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RIGHT ON BECCAISAMOMMY! I TOTALLY AGREE!
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It may or may not be their job to say who is lying or not but I know it is your job to judge who is insane and who should not have children. Your post is just as judgemental as you claim theirs to be.
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Oops. Meant to say it is NOT your job. Pushed submit too soon.
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Wow ! Why can't you all just stop reading her post if you think she's a troll ? Why not just leave her alone ? How would you like to be attacked and called fake's ? Time to get out of middle school ladie's .
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I agree catalinaD.. I don't know what the point is to continue to ridicule someone. Bullying someone for your own joy and only to prove your better then them.. My lord.. how childish. I mean why in the world would you continue day in and day out to hara__s someone because you think they are a lier.. Would you really drive to someones house everyday to honk your horn and yell liar at them when they never did anything to you in the first place and you don't even have any reason to be in their life? I mean who does that? Its the exact same thing that is going on here except its on the internet where your protected from reciprocation. I cant believe everyone is too stubborn to let this go. Why go out of your way to prove that your right and someone else is wrong by looking up an IP address. For one even if its avail., its none of your business. And the fact that you did it in the first place seams quite asinine to me. Heaven forbid you allow someone to do anything without attempting to defame their character. I mean even if she did (and I don't know that she did) embellish her story a little, is it really any of your business to prove her wrong and try to humiliate her.. LEAVE it alone for gods sake, mind your own business. And if some how (which i doubt) someone gets hurt by a lie or two... (which I am not saying she is lying) then thats their own fault... Not your job to protect them and hara__s her.
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Catalina and others....I'm sorry you feel that way...you are ent_tled to an opinion as am I to a different one. When things don't add up then. I want to know why...simple as that. I am sure that all of you will say I told ya so if she produces a sono that shows twins or triplets. Me I'm skeptical as it is very, very easy to steal sonos from various boards and pa__s them off as your own. It is done all the time...ppl steal photos of multiples and sonos and pretend that the children are theirs. Very SAd. I have seen it happen to friends of mine, and ppl on other forums....The funny thing is, it usually starts out the same way Kim's story did, then it grows and becomes more and more unbelievable. It disrupts a board and ppl take sides. Sound familiar? I have said that I will apologize is I have misjudged...but a simple sono won't necessarily convince me.
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twins4us - you say things don't add up and you want to know why. WHY do you care so much??? So what if she's lying! So what if she steals an ultrasound picture and uses it as her own! So what if she's a troll! Seriously, get over it. The way you are fighting with this person is quite silly and immature.
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It is a two way street. I care that she is suspected troll and you don't. Take your own advice sweetheart and YOU GET OVER it. Why do you care that I feel the way I do? The ppl commenting are just as immature as they are the ones keeping this thread and drama at the top.
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That's funny, you seem to be the one keeping this drama at the top by starting this thread. Maybe I'm wrong, but I thought the best way to get rid of trolls was to ignore them. Take care. :)
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I am sorry if you feel my opinion is immature. I only posted it because I feel that it unnecessary to try to hurt someone because you have a different opinion. Its seams that you just want to hurt her and show that she's a liar when its really not you business whether she is or not. She isnt hurting anyone if she is lying and if she does steal a sono she wont hurt anyone there either. I mean who really cares.. I am only voicing my opinion because you are trying to hurt her.. Whether it be by humiliating and exposing her for lies or just to try to scare her away. I don't understand why you would go out of your way everyday to try and upset her by calling her a liar.. Who cares.. I only care because I hate to see people hurting.. Troll or not she came here to talk to someone. She didn't seam to start something to upset people. I've seen trolls start threads to upset people and this was not one.. I really think its odd how it got such a reaction anyway. She asked for advice and told her story. It might be hard to believe but it was never intended to hurt.. Until recently she never said anything hurtful to anyone.. She just tried to defend her self.... Which is what anyone would do in her situation. I mean even if maybe certain things were embellished... its possible they were only done so in effort to help you believe her story which to her may be very real. Its rather hard to explain things over the internet. Its hard to show feelings such as sarcasm, remorse, hurt or happiness. Things could have easily been taken out of context.. I think everyone here has said a white lie now and then to help a story along at some point.. to help it be more believable.. I mean.. really.. why harra__s her over this.. Its not important.. Arent trolls in the forums to upset people and make people feel bad about themselves? She never tried to do that.. Nor did she make up fake names to go talk c___p about people who have hurt her in other parts of this forum (I've seen this happen). She just told her story.. and got attacked and has only tried to defend herself.. I agree the race card was a bit harsh but honestly as soon as I read the word ignorant I thought the same thing.. Well before she said anything.. I am white too and not the least bit predudice but in school I was taught that the "N" word meant ignorant so thats the first thing I thought too.. I knew right away how far fetched it was but it did pop into my head if only for a few minutes..... There are many people that take extreme offense to the word "ignorant" and the other word and every variation.. Although I don't think those two words were meant to be linked I can see how easily they might have been.. JMO
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Laura, okay let me tell you why I am so adamant about ppl lying. I had my sonos AND pictures of my children stolen. I had no idea until I was in chat at babycenter and a gal gave me a link to her supposed children. Imagine MY shock when I found my kids staring back at me.Does't hurt anyone....I beg to differ...Can you even imagine how violated I felt. Trolls are very common in multiple circles. They make up stories about triplets and quadruplets, heck even identical octuplets.They don't only have to be about someone starting something. check out this website as it chronicles trolls from ivillage. it is a myspace page and the user name is trollhunterw2 put the myspace dot com backslash and that s/n. People go to great lengths to get attention. I meant ignorant in the aspect of not caring about the reality and concerns of a multiple pg...being cavalier. If she is truly carrying triplets she needs to see a peri and to be closely monitored. To someone who almost lost their twins to TTTS it is a slap in the face for a mother....who according to one poster is suppose to be nuturing and caring not do what is best for their baby(ies). Kim has stated her story...fine...but when someone who has btdt suggests that she get an sono NOW because of the risk she ignores it. To me that is highly irresponsible. Google triplet pregnancies...they are frought with danger...why would anyone ignore that? To me that is extremely suspect. Wouldn't you do whatever necessary? Kim's answer was she knows what is going on in her belly, and she isn't me, and does things different. I guess I dont' understand that. OUr job as a parent is to do what is best for our children and that includes before they are born. Ask any mom of multiples what they would do. KIm wants it both ways. Wants us to believe it is multiples, but when I say, okay, so now you are categorized as high risk you need to see Peri she decides that she will treat it like a singleton pg. BTW I am NOT white.....
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I really don't know why I'm reading this again... but twins4us shouldn't it be OBVIOUS that if she was MAKING IT UP and she was feeding into you to try to get a rise out of you that she would GO TO THE ER TO GET A SONO ASAP.... (or at least PRETEND TO in order to ADD TO the story?????) ...the fact that she is waiting ONE WEEK till her appointment is proof that she DOES NOT GIVE A CRAP what you think, she is NOT trying to get a rise out of you, she is NOT pretending to have someone else's children, she is a pregnant woman looking to talk to other pregnant women about their experiences when they FEEL like there is more than one in there but only saw one on the sono. IF you have a huge tremendous problem with that, because someone stole your pics, then I suggest you just stay out of chat rooms all together.... apparently you are posting pics to what you dont understand is a PUBLIC forum, which means ANYONE can do WHATEVER they want .... and if you can't deal with it... click the X in the top right Corner. God bless.
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"It is a two way street. I care that she is suspected troll and you don't. Take your own advice sweetheart and YOU GET OVER it. Why do you care that I feel the way I do? The ppl commenting are just as immature as they are the ones keeping this thread and drama at the top." SORRY BUT I FOUND THAT TO BE FUNNY... I THINK SHE FINALLY ADMITTED HOW IMMATURE SHE IS BEING
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I apologize, I shouldn't have posted that last comment, but I couldn't help it. Sorry
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Listen girls...WE ARE ALL ent_tled to our oppinions & comments. By stating that we have no right to judge, you are also being judgemental. I take great offense to anyone telling me that I should not have children. That is something I would never tell another human being. However, that is your opinion & I feel that you are allowed to have it & should not be stopped from writting. Just don't expect me or others from writting back. This is an open forum & therefore we should all expect any comment anyone else makes. If you cannot, then don't air you laundry! 3/4 of you on this MULTIPLE thread are not parents of multiples & are not expecting multiples. This is what this thread is about. Perhaps you should start an "I have a dream..." thread somewhere else.
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I probably shouldn't waste my time by replying but since everyone has no problem adding their two cents then what the hell! twins4us I find it hilarious that you are suddenly so concerned that Kim McCloud is not taking her pregnancy serious. I'm glad she has people like you to tell her that pregnancies with multiples are high risk. Thanks for clearing that up and I am gosh darn awful sorry you are so traumatized that someone took your kids pics and have now decided to stop ALL of the injustice by bashing other women. to be honest I think Kim McCloud is a woman that knows her body and I am amazed by that. And corona my statement was harsh as was yours. Children lead by example. I hope they dont follow yours. And as for the " I have a dream" well ladies I have a dream that one day woman will support eachother instead of bashing eachother. I have a dream that one day we as woman can stop the drama and the madness and I have a dream that your children are not affected by their parents stupidity.
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