need to work from after school until night and all day weekends.
No one is going to feel sorry for you, there are worst things in life that people go through.
Just step up to the plate. Support her, and be there for her. Do the best you can, and live with your choices and make the best out of them, and that doesn't mean try to get her to abort the pregnancy.
Trust me when that baby come you will be mad at yourself for even THINKING of wanting her to abort. New life is an amazing thing, even for guys.
Im young too, and so is my fiance, and i am due in 2 months. Yea its scary, yea i wish that this could have waited but life has something else in store for me and i am stepping up to the plate.
I made my bed and now i am laying in it.
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guess what. You may not want a baby but you are sol! s_x was made for reproduction! keep it in your pants next time.
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You may not be ready, but your not going to have a choice now. All you can do is talk to her about it. Sounds like she is keeping the baby, which means it is time for you to step up! I like how you say "I am a 16 year old "guy" " but you are acting like a boy....time to be that guy you claim you are, and start treating that "girl" like a woman and the mother of your child.
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