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hi i was wonderin if any1 cud help me, im 14 n a few weeks ago i lost my baby....well...i think anyway. i started bleedin and woz goin backwards n forwards to the doctors who basically told me 2 just w8 n w8. Sum doctors even felt my belly n sed tht i still feel pregnant others sed i had definately lost it. in the end i lost sum substances n woz told it woz definately the end. i started bleedin again a few weeks l8a n lost more substances, i wnt bk 2 the doctors hu sed i need a scan. the midwifes refused 2 giv me 1. i hav now stopped bleedin but im gettin severe pains all ova my stomach. i hav also bin getin rashes on my belly....wots wrong wiv me ????

Worried, If you have miscarriage and all the tissue does not come out, an infection can set in. Is this the National Health Service trying to save money again? Take your temp. Call the first doctor or any hospital and tell them you fear a "septic abortion". That will get their attention. Visit http://www.healthopedia.com/septic-abortion/ (just one hyphen)

thanx grandpa viv

I would just sit her down and calmly tell her that your pregnant.

I have one piece of advice, well 2 actually. first off honesty is the best policy in every situation. if you know that they will chuck your bf in jail dont mention his name. but really it shouldnt come to that . and 2 never ever get an abortion, it is the wrong thing to do and should only be considered in medical emergincies

u cant tell someone that they should never ever have an abortion cuz thats not right its that persons and their partners decision and it should be thought about very very carefully. If ur opinion is that abortion is wrong then fair play to ya coz i think it is 2 but u cannot tell someone that its wrong cuz if thats wot they want then its wht they want

i will tell u my story, it may help.. my cousin got pregnant, and she is the same age as me, and the whole family was ashamed of her.. but my aunt ( her mum) supported her all the way.. and while this was going on my mum and dad b___hed 24/7 about her and that my aunt should hav made her hav an abortion and kicked her out and stuff... not knowing that i was pregnant myself.. i was soooo scared to tell them after what they were sayin about rachel.. so one day i had a big fight with my mum and dad about going to school, and i ran out of the house.. i snuk into my room and got a pen and paper, and wrote them a letter telling them that i was pregnant, and that i had figured out wat to do.. i had got a job at the local grocery store, and i was going to do school at home.. i put all of this into the letter because when they read it maybe they wouldnt be as scared knowing that i had a plan. so i put it on the table when they were at work, and stayed at my boyfriends house that night. i returned in the morning to talk to them about it, i thought they would have cooled off.. but i walked in the door and apoligised for the way i told them, i was just scared.. and my mum walked up to me and just slapped me across the face really hard.. this is when all the yelling started.. she didnt even know i was havin s_x.. so i said FINE... i will move out n u dont hav to ever worry about me ever again, just pretend ur not my parents and that u never had a daughter!!! then i locked myself in my room anf got all of my things, while they were hopelessly trying to get in.. they were becoming so violent with me.. so i grabbed everything that would fit into my school bag and climbed out the window.. i walked all the way to my grandparents house and by the time i got there i had been crying for 3 hours, i looked like hell.. i told them everything and they took me in, i havent looked back since. my parents have since cooled off and want me back home but i have decided it would be best for the baby to stay here.. my grandparents home is a smoke free, pet free, hygenic home, and we were renevating at my mum and dads, and also because my nan does most of the housework instead of making me do it, which is important because i now study all day and work all night and dont have the time.. i do feel bad for not going back, especially because my mum made the most beautiful nursery for when the baby comes, as a way to make me feel i had to come home.. but yea, i am telling you this because, no matter what happens, there is always someone who will care. there will always be someone who will take you in no matter what.

im 14 and hav already lost a baby, does anyone now how long u have to wait b4 u can try again??? plz help i rele need 2 no cuz my boyf keeps beggin me 2 do it now but im not sure how long i have 2 w8, my mum sed 7 months but i no shes lieing plz plz help??????

To "help"- You're 14 and had a miscarriage. Your body is still developing and the most likely reason you lost the baby is because you're not physically ready for a child yet. Cool off and wait a few years until you've matured and finished school before thinking about having a family.

i no all about my body isnt developed properly yet and i may not b mature enough n all the rest of it but i no im ready 4 a baby n i no i can support it n give it the love and care it needs n if a 10 year old girl can have 1 im sure i can but i just need 2 no how long i gta w8??????????????

Im 15 yrs old and im scared out of my mind. my mom has always held me higher than anything becuase im smart. i never thought that i would get my self in this situation, but i didnt. my bf and i just got caught up in the moment. hes gonna stand by me and everything. hes 18 and ive met his mom shes really nice but my mom doesnt know that i have a bf. im not supposed to date untill im 18 so yeah shes really strict about that becuase she didnt want me to get pregnant. but i did and now i dont know how im going to tell her. my boyfriend is willing to be there for everything. but i know shes gonna yell and i hate being yelled at. it makes me fell like im not loved. please give me some advise on how to tell her. i dont want to tell her to her face because shes excpected so much from me. im a really smart and bright kid. i just made some poor decisions.

hi 'a' if u really dont want to tell her 2 her face write her a letter thats what i did i even burst into tears cuz i dint no how she wud react she took it very well and cuddled me cz i woz upset she sed she knows that things like this happen as she woz a teenager once n she went 2 tell my dad while i waited out the front. ur parents will stick by u through this cz its a tough time 4 ya but remember dont do anythin u DONT want 2 do cuz u will rele regret it

to all of you girls on here if you really are that worried and scared and you cant believe you got yourselfs into this situation my advise to you is next time just use a bloody condom then you wont have any of this to worry about

So look at the date this wast posted then you are about to have it or close to december to may that like six month right there so when the baby due I'm pretty sure she know by now. AND GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!