July Mommies Chapter 3 Part 5
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Ok girls - we definitely needed a new thread - I am 31 weeks today! or is it 32 if he changed my due date??
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YAY! Congrats Tina :) Thank you for the new thread!
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Hi everyone.. i came from the docs not too long ago.. and to be honest i feel like c___p. Last night i was in so much pain i felt weak and i think the morning sickness is coming back. Heartburn is a killer.. so doc gave me some prescribtion for it because i cant take it no more. Lia is moving so much but builds up so much pressure on my upper right side it hurts so much.
Im just all in pain... i dont feel the same. But Doc says im ok just to becareful n to let him know anything different. im 30 weeks today ! 10 more weeks to go.. i dont feel so thrill really i saw a girl start having contractions at the office n the doc was holding her hand n she was crying. i wanted to cry i really did. I kept my tears in because i didnt wanna break down. ugh i feel blah.. i wanna cry so much
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Good morning ladies! How are you all feeling? I am in a horrible mood today. Jordan is trying to get his 3rd tooth to come through so needless to say it is hell at my house. He got a bad diaper rash to go with it, and a cold so we dont get much sleep. I am tried and cranky. The one guy at my work that I cant stand is especially getiing on my nerves. I hope thye let me go home early today to maybe get some rest. Welcome new ladies. My name is Crystal and I am prregnant with number 2. It is a boy and we are naming him Ely Artemus. My other sons Name is Jordan. The two will be 10 days short of being a year apart. I am due the 12th of July but have a c-section scheduled for the 7th of july if I make it that long. PRECIOUS: I totally understand how you are feeling today. I have been feeling overwhelmed a lot here lately. Some days I just wanna break down and cry. we got to keep our head up though because when we get upset then our babies get upset and it all goes down hill from there!
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I know i've been trying so hard. I mean i have been pretty calm but last night my dh got me so upset because his brother got the new Grand theft auto game n they are all into it, and when i needed him he wasn't here. I think that was where i broke because i just got so upset and just knowing that the weeks are getting short just scares me.
But im trying.. ill do my best today to eat well n stay calm..
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I understand how that is. My hubbys brother came to live with us, and it seems likethey are always together and that there is no time for me anymore. I have to take care of Jordan my 9 month old all by myself and somedays it is too much for me. I feel like crying but Jordan is really attached to me and i know if I get mad or upset then he will too. I just wish that men understood how much we really need them!
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JULIA - why so blue? Because you feel so bad? I know this is going to sound crazy but - go do some mall walking or something that gets you moving plus Lia might move into another position that will help relieve some of your pain....other than that I can't offer any other advice - I have been living on tums the last couple of days with bad heartburn myself and to top it off I have been craving spicy foods!! ARRGGHHH Cheer up honey this is the home stretch - our little ones will be here soon. CRYSTAL - I forgot about how hellish it can be when a little one is teething....maybe you could accidentally elbow that annoying guy in the face - like walk by and trip or something ??? LOL Or accidently stomp on his foot - come on girl be creative I am sure you can get at him some way or another ...LOL or pull a fart and run! that will teach him to shut the hell up! LOL my advice to you both is - if you need to have a good cry - then let it out - you will feel so much better once you do......lately I have been emotional since my mom and dad will be leaving May 12th they were at our house on Monday night and my mom was so stressed she was crying and I was trying not to so she wouldn't feel worse well we got in bed and I started bawling my head off and my poor dh was like WTF? I told him I was trying to be strong for my mom and if he wouldn't mind maybe he could just hold me and not make fun of me - he did and I felt so much better - I woke up feeling like a champ so girls let it out - now is the time to cry about nothing if you want to.....we are almos there girls - once we have our little ones we will be saying how much we miss them inside of us...LOL
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Yeah They wont.. unless its something critical! but Men r men.. Lately ive been seeing some baby's at church teething n you can just see it in there face how much irritation they r in. So poor Jordan i know he must be so uncomfortable. you cant put any gum soothers on him??
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I was at the bus stop Tina.. and i thought about it i thought about walking around or going to my moms. but i just felt so awful with back pain I thought i'd just come home.
I honestly think that my Upper Ribs is Lia's favorite spot she just clings there n hangs out till later she moves away. i guess she loves it there lol.
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Oh yea.. i gotta question i might ask it on the confessional thing.. Ive been pressing on my stomach.. well i always do it to move her around. But is it bad? like pressing to much i dont press hard but i always have a habit of doing it.. like i can feel parts of her body n she moves but i dont think im harming her.. but should i stop?
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CORS: Thanks for the advice. i should try that. He already has horrible breathe so maybe if I fart it will make his breathe get better. LOL,,, PRECIOUS: I dont know if that is bad, but I do it too. I give Jordan tylenol when he is so irritable he just cant stand it anymore. I tried the teething tablets but they didnt seem to work very well for me. His babysitter said to use bag balm on his b___t so hopefully that will heal up here soon! Thank you both for starting to cheer me up. I have a bad habit of putting up a front in front of the people I work with.
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Oh boy do I understand how you all are feeling. I've been an emotional wreck lately and really do think it is hormones. I've been such a naggy biotch lately and I can see why Jessie wants to go and hang out with his friends a lot. He also has 2 brothers, one of which he spends a lot of time with so I understand that too. I know he needs HIS time and I need MINE, but it just seems that everything he does p__ses me off and I vent, then feel terrible later after we fight. I'm really really trying to keep it in check, but sometimes it's like I'm possessed, lol
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well i had to take the bus to my appointment and then back but when i wasthe Metro Station, i was walking back n forth thinking which bus to take.. the one to take me home or my moms.. lol now to come think of it its kinda funny.. becuz i had to walk across the station to take the one 2 go to my moms n since i was already on the side for the one to go to my house i didnt go. i was too lazi n bummed out to walk a lil more..
how pathetic of me lol ...
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Ive notice around the 5th month my mood swings clam down i barley provoke fights.. or at least get smart with him. ive been really keeping it low key n keeping things to myself.. i thought about flipping out last night but i was like what for .. i actually think that my additude issues has gotten bettter since ive been preggo.. hopefully i'll maintain it after birth.. its helped us alot.
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LOL STEF/JULIA - I know that you don't want to keep taking your hormones out on your honeys but remember IT'S OK - we all have days just more of them when PG - LOL letting your emotions out is the best - JULIA - that is exactly what I pictured in my head - you pacing deciding where to go... too cute! well hugs girls and hey I got rid of some items on ebay! WOO HOO!!! that's some extra cash I have have a bunch more stuff I can list!
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yah new thread i read everyones posts on the old but haven't read here; i figured id let you know that-- i have dr tomorrow ill update when i hear the news. tina wtf diasbaility i want it for iowa? what do i have to do or search (myspace it to me if you could) thanks i will need to look into that.
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The states that have federal laws that provide for the short term disabled are Hawaii, New York, Rhode Island, California and New Jersey.
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