June Mommies Here Comes The Finish Line
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Hey girls! Woo-hoo I'll be 36 weeks tomorrow!! It seems like the 35th week went by pretty quickly... it's about time one of them did! At first I was a little worried I wouldn't reach full term but now it seems like I will! The results of the ultrasound from a week ago came back... She is over five pounds! It's hard to imagine she used to be microscopic. Anyway, the social security woman called my mom back and asked to set up an appointment for Tuesday morning, so I'll probably go to that right after my routine non-stress test. Apparently she was under the impression that my fiance and I have been living together and were being encouraged to get pregnant... I wonder where she got THAT idea *rolls eyes* He actually isn't even allowed over to my house because every day for about two months my dad would wait outside my house in his truck all day to see if he could catch him over there and call the police. I can't even have someone that LOOKS like him over because the police come within a few minutes! Which, my friend Isaac happens to look a lot like him... So it's really ridiculous. He hasn't been over to my house in about two weeks, and he only stayed for a few minutes to help me bring in the baby shower gifts. He lives down the street with some friends of ours, so I was hoping he would be able to move in with me when Elizabeth is born so we can do the normal "shift switching" that couples do without having to rely on anyone else. We both have school work we have to do so it would be a load off. She can't go stay at his house because they really don't have any room for her. I offered them a pack n' play and they said they had no where to put it. It sucks because he really wants to be a part of it, and I will need the breaks... My mom is refusing just because she's afraid my dad will finally find something worthy of putting us in jail or whatever he has planned in his crazy head. Anyway, I have a cake baking right now I should go check on. I've been cooking like crazy... partly out of boredom and partly out of attempting to be a decent cook by the time Elizabeth will start eating normal food. I was awful at cooking before I got pregnant... But now I'm really good at making spaghetti and meatb___s and I can bake pretty much anything. I made some parmesan chicken last night for my mom, my grandma and my sister and they all said it was really good. I'm glad my daughter won't have to suffer through bad cooking haha :)
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Christie I have a polkadot shirt i wear that matches with the shoes lol you see the pics with those gla__ses i dont even wear gla__ses if i tried to wear those and walk around i would hurt myself lol!! they are magnifying gla__ses haha I hd chinese i got the sweet and sour chicken and it sucked - HORRIBLE i didnt eat hardly any of it .. ahh well i ate the egg roll.. i love those lol I also got a coollatta yummie pants ! I have a ton of laundry to do tonight sheets etc yukie
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amanda what would he get arrested for? I know he is 19 and you are 17 but isnt the age of consent 16 and a half (i guess it might depend on where you live) but either way the ONLY thing he can get arrested for IF the age of consent is 18 is s_x he cant just get arrested for being there. your dad sounds like such a pain.. Im so sorry he is putting you through this. I hope everything goes well on Tuesday!
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The age of consent here is 18, but there's a three years apart rule. Since we are only a year and a half apart it's legal. He really wouldn't be arrested for anything because we haven't broken any laws. I don't know what my dad tells the police to get them over there, but they come every time. It's just annoying to have to explain to them every single time that my dad just makes things up all the time. The one thing we worry about is that he's an illegal immigrant (his parents brought him here when he wasn't even a year old..and his parents became citizens a few months ago, so since he's 18 he has to get citizenship on his own) so there is some chance of him being deported, but so far we have never lied to anyone about his lack of citizenship and nothing has happened so far. He has to go back soon anyways because he's hoping to get citizenship and is speaking with a lawyer about it, he meets all requirements except that he has to enter this country with a green card or visa. That's probably what my mom is most worried about... she's just a worrier and always wants to be on the safe side with everything.
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Dawn, I love Sweet and sour chicken and now I want some. Sorry yours sucked. This lady wants to come over tomorrow and look at the dining room table we are selling but I hope she realizes that she's gonna have to carry it herself. I told her I was 9 months pregnant so I hope she puts 2 and 2 together. We really need to sell that so we can get a table for us. It's a shame that we can't use this table but it's like a cherry oak wood, and all of the wood in our house is light. But this table is in perfect condition and with 6 chairs that still have the plastic from the factory on them, so obviously it's worth $150. She better not try to work me down on the price. That lady picking up the baby stuff should be here around 7, so hopefully she shows. I think Tank is the cause of my high bp. I spend half my day yelling at him, it's so sad.
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hmm, it does suck that yo have to explain that stuff every time... you could probably sue your dad for hara__sment if you wanted to take it that far. there has to be something you can do to get him to stop because you dont deserve that, and should have to deal with it. that sucks about your fiancee... he would get a green card when yall get married, but I imagine you'll be waiting at least till you turn 18 to do that lol I hope things work out.. you deserve much better than this *hug* I wish I could help.
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gabby.. dont let her talk you down on your price! $150 is a bargain for a nice table with 6 perfect still plastic covered chairs. hopefully she brings someone to help carry it lol.
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I know, I told her i was preggo like 5 times, haha. Fred just called to tell me he's on his way home from work and I'm so scared when he gets home. He's gonna yell at me for not resting all day, but it's just too d__n hard. And my house was a pigsty. I can't bring a baby into a dirty house.
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lol i was siting here today thinking hmmm what else could i sell lol i'm addicted to selling stuff now lol - I really need to find a cheap dresser online and have someone deliver it ...Im so disgusted I live by a funeral home and we typically park in their lot but when they have a big funeral they put cones up to let us know not to park there - which is no problem for me i always move immediatly but then on the street (public street) where I would move my car to.. they put signs out that by police order there is no parking on that street either ... so where am i suppose to park my truck up my a__s ... how in the HELL does a business have the right to tell you not to park on a public street ... i pay taxes too you know... I find that so obnoxious
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lol gabby poor tank lol he is a problem child haha!!! cash wanted to play a game today - everytime i sat down he decided he had to go out ..most times for nothing but to pick up a rock or pile of gra__s and watch me chase him into the yard yelling 'drop it' i got so disgusted with his lil joke that i put him in his crate. He is so insistant on going out he will scratch the back door then sit in the kitchen just where he can see me and stare at me and moan ... BOSSY ! I went and got him a 46 lb bag of dog food i gladly carried in the house by myself then i got him a big bone and you know those iced gourmet cookies they have that look good enough to eat well I got him one and tyson one they LOVED them now he is laying behind me on the sofa snoring
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ok well I better go lay down before he gets home so he can't really yell at me, haha.
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haha go cover up the damage and lay down haha I think he may not buy it though if the house is clean haha that really sucks about the truck thing - Its ridiculous ..where are you suppose to park .. there has to be someone to complain to - I am going to find out and go off about it
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Getting married doesn't automatically get him a citizenship, he still has to enter this country legally... and then we would have to be inspected to make sure our marriage was real, but we have pictures together and we'll have a child so it's kind of hard to say we're fake haha. He wants to get married in 2009, but I told him we should probably hurry up about it since he can't get a job until he gets citizenship... but he always gets mad when I connect getting married and getting him citizenship. He doesn't want me to think that's why he proposed. I know it's not, but we might as well make it convenient for us, haha. As for my dad, I was really hoping there was some way for him to peacefully leave us alone... I really don't want to bring lawyers or anything into it unless I absolutely have to, and I don't want anything from him except to live and let live. If it really comes down to it, I will do what I have to do for the sake of my daughter and myself. He's always been very insulting and he was part of the reason why for the majority of my childhood I had such low self esteem, so I'm worried if I allow him to be around her he will treat her just as he treated me... If not worse. He doesn't even want her to be alive... 9 months pregnant and he's still saying I should have had an abortion. He treated me like c___p and I was actually planned, so I don't have any idea what he will be like around her.
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mmm...I had sweet and sour last night and then today my dh and I had lunch together and...I got it again and it was SOOO GOOD. I have leftovers from last night too. mmmm...what a pain in the a__s amanda. Can you get a restraining order for your dad? That is serious hara__sment if you ask me. Your dad kinda p__sed me off -makes me want to go over there and give him a piece of my mind. How annoying! Disko -Monday??? Memorial Day??? Wow, you're so lucky! I'm dying to have this baby but I just have to keep waiting! I tried to do some walking today and it was so painful! I can't even do the simple things to get him outta me. :) Gabby - I did like the little David too - I kind of switched back and forth between them, but my favorite is STILL Michael Johns. He got booted way too early - that syesha chick was p__sing me off cuz a few people a LOT better than her stuck around. Newlywed - so no staying up all night partying with the David Cook fans??? haha...people went crazy here last year when we had two guys from the Seattle area in teh top 10 - that crazy Sanjaya who is HORRIBLE and my fave Blake Lewis. We saw AI when they were in town and let me tell ya, Sanjaya really did suck big time -he is such a joke. AND, they had these two kids from the auditions that were kinda dorky at the finale last year - one of them Simon had called MOnkey boy - and a chubby one - and my husband ran into the chubby one at lunch one day. Ok, enough American Idol...
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hmm seriously... where are you supposed to park?? that just does't make sense to not let you park at your own home... I have never lived in a big city so I have never had to deal with that. hmm, now im curious.
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hey - where is eastcoast? I can't remember hearing from her recently - but I could just be forgetful...
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