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First off some of you that are putting Grandpa Viv down must be newcomers or something. He has always given very accurate "appropriate" advice and he has been on here forever. I would rather take advice with someone who has a matured outlook on these sort of things. Seriously if you are on this site chances are you are having s_x so why are you guys sitting here acting like this is the most disgusting thing ever? As for Beckyhoose, its pretty much just how your body reacts to stimulation and arousal. I have that problem sometimes and being so lubricated does take away alot of sensation as opposed to actually having some friction. If you feel yourself getting too wet just stop and wipe yourself off alittle and see if that makes a difference for you,

Oh he does give wonderful advice and I'm not a newcomer, I just don't think that he should be giving advice as to how to arouse her boyfriend. I don't think it's appropriate at all.

thats exactly what i think addy, i mean i know his advice is good but this man could like be getting aroused by young girls questions, seriously dont be fooled just because he gives good advice im not pointing this towards grandapa viv just any one dont be so gulible when it comes to men on the internet, if you dont know them like none of you do then dont trust them to be decent

I've come to this site for over two years and yes, I know he's been here longer than I. Does he have some good info? Sure. I just find some of his comentary innapropriate and sometimes rude.

Angel..I cant help but laugh at your last comment. Dont take that the wrong way, I know you have good intentions telling young girls to watch their backs with men on the internet and you are absolutely right. But I am hardly gullible. I am a 25 year old woman who knows how to take care of herself =). But from my interactions with Grandpa Viv, I have trust in him that he is honorable. But that is my view of him. I can not change yours or anyone elses.

Please show me my post where I have said I didn't like anyone on here.

youlickwindows: yes, but what he says is so textbook and some of the comments he makes are a bit crude coming from a man his age. if he'd cut off his right arm for us, tell him to just cut himself out of these forums. we don't need him. and i can say i've been here since 1900 but it isn't trackable, so say all you want. i think you're full of it. **melissa** you should read his site. it's not openly gross, but he puts some pretty graphic stuff on there and he isn't a doctor in any way. he's just some old guy that got interested in teens having s_x. there's something wrong with that. **amanda** actually, he has emailed teens before and bothered them and spoken inappropriately to them. according to a girl that it happened to. and he has said a few times if people want to talk to give him their email. why? he's not a doctor. he has not business trying to talk about such things on a personal level with a teenager. **melissa** no he's not crossing any legal borders, but he is stomping all over ethical ones. and no teen needs advice from a grey haired man on how to seduce their guy. and being 25 doesn't make you impervious to weirdos on the net. women in their 40s have been tricked by men before from the net, so don't use age for anything. it means nothing. you're still learning life anyway. **angel** this guy is as sus as it gets. i think we could all live without his "pearls of wisdom" considering everything he says is pretty much from ttc for dummies. **KaseyA** nah, i've been here for years. i didn't mind his comments before, but after a while they started changing. his advice is good, but he slips and says things that just make you wanna say "ew". he can give all the advice he wants, but not on things like how to seduce a man. there are lines he's crossing and he isn't needed.

I do find his HELP very helpful but as I said previously I think it's wrong for a man of his age to be giving out advice as to how to arouse a young boy. I don't think that is appropriate.

Oh, hm. What did he say to her?

its futher up this post somehwere amanda, mellisa just because your 25 doesnt mean you wont get fooled, you should defo watch out for men on the net if thats your att_tude, i mean how if you cant see how what he,s doing is wrong and really he is doing something a pervert on the net would do then you should really watch out in future

I dont mind grandpa viv..but i just dont think its appropriate for a man to give this kind of advice but....you know..at least he answered the question instead everyone else just said...ew..and stuff..i dunno but he did advise about the wetness and the effect it had on the condom..so he was trying to do well.

Angel, I know what to look out for, thank you. Our opinions differ about grandpa viv and you will just have to accept that. I have spoken with him many times over the years and that is how I have formed my opinion of him. You do not feel the same way and that is fine. You can direct your lessons on internet safety towards someone else.

If hes so "innocent", why isent he on here defending himself??

everyone has their own opinion of grandpa viv. But the only thing that I can think of about him not defending himself is that he probably thinks it would be completely ridculous to try and justify himself to people who dont care for him anyways. He is an older man and does not get wrapped up in this sort of drama. He says his piece and moves on. He is not here to prove anything to anyone.

Anyways..this is going to be enough from me here about grandpa viv. Everyone is ent_tled to their own opinions. Some of us think hes a perve, some of us think he gives great advice and is straight foward. So it will be an ongoing, neverending issue and I am pretty much finished saying my piece.

Agreed melissa. I mean i dont think its appropriate either but i'm not going to stick pedo on his forehead. After all thats what my dad did to my husband and its not a nice feeling. I think hes just trying to help...and he normally gives a response to posts that no one else bothers with. I dont approve but i'm not going to hang him for it.