June Mommies Newest Thread
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What I'm sick of is feeling like I'm in labor for the past 4 weeks. I wouldn't mind taking it easy, just being off work and able to get things done around the house and going out a little, it's just sitting in bed or on the couch all day that gets me. My body gets stiff. If the lady is so desperate, why doesn't she agree to let you bring king with you when he's born? I'm a__suming you watch them at her house, so maybe that's an option you could discuss if you wanna continue doing that. You wouldn't have to leave him with anyone and would still be making money.
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Hey ma ... Im not dealing with boys thats her dads problem lol ! I deal with everything else - now if he dont handle it then I will ... and I handle it with a razor blade .. haha you think I jest! I told her if she ever looses her mind and disrespects me because of a boy or any funny business I would shave her head! hey that solves all my problems!
Thats nice that they have that babysitter like that my parents live a hour away I cant get any help from them unless I move close to them which is what they want but I cant do that - that is the mountains and there is no way i can live there.
Gabby I thought she started looking already! You know you should not have to explain yourself to someone else about your pregnancy or made to feel bad thats B.S ! She should really be happy you gave her SO much notice ...well hopefully she steps it up soon so you can have some time.
I just had a potato for dinner with ranch - Yum!
now its almost 8 and i dont dare eat cause I wont be able to sleep.
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That would be more sensible if she really wanted you to be her sitter to allow you to bring king with you ...unless she feels her kids would be neglected or something ridiculous but that would be selfish of her .. then again so it not finding a sitter and making to stay there out of guilt.
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Oh when I went grocery shopping today I bought pepperidge farm bagels big soft yummie bagels for breakfast tomorrow - I got onion and cinnamon raisin and I got b___termilk waffles too ! The doc was telling me to eat more complex carbs to help my body digest better instead of fried etc
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I'm hungry now but don't know what I feel like eating. I think I might throw some Friday's potato skins in the oven. Don't feel bad dawn, our parents are about 700 miles away. I have my sister who always volunteers to help with things but when it actually comes down to it it seems like a ha__sle to her so I never ask unless I'm desperate. I don't really know too many people up here, I tend to keep to myself, it's my man that's mr. popular.
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Yeah I would bring him with me, but her kids are 9, 14, and 16. And she has me carting their a__ses all over the place and I'm not gonna be driving King around like that, especially when he's really little. And Dawn, she told me she started looking 2 weeks ago and then she slipped today and said that she hasn't had a chance to look. She was like Yeah me and John are kinda freaking out because your gonna be leaving soon, I was like um Yeah DUH! Honestly, I'm ready to stop working for them for a little while anyways, the kids get to me after awhile, they are really spoiled. They are like the type of kids that feel like tehy are ent_tled to everything. They think I'm their b___h, and sorry but I'm not anybodys b___h. I'm eating water ice again. Cherry! It's so good!
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Dawn have you ever had Geno's or Pat's cheesesteaks? They are the most popular cheesesteak places in Philly. I think I'm gonna send Fred there later for a cheesesteak and cheese fries!
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Ah well, guess that isn't such a good idea then! Not your fault or problem though! My friend and I were being nosey because I thought the new girl Lucious D looked familiar so we started looking up the new girls online and besides her they're all fake. I still think I've seen her before, but she is from Clarkston, which is about 15 minutes from me and I've worked out there before. Tree is a model, she was on montel and black is terrell owens from the dalas cowboys ex girfriend.
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Gabby yeah that would be awkward then bringing your baby for all that it would be more like your doing her a favor driving her kids around cause Your the one with the baby who requires the babysitting lol I never go to philly .. I dont know my way around over there and everytime I have been there I get lost and wind up in the ghetto .. and how I know its the ghetto is because last time I was there there was this car on FIRE in flames on the side of the hwy lol and no one anywhere .. i was like umm ok then! lol
I always think well for the drive for an hour I rather go to manhattan ... I guess one day I have to check out the good part of philly and get me a good cheesesteak lol
Kay I think that show is ridiculous already - I love how the old girls will ask the new ones .. 'so your attracted to flav' cause they KNOW that is d__n near impossible hahahahaha those new girls are too pretty to be on there for him and they dont even seem interested they act like actresses.
I just watched happy feet with chas lol cute movie!
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Im surprised they need a sitter with their kids being so old - isnt the legal age a kid can be alone 12 or 13? Or is it more like you do other stuff rather then watch their kids like do you kind of run the house too?
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OOO and Kay what you said about how your sister makes you feel I have a friend similar to that - she is the only person I know who doesnt work hardly ever ...now when she moved her she stayed with me cause she couldnt afford a place - then she got a place and worked 3rd shift so I could watch her kids - but every time I needed her to watch chas she would make it seem SO inconvient.. and then she cant hold a job so I will watch her kids for 3 months then at the end of that finally be like ok can you pick chas up for me or something then 2 weeks later after I start to rely on her she quits her job so now it is like she is doing me a favor and it seems like i do nothing for her - she is the type that if you are not activly doing her a favor she complains about doing you one.. hard to explain but you probably know what I mean. She JUST got a job again and was telling me how she was going to have her son watch her daughter well today was her first day so already this morning she is hinting she dont want to leave them alone and she might loose her kids if people find out etc ..hinting so I will Offer..well I am not offering she wants a favor hen man up an ask for it - and to be honest I am sick of her she leaves them kids when its to go out with her man etc etc when its something FUN its ok but for work nooo she needs to inconvience me - this is the same girl who stared to help me paint etc and then drops me in the middle of it cause of every excuse under the sun- she is a mess she is a taker and I am tired of it ... this is the SAME girl who offered to decorate for the shower then complains about it everyday to the point I said I would do it myself. But yet she can go spend 200 bucks on her no good boyifriend for clothes for him to go to ONE even with her ... that she can do but 30 bucks on decorations for the person she asks everything from is too much !
Ok .. ranting.... I must stop now LOL
I can go on and on ... I wouldnt even talk to her if I hadnt known her since I was 5 yrs old .. I have learned to accept her as that family memeber you dont likebut keep around cause they are a part of your childhood .. thats how I look at her but I refuse to keep doing for her - she gets what she gives with me from now on.. and I have said that to her.
OMG another example - I have a car that has a 10k loan on it that she took over I have asked her for a YEAR to get it out of my name and into hers cause I needed it out of my name to refinance my house when I was trying to save it - and she couldnt even hold a job for me for 3 months so she could apply to take the loan over.. good friend huh ..so I got denyed on loan after loan cause myincome was very limited and that extra car note was killing my debt to income. I had to tell her the other day I was doing a bankruptcy and she may LOOSE the car to get her off her fat a__s and finally out to work and take that d__n car out of my NAME!
ugh
ok i did it again I will stop now LOL
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LOL it's ok girlie rant away. I hate even asking my husband to get my check, go grocery shopping, or ask him to get me something to eat. I like to be able to do things for myself so it drives me nuts to have to depend on him so much right now. I feel like I'm bossing him around or something. This house is driving me nuts, but I can only be so mad about it because he's doing everything he has to for himself and for me too.
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hello ladies....... so today was pop's funeral and it was a nice service as nice as those kind of things can be i guess. he was in the service in vietnam and so they did the 21 gun salute so that was pretty emotional. okay well i typed that about 4 hours ago and then i got sidetracked. i just finished making the most d-lish dinner and everyone liked it which made me happy. i made my signature spaghetti with french bread and i made that lettuce wedge salad that i stole from elephant bar. it was so good. now we are all sitting down watching monster inc and my mil is talking right now about 'her friend' who is having a baby and she keeps telling me how 'she' is decorating her nursery and the colors she is painting it and about the nursery furniture. seriously right this minute she is talking all about it! that is so mean. and she is saying how she is decorating in froggies and she knew that is what i was gonna do... how ironic is that? a little too ironic to believe. whatever. that is so mean. how was everyone's day?
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disko - that would have driven me crazy listening to her rant about her friends baby room when she's sleeping you yours. :) Marisol - I did move the rooms tonight but my dh helped big time. We took apart two cribs, moved 2 dressers, a giant desk and a queen sized bed - and hung new blinds and finished painting the ceiling. I'm soooo tired and worn out now. :) But we got it done! Yay! Gabby, glad you got your ring off and I'd keep it off...the swelling can come back and stay at any time. That's what happened to me. I ignored it and then one day it was too late, I was stuck. ok, I need to get a snack and go to bed!!! Hopefully I can sleep - I have been getting that restless leg thing lately - I had it with my dd really bad and it was awful!
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Oh disko how nice of her to rub that in! I love monsters inc, it's a really cute movie. Mike Wizowski! I'd like a little of that spaghetti too please :D happy to hear the servic went well today. Yay fefer on getting everything moved and done tonight! I just wish I could say the same, I feel so behind. Hopefully you wore yourself out enough to get a good night's sleep. I actually have to get up in the morning for my appointment so I'm either not gonna get much sleep or none at all since I go to bed so late.
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Disko I have to say that I love those opportune moments where people open the door for you rather then you having to find a way to bring something up ... I would have jumped on that - Soon as she started talking about it ..in a nice way I would have said 'Really! wow I wanted to make the babies nursery the SAME way but I cant now ...with you staying here and all .. guess my lil man will have to be without the froggies.. ' then see what she had to say - I love LOVE chances to make clear how I feel especially when they bring something up cause then they cant take it as a personal attack... because then you can say 'Well you brought it up' hahaha
O I do it to my 'friend' all the time we will talk and talk and I get my lil digs in there !
So today is the day TODAY is the 8th ! doooooooooo you know what the 8th is?! The 8th is suppose to be the day the neighbors MOVE OUT ...I realllllly hope they move like they are suppose to!
I also have the cable company suppose to come out between 8 and 8 (lol) to move my cable box off the front of my house (looks ugly) ...also my new trash collectors are suppose to come out today and get this garbage .. I told them I had 3 doors woke up this morning and someone took 2 so now I only need one hauled away lol
I hate getting new service with a garbage man they always forget me the first week then I call and b___h so bad they never forget me again haha!
So since I am tied to the house today I will paint my door.
Watch me leave to go take chas to school and the rcn man will come .. ugh
Anyway I am off to make this lunch for the kiddo to take to school be back
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