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Hello, my name is Mariah I was Just wondering okay wha do you think me and my boyfriend want a baby really bad. Well he says that he will stick by my side when i am pregnant and whenever i have the baby. Do you think that i should actually have a baby by him? And when is the best time? Thank You...
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how old are you ?
how long have you been with this guy?
Do you have a job? does he?
have you finished school?
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I AM 15 BOUT TO BE 16 IN NOVEMBER...AND HE IS ABOUT TO BE 17. I HAVE BEEN WITH HIM FOR A WHILE FOR ABOUT 2 YEARS NOW. YES I HAVE A JOB THAT PAYS 7.50 A HOUR AND HE HAS A JOB TOO AND NO I HAVE NOT FINISHED SCHOOL YET. THE THING WAS WE FIRST HAD s_x HE EJACULATED IN ME AND IT WAS TOO LATE AND SO FROM THEN ON HE HAS BEEN ASKING ME DO I WANT A BABY AND THAT HE WANTS ONE AND SO THEN HE JUST KEEPS EJACULATING INME BECAUSE HE WANTS A BABY DO YOU THINK THAT IT IS RIGHT? AND HOW OLD ARE YOU
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Finish school. Go to college. Get married. GET AN EDUCATION then have a baby. Your boyfriend probably wont stick with you, he's a kid you are a kid. Grow up then purposefully have kids.
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I am 17, im 28 weeks into my second pregnancy, take it from me im a young mom WAIT till your done school, make sure he will stay with you, having a baby right now would not be your ideal thing to do, get on birthcontrol and use protection, Tess- i agree with you :)
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Honey, here's something you won't understand until you are older: you're parents are right when they make all those comments about teenage hormones. It's like all those movies where the main character wakes up to realize they have a power but it is surging through them and they b__w up everything in their path because they havne't learned to control it.
We are animals-our bodies send us signals about s_x with the main goal to procreate. Men have a need to spread as much of their seed as possible. With him being 17, he doesn't understand that this is his motivation. He just knows when he popped off in you, something felt right. That's nature-not love. Nothing against you but it is that way. So don't let him get away with that. Yes, there are girls in here who had kids by their boyfriend at a yolung age and are still with them, but the difference is that they worked through a lot of difficulties in an accidental situation-not him purposely trying to impregnate them. If this guy realizes what he is doing, and what it leads to and he sees that you are so young, and not 100% onto this then he obviously doesn't care that much. If he loved you he'd want you to be able to finish school enjoy teenagehood, and then hurry up and marry you as fast as he could, make a comfy life for you and then lay you down nd have you carry his child. What's the hurry if he isn't going anywhere as he says???
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gee 7.50 an hour. sorry kiddo, but you aren't making enough money for you guys to support yourselves much less a baby. you guys are too young.
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V- i love this "make a comfy life for you and then lay you down and have you carry his child" .
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teddy in the uk 7.50 an hour is quite alot min wage is like 3.25 or something for under 18,s and min wage for over 18,s is 5.25 most people in good jobs earn between 6-8 and hour i know labour friends like building work plumbing ect which here is one of the best paid jobs and they get about 8-9pounds an hour 7pounds an hour is cla__sed as a good pay rate jeesh i only het 6.17an hour and i can live comfortabley i always have quite a bit left over each month after paying bills rent ect buying luxurys which in th elast year i,ve been putting away for baby and now have a few grand saved
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In North America $7.50 is not enough to do anything even if you work everyday all day. I make $8.75 and I'm struggling.
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1 pound= 1.89 dollars. Thats almost twice as much. Im not doing the math but that would be like $10 dollars an hour here which you would not make working in a supermarket as a cashier.
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so am i a liar newbbay?? 6.17 an hour is what i get an hour thats an ok wage here.......maybe its more expensive to live in america?? dont tell me i wouldnt earn that newbbay you opbviously dont have a clue..i mean jeesh 5.25 is min wage for any job an over 18 works and newbaby where did you get that im a cashier from lol
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*reminds self im talking to a retard* angel, i said you wouldnt make that HERE. We've already had a discussion on here abut how much the cost of living varies. But im sure you missed it bcuz it was a drama free dicussion and was way over your head. Though i must say you got awful defensive over something that wasnt even said.
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If you worked HERE, earning what you earn there, after the exchange rate you would be making minimum wage.
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Minimum wage were I live is around $8 bucks. But you'd have to make twice that to afford to live here (Unless you wanna move to the ghetto).... The 8 dollar jobs all go to teenagers and summer job things. Then again, I live in a really expensive area.
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Right here min. wage is 7.50. Jeff makes for example in his business... 75$ just to walk in the door. Then the system check, then a cleaning check, then whatever problem you have, selling parts, labor cost, etc. Here no cashier gets over 8$. But if you work at certain depts you can get more. Like if I was to go in.. my knowledge isn't in any area in a grocery store, but they would have to pay me at least 12 to start. Would NEVER take a job that low in pay though.
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Here minimum wage is $7.25. I got hired in at Walmart at $6.40. When i got hired minimum wage was 5 something. It changed Jan. 1st 2007. After the wage increase i went up to $8.30. I made about $800 a month working part time. Walmart doesnt hire in full time bcuz they dont want to have to offer full benefits. A single person could maybe barely get by, but there is no way a family could live off that. Ryan makes $21.00 an hour and he brings home over $800 a week when not racing. We definately prefer racing more, lol. Thats usually $5000 a weekend.
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