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Have you told your parents who the father is? They must be curious by now.

I came to apologize cuz I have no problem admitting I'm wrong. I realize that no one likes being told their not loved, and for that I'm sry. I stayed up reading all the posts and see how stupid I sound. (Ppl might call me 'soft') but if I'm wrong, I'm wrong.

You need to tell your father. There are millions of pedophiles who get away with this. If you don't turn him in, he will only take advantage of another unsuspecting girl. It's your responsibility to protect the next victims. And there WILL absolutely be others. There is a reason people are put in jail, it's not only to punish people who have done wrong, but protect the people who could have been next. Think about the next girl who will end up pregnant because of his lies... Do you really think keeping this a secret is a right thing to do? If you are open about what happened, you can get the help you need. Not only will you be putting a bad person behind bars, protecting your child, innocent young girls, and even protecting yourself. People who are victims of pedophiles usually need therapy, which will help you get over him and see him for what he truly was. Please, tell your parents immediately. Things will get easier.

i think that you should tell your father then he can tell the cops and take him away you dont want this to happen to some other girl. how much months r u?

I'm gonna tell you a story (well not exactly a story as it's the truth) about one of my friends and her experience, because it's very similar to yours. I'm 26, so's she. When we were 14 she got a 'boyfriend', but I never met him. Bear in mind she didn't actually tell me a lot of this, including his age, until last year. Turns out he was 37, and someone her mother knew. He'd given her all the same jive - he'd be in a lot of trouble so they couldn't tell anyone yet, they'd have to wait til she was 16 to have a 'proper' relationship. He told her using protection was wrong, and that you just deal with things as they come. Of course his way of 'dealing' with things was to demand she got an abortion every time she got pregnant. It turns out the doctor actually turned her away when she came to get her 5th abortion aged just 15. I dunno, maybe he thought there was just something not right with a underage girl coming to get an abortion every couple of months! He also raised his concerns with her mother. Doubt he 'should', but I guess it's a good job he did. My friend wouldn't tell her mother who the father was. When the man realised that she was going to have to have the baby, he told her how disappointed he was in her and that she had made him not love her anymore. He REALLY hurt her. Within months he had another underage girl pregnant, my friend didn't tell anyone, so he was free to go destroy some other girls life. As far as she or I know he could still be out there doing it. He moved away I think. I hope you can see where I'm going with this. People like that just don't stop, they have something wrong with them. I know you still have feelings for him, but to let him get away with this is giving him licence to go do it to someone else. If you don't feel you can tell your parents, tell another adult you trust. Your dad is going to be angry, you're still his little girl, and his own friend has done this to you. My friend has been hit hard by all this, to be honest her head is totally messed up. She has her daughter, but they don't have what you'd call a nice relationship. She's still having counselling all these years later. It just shows what these sick blokes do to girls.

hey sweet. really glad to see your doing good! keep me posted on how your pregnancy is going.. genna xxx

I think the best thing for you sweeta__s is to tell your parents and get him out of your life. It sounds hard and harsh but you will be thankful for it later. Your parents will find out eventually. The truth always comes out. As horrible as it sounds maybe you can try to cut them a deal. like "If i tell you can you try to treat me with a little more respect?" As for this thread i am tired of seeing it and everytime sweeta__s post it will just stir up peoples nasty opinions towards her, so sweeta__s, next time you come to give us a update (hopefully soon) why dont you post a new Thread so we can let this one die down, so you dont get jumped on so much. Its time to let it go and move on. Hope to hear from you soon. : )

Can you say CHILD MOLESTOR?? hello!? omg I was a bit naieve when I was 15 as most young girls are but not stupid. Are you just really h__y at 15 or desperate for love and attention from a man and this guy sounds like a real WINNER to get a 15 year old girl pregnant. Do the right thing and tell your parents about him and the baby and give this baby a chance at a good life w/ a good family (adoption) or abortion but I am not a fan of using abortion as a form of (birth control)

This is one stupid (expletive) now wonder she is knocked up at 15 and w/ a child molestors baby who I am sure is a "real winner" to say the least. Where is this girls mother and father?