FEFER 1 PART 3

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fefer1 - June 14

hi again - I've been getting contractions for the last hour now. Starting to time them but they last about 45 seconds at a time. Rachel is in bed now so I can be more focused. I might take a bath too!

 

mjvdec01 - June 15

That is great. Maybe you will have a baby here really soon. Hey, did they check you while you were at the hospital earlier? Are you still at 5cm or are you 6cm by now?

 

HeatherIsHopeful - June 15

just wanted to let you know, incase you havent talked to her... Heather had her baby!!!! Levi christopher was born june 15th at 3:51am he was 9lbs 11ozs! Yay fefer :)

 

mjvdec01 - June 17

How are you doing? I was going to call, but I am sure you have your hands full. I'm alright, just tired of being pregnant and my sciatica is bothering me. I wore Maddy out today, and agian, no trouble putting her to bed. The last few nights I have had to take Tylenol PM to get to sleep and stay asleep. Anyway, when you get a chance I would love to hear how little Levi is doing.

 

mjvdec01 - June 17

It is almost 9am, and Maddy is still sleeping. I forgot to ask Jimmy to bring me a banana before he left for work. Now I am stuck upstairs because of how loud the gate is, with NOTHING TO EAT! Hopefully she will be up in the next 30 minutes or so, or I will have to wake her myself. How are you holding up?

 

mjvdec01 - June 17

I saw the photos. What a chunky monkey! He is so cute, I love those cheeks. You sure did have a lot of visitors. I never had that many people in the room at one time when I had Maddy. I can imagine how happy you are. How is Rachel adjusting? Is she showing any signs of jealousy? That is my biggest fear when we bring Nathan home. How are you recovering?

 

fefer1 - June 17

hey there - I'm doing ok. My b___t still hurts but it's getting a lot better. :) Percoset is great stuff! We took Levi to his first appointment today and he is perfect! :) The doctor said we didn't need to come back for our 2 week since he's so good but I have to have some other test done either at the pediatrician's or at the hospital - and the pedi is closer. He's a healthy little bugger for sure! He's down to 9 pounds 1 ounce but the doctor says that's normal for such big babies to lose weight like that. Other than that - he sleeps a lot, doesn't cry much and has been really good. Except for last night. I was ready for bed at 10pm - went to put him down and he decided to wake up and eat - and eat and eat. Every time I put him down he wanted to eat some more or be burped. I started getting crazy cuz I was sooo tired!!! Tim got a pacifier out and that worked for about 5 minutes - just enough time for us to fall asleep. Finally Tim took over since I was turning into a monster - haha- and I fell asleep for about 45 minutes - then he was up again. I ended up getting a bottle and some formula and he had about 5-6 gulps and burped and was out for the night. I woke him up at 8 to feed him. :) I think he was finally hungry and I don't have enough in me to satisfy him yet - and he was ripping my b___bs to shreds sucking so much in such a short period of time! My milk is starting to come in today though so he should be a happy camper tonight. We'll see. Rachel is pretty uninterested at the moment - he's just some new thing in the house. His car seat buckles are more interesting to her. We went to McDonalds today after Levi's appointment and let her play for a while - and she actually fell asleep on the way there at 10:30! She was soo wiped out from this weekend and being sick - still. Poor baby. Then last night when we got home she ran to see the balloons, slipped, fell on her chin really hard. Today she has a horrible bruise on the underside of her chin. I thought she had just eaten something purple but nope, she's bruised. Tim has pretty much taken care of her this afternoon too. I napped when she did and then Tim got her up and took her outside for a bit and then they went for a run. Just got back too so I need to go so we can eat dinner! I"ll catch up with you again later!!! Hope you can get some sleep and take it easy, the big day will be here soon!!!! Don't wear yourself out!

 

mjvdec01 - June 18

I am so glad to hear that you and the baby are doing so well. When I saw the photos of you and Levi, it made me realize that I am going to have a baby too in the next few weeks. It just made it really real. I know I'm pregnant, but right now it is just this squirmy blob in my tummy. Today was good, but Jimmy is irritating the c___p out of me. He is whinning about being tired and not getting enough sleep. He told me that he wished he could come home one day a week and do nothing but take care of himself and go to bed. That would not work. Maddy wants his attention and I am sorry, but at the end of the day I need a little help. I get so sore by the time evening comes and some days I just can't do anymore. I was pretty fine all day today, then this evening when I took Maddy from him to get her in her jammies, I started getting this bad crampy feeling way down low and it wasn't letting up. I was having a really hard time just standing to get her dressed for bed. By this time it was about 8:20pm and Maddy still needed her banana and her juice while she watched Backyardigans. I brought her in to our room to watch and Jimmy wanted me to just put her to bed without any of it, because he didn't want the cartoon on. I told him no. What the hell does he care anyway, he was just playing with his stupid phone anyway?! Maddy had her banana in her hand and a few times it touched his arm and he would flinch like it was just the worst thing ever. After the cartoon and her snack I told him that I would get her teeth brushed, and could he please do the easy part and read her a story? He had the nerve to say to me that he had already done "all of it", whatever that means. I told him that all he had done so far was throw her in the shower with him. I got her out dried her off and got her jammies on- remind me again of the definition of "all of it"! He got really p__sy and and says, "I guess". I told him that I really don't think he understands what it feels like to be 35 weeks pregnant, and he said that he does because he hears about it all the time! I told him that I do the best I can and that if I could do more I would. I know he doesn't get the rest he needs, and he is stressed at work, but come on. I am huge pregnant at home from the time I get up until about 7:30 at night all alone with a toddler who wants to go, go, go all the time. Not to mention I am doing all the housework, and constantly bending to pick up toys and whatever else is on the floor. I made a suggestion to him last week, that he designate one day a week to take the 7:30am train instead of the 5:15am to give himself some extra sleep and he always has a reason why that won't work. What else am I supposed to do? He really upset me and I don't think he realizes how much. I think I am going to send him an e-mail to read once he gets to work. I am sorry to vent, I couldn't help it.

 

mjvdec01 - June 18

I got a really appologetic e-mail from him this morning, and he feels awful about his behavior last night. All better now. How's the baby??

 

mjvdec01 - June 19

Hey, I know you are busy. Just wanted to check in. I don't want to call you at home and bother you right now. Anyway, Jimmy is going to work his schedule so he can work from home part time until the baby is born. He is gone anywhere from 14-16 hours a day and that is just too long for me right now. I am so glad he said he would and could do that for me. I hope you and Levi are doing well. If I don't hear from you soon I will try calling on sunday to see how you are holding up. Hopefully you are getting some rest and Rachel is behaving and not sick anymore.

 

fefer1 - June 19

hi there - we've just been so busy running round! Dr appointments and follow ups for me. ugh..and playing with Rachel as much as possible. My computer was acting up too - something with the battery. I think we have it fixed now. I've also been sleeping a lot when I have the chance - recovery mode!!! Got to do it when Tim is around. :) Sorry about Jimmy and all that. be right back - Levi is demanding my attention for the moment. :)

 

fefer1 - June 20

ok I'm back. So anyways, sorry again about your family woes. :) Guys just don't get how tired we get being pregnant and forget that being a stay at home mom is a 24 hour job - not an 8-5 job or whatever it is he works. Glad you guys have worked things out. Just wait till after the baby gets here - then you guys will really have something to argue about! We've had our moments late at night. :) haha...we are ok though, Tim knows I am a major grouch when I don't get sleep. Lucky for us, Levi is a LOT better than Rachel was by far! I know things can change but I really think he's going to be a bit easier. I don't know how I'm going to manage once Tim goes back to work-it's hard enough with him around trying to manage Rachel AND a baby. ugh...anyways, I need to catch up some emails and stuff. I'll be checking back later. Hang in there - you're in the home stretch!!!

 

mjvdec01 - June 20

Glad to hear from you. I know it is hard having a new baby at home, regardless of their temprement. Maddy was an angel from the time she was born, and I was still tearing my hair out at times. As of monday, Jimmy will have a new schedule that will make things better for me. God it feels like these last 5 weeks are going to last forever. Next thursday I have my first internal check and I am hoping for some progress. My baby shower is this saturday, but I have to drive to Everett to my mom's. Anyway, it sounds like you are doing well and Levi isn't giving you too hard of a time. I'll talk to you later.

 

raiken - June 20

NOt to b___t in but I totally hear ya! My hubby gets up at 3 am to deliver papers and then has a fulltime job after so all I hear is whinning. I do agree he is tired BUT so am I! I take care of a newborn all night (he doesn't get up at all! ) And a 3 yeard old and a 5 year old I can't wait to see how well he does when I go back to work. I work second shift so he gets to deal with all 3 all by himself !!

 

mjvdec01 - June 20

Sometimes men need a 'wake-up-call', to put them in check. My husband is a great guy and, is completely immersed in being a daddy. He just has a very intense, stressful job and is in the process of hiring 3 new employees to get ready to be able to take time off after the baby is born without a million calls a day from the office. To an extent I need to give him a break, but, it has just gotten to be too much for me and I had to tell him. Starting monday he will be working part time from home, so that is great. He won't get as much done, but that is just the way it has to be for these last few weeks. You certianly have your hands full with with three kids now. We are done after this one. I don't really like being pregnant, I just want the baby. LOL.

 

fefer1 - June 20

our pooooor men. :) Actually, when Rachel was born my husband was working his full time job at Boeing, teaching his regular night cla__s which was two nights AND had taken on an additional cla__s which was one more night a week. At first we thought it would be not so bad but after Rachel was born I would practically toss her into his arms when he got home. :) He never complained though poor thing!!! I was a mess but he is much better on no sleep than I am. Even without a baby I need my ZZZ's. Ok - got to run to the store while rachel is napping. she got up at 6am after cry ing all night and fell asleep on the couch at 11:30 watching a sesame street movie. She's never done that before!! Ok -see ya later!

 

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