July Mommies Chapter 3 Part 6

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Precious - May 8

i hate to come here and bring bad news always.. its just pathetic of me.. but i feel like i can say anything here and no one will judge me or anything like that.. i cant wait 4 my shower i know it will be some what of a relief in the mist of this im looking for a rental car but its so expensive since im only 22!

 

stefkay - May 8

JULIA, I'm so sad to hear what you are going through as I know I've had some pretty emotional moments in this pregnancy and it is SCARY! Please do what is best for the BABY right now and not your dh. I know you love him and want to be there for him, but is there any way he could come with you to your mother's if it is kind of a safe haven, or neutral ground? You need to be in a calm place. I don't know what can be done about his family other than him trying to ignore them. Do they live nearby or something? I'm so sorry, just keep talking about it as that helps more than anything! Oh and if you have more physical stuff like cramping, etc. please go to the ER and don't ever worry about them telling you it is nothing!!!!

 

stefkay - May 8

HELLLLOOOO, Ok I put up 2 new belly pics on the piczo!!!! 32 week shots. I didn't realize my last ones were at 27 weeks. I feel incredibly monstrous compared to 27 weeks, but the pics don't seem to show how much bigger I am (I know I will be the size of a house soon, but right now I am a good sized cottage I think, lol!) :D

 

Precious - May 8

Stef they live upstairs and all his sisters come over every day its a full house everday. I wish we can leave to my mom he wants 2 but her house is full.. she lives in an apartment with my 2 younger brothers n her mom n her nephew. ive been calm all day just woke up from a small nap.. im just gonna eat and watch some tv..no one is home they all come home at the same time. So, im hoping that when my DH gets home we can go the mall n kill time n come home late so we dont have to hear those ppl upstairs and just come to sleep. I hope it works out he hates going out after work but i really need to be out in peace.. thanks alot ill try my best to be good and calm

 

Precious - May 8

STEF- The pic on the right she looks more popped out its so adorable!! almost there..

 

kendra.marie - May 8

hye ladies okay i know right age is suppose to mature us but i guess having KIDS is the thing that helps with maturity & thats not always the case lol. my friends that have kids understand what i mean others that dont & just drink n party n be whores (if they chose) just irritate me because they dont know what being an "ADULT" really is. right but whatever. new subject. well school/nursing home went well today; we had to give bed baths to the residents; dress them groom them; feed them you know normal actiivities for us but all that took us 4 HRS (the day was half gone already (& well cla__s had ended) its so unreal how long it takes for those things on an older unhelpful person) but i enjoyed it my day went well. im EXCITED like 1 day till our SHOWERS YAH!!!!!!-=]

 

cors1wfe - May 8

JULIA - this is the place to come when bad things happen we are here for you....you come here and cry on our shoulders - everything is going to be ok try to calm yourself for your sake as well as your seet baby's sake! Remember this too shall pa__s.......and that which does not kill us make us stronger - I know that sometimes in bad situations we feel like we are going to die but we aren't going to die we are only stronger after it's over....look at the bright side you will be a stronger person for it!! STEF you are gorgeous girl and so studious looking and cute with your gla__ses....I can't believe how much you and KENDRA have changed - skinny broads! LOL KENDRA - yes kids really make you grow up when you choose to do the right thing and raise them......I know I grew up alot when I had my son and I was 23.......Ok so I also posted a new photo on piczo.....wow we are all getting so big it's so nice to see how we have all progressed....Ok so I think my mom has successfully washed, dried and put away every piece laundry we have with the exception of the ones we have on our backs...LOL our drawers are loaded and closets are full....I knew there was a reason I only do laundry once a week LOL my clothes don't fit when they are all clean.....I got Megan's room almost ready for crib and changing table I cleaned the carpet in there and got toys situated just one piece of furniture needs to come downstairs once my parents leave with all of their c___p...LOL ....my mom started crying again today......so of course so did I it doesn't last for long but it still sucks - tomorrow I am not sure what we are going to do there isn't anything left to clean and no laundry to do...LOL she cleaned our master bath today while I was cleaning the carpet...our company comes tomorrow my mom's best friend of 28 years and my sister and boyfriend will be here tomorrow night! I am getting excited for it all I can't wait to see everyone at the shower.

 

Precious - May 9

Morning!! Thanks Tina.. i sure do feel alot better today. My Dh and i had a calm quiet evening.. we went walking to the store and bought a couple of things so it took our minds off things. Its a new day different mood.. so im good :-) its been pretty quiet here... is it the weather?? lol you girls gotta let me know how ur baby shower went on monday.. since im sure most of you wont be here on the weekend!

 

Precious - May 9

Knock Knock ITS FRIDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! where are you gals?

 

kolleen_caudillo - May 9

Good moring ladies. how is everyone? so who all has gotten their stimulus checks? i did but it was only 300. not the 600 that they said i was getting. but i bring this up to say this, i used turbo tax to do my reufnd and i got the stimulus direct deposited this moring. i know that there was a thread about what to pack for the hospital bag but im wanting ur guys help too. i wanna start to pack mine but dont know what to put in it??? well im getting a new fridge this week end, but till then its like im camping. a cooler and ice!!! atleast my landlord is not charging us for it. my next door neighbor had to pay for theirs. i got a 96 for my final grade in my last cla__s!!! YAY!! =] alright ill check in later

 

stefkay - May 9

TINA, thank you for the compliments :) Makes me feel good because I feel kinda dumpy lately. Mainly b/c I need some sun and I'm always breaking out so bad (it's pretty clear now, but just woke up to some more doozies)...ugh. Oh well, it is TOTALLY worth it! HAppy friday girls!!!!! KOLLEEN, I got my stimulus direct deposited today as well and I also used Turbo Tax. I'm glad, but now it is all going out to bills and stuff. Nothing fun here. I so wish I could hang onto it for maternity leave!!!! Well, back to work for a bit as I'm swamped and I need to get it all done so I can pack to go to my mom's this evening.

 

cors1wfe - May 9

JULIA - I am so glad you are feeling better today - sometimes a day or 2 is all we need to shake things off and get back to normal whatever that means....another busy day lies ahead for us ...lol we have to go to a few stores and try to find a crib after I left my mom decided that she didn't want to order online so we will see what we can find so I can have it now and set the crib up now while she is here...LOL she is too funny.....same for my carseat but we will most likely have to order that online as they did not have any in the stores. I could strangle my dogs they peed on the carpet after i had it cleaned!!! Actuallly it's just one dog doing it and I smack her and rubbed her nose in it ARRGGGG but good news is that the gate is in and pretty soon they wont be able to get in that room....then they will be locked in the kitchen where they hate peeing and pooping cuz it's linoleum......KOLLEEN that sucks about camping but at least like you said you don't have to buy the new fridge...STEF - you my dear are far from dumpy - you are gorgeous and glowing....turly you are...ok girls I am off to get ready.....hugs and happy Friday I'll check in later if I can.....xoxoxox

 

kendra.marie - May 9

mine was 900. 600 for me 300 for my daughter. alot of people here only got the 300 for themselves & i wouldnt be to mad; i mean its FREE MONEY lol. anythings better then nothing, also IRS didn't garnuntee it would be 600 it would be up to 600.(says the thing on irs(dot)gov) KOLLEEN- i haven't started my hospital bag yet (probably will after the shower so i have his home outfit in there); i took the following to the hospital when i had kelsey (diaper bag; with diapers, bottles & formula, bringing home outfit & usually two extra outfits depending how long you stay in the hospital for; also i brought my belongings such as slippers, my clothes, shampoo/conditioner, soaps, deodorant, spray, things like that.)

 

stefkay - May 9

Looks like we dropped down further again, lol! I just thought I'd pop in and see what's up and say hi before we get ready to head out of town to my mom's. I can still check on here if her wireless is working there. It's funny how it never seems to work when we come to visit and I swear it is because my stepdad unhooks it or something so we won't mess with his computer....hmmmm. I want to be able to post about my shower, but if I can't I'll just be back on Sunday evening! It looks like this shower is getting to be smaller and smaller each day. I knew it would be the smaller of the two by far, but with it being Mother's Day weekend there are a lot of girls that can't come :( Out of 25 invited only like 12 or 13 are coming if even that! I'm counting on 8-10. It's ok though because this is more of a family get together with a c ouple of old friends from high school. Next weekend is the big one here where I live. Ok, I'm totally rambling now....HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY TO YOU ALL!!!

 

stefkay - May 9

Tina, I forgot to tell you that your new pic is sooooooo adorable!!! :) It is so cool to look at all of our pics and see how much we've expanded, LOL! I love it! I like that armoire too that is behind you in the your photos. We have one similar in our living room, but I like your's much much better.

 

cors1wfe - May 9

STEF - thanks we have a matching coffee table well huge square table we use for a coffee table.....that matches we got it from a specialty store before they went out of a business and got a great deal - did you see the cradle in the background? My grandpa made that for me 9 years ago for Tristan I am so excited to use it for Megan - oh oh oh and I got my crib today! woo hoo and I think my sis in law is getting my changing table for me...sweet.....Happy Mother's day to you all cuz you are technically mothers...LOL who cares if you first timers are carrying your little ones around on the inside! LOLOL Hugs I'll check in tomorrow after my shower it's going to be great my mom in law really went all out making it look like a teahouse -- it's so cute I'll post pictures...love you guys!!!

 

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