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no teddy they dont have an opinion when they say oh love im sure you can put your own socks on! uuhhhh!! noo!!! do you know what it feels like to do that!u um no they can just imagine! they have no opinion on how it feels to have a baby in your utuers as they dont have one
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angel: ohhhh ok yeah i get it. yes, i'll ask my husband to grab something from the kitchen for me, or bend over to pick something up and he asks me "what are you doing that you can't do it?". i think if i had something to throw...lol. my response is usually "growing your huge baby that's what!"
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angel- we have learned from your stupididty that sometimes people with a uterus need to keep there opinions to themselves, a man can onlyu imagine and thats not there fault, they werent given what we where, so yes they can only a__sume we can put our socks on ect.. but after a while they realize hey maybe i need to give her a hand,
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ashley: i think i know why women were given the uterus lol. could you imagine a man with contraction pains? oh...my...gawd lol. when my husband sneezes, i hear all day "omg i'm sick. my throat is killing me. i'm so sick. i'll be out for a week now!".
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haha Jon does that all the time he gets the sniffles and hes on his way to shoppers haha with dom i woiuld be like my back hurts things like that and he would always tekll me i was over reacting, and then when dom came out hes like woahhhh no wonder you where in sooo much pain all the time ahaha
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lol yeah men can be so funny. my father will get a cold that me and my sisters have all had and say things like "omg if you felt half as bad as i do you must have thought you were dying" lol. and then he'd come home from the doctor "omg the doctor told me i have bronchitis!" and my mother would just one eyebrow him and say "do you realize the girls get and get over bronchitis all the time?". followed by "oh they must have felt terrible if they felt like i do" lol. men are so tender!!
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I feel bad for Jeff, this is the first pregnancy he's experienced since he was in Iraq. He's like "Gosh you poor woman I will never get you pregnant again." lol and last night I said, "Hey, I'll go to work and school. You be me. Clean take care of addy carry Victoria." he said "I love you but no way you've got more b___s than I do" and laughed at me XP
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mat actually tells me he wishes he could have gotten to carry the baby for part of the pregnancy because i have a bad back lol. that is so sweet of him. but i told him it was alright because once she's born, he can carry her all he likes lol.
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lol teddy he,s fine now it he understand that he doesnt have a uterus he,s not having a baby growing inside of you an dif i even bend down i push her further in to my bladder and will pee mylmao!
i hate though for wxample when we,re walking and he,l be like oh dont walk ove that drain you might fall! its cute he,s only thinking of me but sometimes its like im not an invalid!
and oh tell me about tonie has pregnancy symptoms! he has cravings he puts bb sauce on EVERYTHING! and has a thing for chhesy doritos with salad cram! ugh! and then he complains he,s getting fat!!!!!
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sorry to finish off the story.. after the boot reached his head which was funny to me.... he decided not to give me hell anymore .. guess what ladies the man cooks, cleans, do our laundry and just let me sit and put my foot up on the table to relax.. he sometimes give me a sponge bath.... hes a cutie hes young so i understand that he doesnt no alot about what a woman boy goes through when having a baby so i talk to him about everything im going through...
right now the baby is using my stomach for a foot ball field and just kicking away and moving like theres nothing their to stop him.. so pretty much screw my internal organs lol.. one time i got so mad because he was kicking so hard and i said stop it in a stern voice and out of no where the baby actually stopped i was like wow...
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Actually my husband a__sumes it's the worst thing that ever happened to me LOL. He actually feels really bad for he, I had to tell him HEY I can still do things, I just need to take a break here and there. I'm happy to go through all this because at the end of the day I am in love with him touching my tummy and saying "I can't wait to see you!!" and kissing it. I swear, I fall in love all over again!
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thanks pcfwife yea he,s learnt now! he used to say that to me and i was like i work all day!! but i have a couple of weeks off now and he does everthing i cant remember the last time i done dinner lol! he pulls me out the bath and makes sure i dont slip lol! but since the fall last monday he has been so cute lol....but yea thats why i say no uterus no opinion because i think sometimes they just forget lol! i really hate it when i tell him my fears about labour and he,s just like oh im sure you,l be ok lots of women do it! that makes me mad lol! im like it does not mean lots of women dont tear and rip and cant tell the difference between there a__s and v____a after!! (lmao tmi lol) but yea just because lots of women do it it doesnt mean its not guna hurt like hell!!
and if i tell him imagine squeezing a golf ball out your p___s his answer is yea but my p___s isnt made to push a golf ball out! your v____a is made for a baby yo come out though lol! grrr that makes me mad lol! but that was all at the begining all he has to do is start to say something wrong now and i give him the glare and he shuts uo lol! he,s so excited though! i love it lol!
addy thats what tonie is like now lol i think iots because at the begening i used to scream in graphic detail what its like to have a baby in there lol! isnt it it the cutest thing ever when they do that lol!! its so cute if she,s really moving in there and he goes to feel and she goes back to sleep he gets so upset lol
pcf wife how far gone are you now? do you know what your having i havnt heard from you in ages! did you add me on myspace?
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you want to no the funny thing i stop counting because these people were giving me different days and stuff but i no im behind you angel by a few weeks so im probably 20 weeks or 21 not sure.. november im going to find out what im having so im excited to no......
ive been around but im to lazy to log in so i just read what people say and thats it really.. but im great and i was so worried when you said all that stuff happen to you and you fell but im so glad you are ok and the baby...... i was waiting on you to say its ok to add you to my myspace so ill do it soon as i can.. you will see my husband on there lol he will be in a uniform so you will no its me thats inviting you...
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oh addy lol what you should do is let him lay in your lap and rub his head it makes them feel good.. i do it to my husband because he feels so bad when i cant sleep because the baby is kicking so hard.. i cant wait for me to get further along so they will stop at that point because i dont think my organs will survive.....
funny thing tho i need to ask if the baby is only carrying low and wont move up where most babies are does that mean a boy because everyone keeps saying that it may be a boy because he only stays low which is right on my bladder.. right now im sitting here and hes punching and kicking my poor bruised up bladder,, or what ever organs is down there....
i should be happy because if i was carrying higher i wouldnt no how to take him beating on my liver and what ever else is up there....
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ok pcfwife um i heard that with a boy you belly is more out front and with a girl your belly is more round which is like mine is most days but when she has her head down like in the birthing position and her bum sticking out a few inches above my bely b___ton my belly looks quite out front! babys move all the time atm heidi is standing on my bladder lol she likes bouncing on it and then when she sleeps she turns upside down lol
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also pcfwife i know that here they usually tell you the s_x between 19-20weeks when you have your second scan i know they can confirm it in other scans but thats usually when they try to find out and i know its called an atonmly scan or something or other where they,l try to find out for which is about 20weeks so when you have your scan you,l probably be about 20weeks..............i cant beleive you dont count lol i cound by the day lol i currently have 15weeks 3days left!! but say i went in to labnour at 37 weeks i would have like 12 weeks left lol! or i could go 2weeks overdue and have like 17weeks left! im just going to have a due month of febuary lol!
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