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U know whats funny i was thinking that ... when I have the baby no one cares anymore LOL and that is a funny story about that guy .. how embara__sing ...masturbating LMAO

LOL that actually REALLY reminds me of me and my husband.....just with the roles reversed. I was the one with the kid and my mom hated him. His mom wanted him to leave me alone because she was such a nut when I still lived with her and would call their house and go banging on their door. His dad always loved me though and would go on and on about what a catch I was if we ever had any problems. He was scared of commitment (as in getting married) and we got in a bad arguement one day and he actually told me he didn't love and never had, he just said it the first time and never had the heart to take it back. I applied at U of M and was gone from Virginia in two weeks. It killed him and I guess gave him a serious reality check. I look back and it doesn't seem like he's even the same person he was before that. I think our biggest problem at that time was because I had a child and had to grow up while I was still a teenager and he wanted to act his age, rip and run, and be immature (out b-days are actually only 4 months apart). Either way it all turned well. We got together when I was still pregnant with my daughter so he's been there for her since before day 1. We had our differences, totally different personalities, but at the same time in so many ways we're exactly alike. I actually remember us swearing when I moved that if either of us ever got married we'd have an affair LOL

I am off to bed my legs are aching me from running all around lowes today like a nut case LOL night chickies talk to you tomorrow .. kay try to keep that boy in there ok ! lol night

I guess those corny little sayings were true for us a few years ago all the you never know what you've got till it's gone and if you love something let it go blah blah blah

O wow kay that DOES sound familiar me and my daughters dad's birthdays are 4 months apart lol his is May and mine Sept he turned 21 before me too and then decided he wanted to start going to bars which I didnt like LOL that was another issue - but it was more an excuse not to come home i think ... And he used to say to me .. if we ever marry anyone else we should always have an affair LOL i was like UM no buddy haha I guess thats why any girl he is with he will cheat on with me LOL I however have not had a boyfriend since him so .. He also kinda holds me in a special place cause I have never put any other man in his place i guess is how he looks at it - he had a kid after our daughter with another girl like 3 yrs later and he sat there and cried like a baby to me about it ... now I am having this baby and I think it hurts him but he doesnt say much ...instead he understands I am doing it alone and I think wants to help me - I nver told him who the dad was cause he knows him and has NEVER liked him ...cause years ago when I met him (violets dad) I told dany I was starting to talk to someone and he hated him from that point on haha well they hated each other cause I never let that guy come before dany and so he resented dany and dany resented him for even trying to be with me LOL

Oh and a fun tidbit I got from the NICU doctor since I know we all worry.....babies between 28-31 weeks have a 95% survival rate. He said if I make it to 34 weeks since I've had the steroid shots and because of my babies size he'd have no complications or problems at all......so if I can make it another 2 weeks I'll feel pretty darn good.

As my mind wanders because I'm sitting here with nothing to do, a word of advice.....you might wanna consider shaving your arms because the glue on the tape they use is rutheless. I don't have hairy arms or anything but it looks like I got random patches waxed lol

Kay your hilarious lol 4am? is that when you posted that (arm hair comment) hahaha My daughter has 2 sisters on her dad's side an older sisters and the younger one and they were raised like they are sisters he never lets them say half sister or anything lol and since my daughter started school she would take the bus to his house after school cause his mom would watch her til I got off work so she would see the oldest everyday - he has custody of the oldest daughter - then on wednesdays and every other weekend he has all 3 girls so they are close ... I would definatly do the same with violet they will be raised as sisters none of that half sister stuff lol So I wake up this is rainy c___ppy mess of weather - ugh there goes all the stuff he was going to do for me today he certainly cant paint outside or hang shutters in the rain! I hope he can still do my doors but who knows. How sad ....but this is my kinda luck I guess now who knows when he will be able to come do it again :o(

Aww Thank You Gabby!! That was so sweet of you to say ... I think early on i had no choice but to become independant cause it wasnt about me anymore - funny with becoming a mom does to you....when things get tough you either sink or float u know.. I actually about 4 years ago took a break so for 2 yrs I didnt even talk to men I needed to get to know ME and after that I have never been the same I got even harder to get close too lol I dont think I would ever get together with dany again though ...I love him but i dont LOOOOVVVEEE him like that .. I think what happens is he has everything I want in a man but I couldnt trust him because of who he has become over the years - he cheats on every girlfriend... he swears he never cheated on me and I believe that but who he was then and who he is now ...two totally different men - ahh well who knows Has anyone watched this show 'I know my kids a star' ? Woah ! Those moms are NUTS

So I am sitting here watching TV and quaz was in the living room with me cause dany is installing the back door and quazi barks at every person who walks by like a LUNATIC ..well I happen to look at who he is barking at ...OOooo yeah someone from my home insurance company! They come out to measure the front of the house etc and the guy was just standing there looking at him like NUH UH ! so I am just waiting for the call about me being cancelled lol ugh!

hello all my lovely ladies..... Well kay it sounds like that little boy of yours is pretty excited to get out and experience the world!!! LOL so about 2 more weeks..... And it will be good, right? Little guy is learning patience very early! hahaha yeah dawn.... Dany sounds like he is being a stand up guy ... That is important that chas sees him caring about you too... Awesome. Meanwhile back at my house the same old bs has begun again with my mil.... Waaaaaaa I seriously am not feeeling that great about this whole situation. She hasn't even moved in yet although she stayed over at our house all day until about 9:30 last night. She treats me like 'hired help' and like I'm not even there except to cook, clean, get the kids dressed, yada yada yada. She even referred to me several times last night as the cook and the chef... She said 'this is pretty good... I'd love to hire the cook' she has a certain way of degrading me .... Like my mom always says 'its not what you say, its how you say it' hold on I'll be back in a few minutes ... 'she' is calling for me......

Ha thats funny, well not really but when me and fred tried to get renters insurance we got turned down because Philly is a pitbull. The worst part about that is we aren't even really sure if she's a full pit, we don't think she is. We rescued her when Hurrican Katrina hit. Her mother was shipped up here and was preggo with 10 pups and so we got her, but we have no idea what the father was. I got done work early today, it is so nice to be home by 2, I completely avoided traffic and got a parking spot right out front. I've been feeling so much pressure on my bladder lately. Like if I don't pee as soon as I feel the urge, I actually get shooting pains in my abdomen. As soon as I go I feel better, but it's like I have to be around a bathroom at all times. It's a pain in the a__s, and I can imagine that it's only gonna get worse as I get further along. Oh well. King kept me up all night, he was dancing the jig in there. And you know he must be getting pretty big because his movements are starting to hurt, especially if he bumps the same spot a few times. I think I'm gonna take a nap since he kept me up half the night.

He probably is in there thinking 'hmm i dont recall it being this cramped in here'lol I know I wake up and feel sore sometimes and i think what just happened lol

Disko, there's nothing worse than being made to feel uncomfortable in your own home. You may have to get tough with her and let her know that she is offensive. It gets so tricky with in-laws. You don't want to overstep your bounds, but it seems like she has alraedy done that with you.

Ha I started thinking about giving birth today and I got really scared. I'm actually terrified. Fred told me last night, what if you poop on the table? I was like FRED! I can't think about that. But seriously I'm worried about that.

Oh God and not to be soo gross, but what if it's diarrhea or something, hahahaha. I can't beleive I just said that!