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They think that having a baby would be fun, like having fully interactive dolly. What they don't seem to realize is that once they no longer feel like playing mommy to this ''dolly'' they can't just toss it aside as they would another outdated toy. Another thing they don't realize is cost behind this new ''dolly''. They don't seem to understand that unlike the dolls they are used to playing with, this baby will require real food, real diaper that will constantly be used, real clothes that will be outgrown as soon as they are bought. They think that they can handle it. I mean how hard can it really be? Working, taking care of a baby, taking care of yourself and paying bill all while maintaining the grades needed to graduate is a piece of cake right? Or even better yet, drop out. I mean who really needs a high school diploma anyways, right? Oh wait, that's right, everyone does. Deciding to bring a child into this world isn't as light of a decision as picking out what shoes to wear with that cute little Hannah Montana shirt that mommy just bought you for your first day of eighth grade. And how is this child going to handle things psychologically as it grows with a mommy like this, one who no longer cares now that they have grown tired of child and frustrated with it for not being able to have a normal social life? Oh wait, I forgot they never think that far ahead. Who cares if the child grows up with psychological damage because mommy didn't love it? I care, that's who, and plenty of other wonderful mothers care. If you can't even take care of yourself how the hell do you expect to take care of a living thing that is completely dependent upon you for survival? You can't so stop thinking you can. Just because your body is capable of bearing children doesn't mean that you should. Grow up while you can. Trust me it won't last as long as you think and once it's gone there is NO getting it back. ~Meygan~

you go girl! thats amazing and i agree with you entirely.

I agree, it always seems like there are a few girls, age 15 or 16, at any given time who are trying to get pregnant. And their only arguement is that they just really want one. They seem to be absoutly clueless on what being a parent really means. It's scarry to think about what is being taught (or not being taught) at school and what is going on at home. My high school use to have a cla__s where they would give out these baby dolls that would cry at random or if conditions weren't right. I didn't take this cla__s but some of the girls that did were exausted b/c this thing would keep them up all night, and that was just a doll imagine the real thing. I know accidents happen sometimes and there are wonderful teen moms out there but no one in high school should be activly trying for a baby.

yeah,thats true, i mean, i was pregnant 2 months after i turned 17, but had a miscarrage. i know if i had the baby it would have been wayyy to hard. id like to make sure im married before i have a baby. i REFUSE to be one of those mother who have to struggle because the babies father cant be a man and take responsibility. thankfully i have found an amazing guy, engaged, and getting a pregnancy test on Wednesday. haha

So that makes you so much better, because you have found a man and are **engaged** and getting a pregnancy test on wed.? Couldn't wait till **marriage** ?

i agree addy i dont understand these people that think because there married there perfect to have a child! (this isnt aimed at you addy lol) i mean where i come from marriage before babies isnt a must do thing, and what makes you think if you are not married then the guy will not be responsiable ect!? im 18 was ttc and am now pregnant im not married does that mean my bf is going to leave me to be a single parent? i think all that matters whan having a baby is that you can finacially afford it be phisicaly and mentally able! i dont like the fact that cupcakebabyy and CapaxInfiniti look the same..............hmmm (scatches chin)

I don't think what you are doing is bad at all, angel. I mean heck, I graduated high school early at 17. I got married. I moved out, I even took cla__ses in college. I had my daughter and now almost 2 years later we are expecting our 2nd. Is that so terrible? I'm not relying on anyone other than myself and my husband. Never have pa__sed 17. I'm financially. emotionally, and mentally stable to take care of my daughter and another of which that is what we are doing. I love kids, and she is my baby girl and I take beautiful care of her :) She is ALWAYS happy... always fed always clothed. Does that make me sooooo terrible? To be a wonderful mother and wife? Sure I'm only 20 but does that make me stupid? No! I am doing everything the right way and I love my life and my family. We can support another baby on top of my daughter plus still do the things we wnat to do when we want to do them. I think I have a pretty good life!

exactly addy!! my kitten os so sweet lol she slleps on my shoulder!! i have more pics of her on my myspace

sorry but cpaxinfiniti.....this post has no point. we all know that sometimes people aren't perfect. especially when they dont have people to guide them.

Angelmonkey, I would like to clarify before this gets out of hand that I am NOT cupcakebaby. I would rather not be dragged into the center of a dramatic scene. Insults and hostility are flying and I don't want to be in the line of fire. PreciousBaby, I can't say I see how my responding post to cupcake was pointless. I made a statement of opinion based upon her post, that was it. I do agree with Teddy that maturity makes the parent. I know a few young mothers who are, by far, the best I've seen. But they are an exception. For the majority, these fourteen and fifteen year olds who suddenly decide that they want to have a baby wouldn't make very good parents. I'm not saying that they can't do it, rather that most of them won't. I don't wish to cause problems on this site as I rather like it here. I apologize is I have offended anyone. ~Meygan~

I really really hope you aren't pregnant, OP :) ( original poster ) that would be AWESOME because you're a dumb b___h :D

There's the old tess! hahaha

Sorry but capaxinfiniti.. i accidently got your post mixed up with cupcake baby. lol i didn't have my gla__ses on when i read it. Cupcakebabyy..Your an idiot. you think your better than them because your baby didn't live and you had the option to wati until you were ''engaged''. Sure its not a good idea that some of these children are wanting children, but it is actually more common than you think and tahts normally the age that it hits at. The mother feeling or the longing for motherhood. Now they have no one to guide them so of course they are going to make mistakes..but you are no beter than them because you actually 1. got pregnant 2. and are trying now becayse you think its okay even though you are ''engaged'' . Try getting married, and seeing how hard it actually is..before you get engaged while bringing a child into it.

wow i was b___hy when i posted lol

notice cupcakebabyy doesn't say her age at all. probably she's like 18 now and thinks she can talk down to all the younger girls. what a cow lol.