My Diary Contiunued

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just a question - December 18

i have been following this forum for quite a while and i was just wondering why you are taking advice about a drug from someone who has never taken it legally before. how would yas know what to look out for? how would she know what symptoms to notice that might be dangerous? i understand her posting her journey, but really, how can you rely on any advice or information from her when she herself doesn't know what she is doing? she has never discussed this with her doctor, she has never had a scan to show how she is reacting to the drug, nothing? i just don't understand why you few are coming to her for advice, rather then just reading her story and commenting on her progress. it's like the blind leading the blind around here!

 

mandy - December 19

I belive that question was for Yas, but thanks for your input.

 

TripletMom - December 19

How any educated woman can come on to some random website and take medical advice from a complete stranger purporting to know all about clomid/ovulation, etc. is scary!!!

 

HUSH - December 19

I am completely disgusted with those of you who are anti - clomid. Not because you are anti-clomid of the U/P kind , but because you hypicraticly state that you are concerned for the well being of the unborn ... well if that were trus you would not be trying your very hardest to cause a miscarriage for the mother who is carrying the child or children by this ENORMOUS amount of stress from your undeniable RUDENESS and ABUSIVE behaviour toward these women. Some might say they WOULD have a legal leg to stand on if something were to happen to them or the baby due to the stress that you are causing verbally . They are on here for support that is what these forums are for ... if you are using them for disrepectful and cruel behaviour then GET OFF this web site completely.

 

33 - December 19

These women are not trying to cause anyone to have a m/c. To say that is really sad. If a pregnant women is too stressed from a public, open forum (which would be silly in the first place), it is her right and responsibility not to log onto that site anymore.

 

TripletMom - December 20

to Hush - oh please. I personally am not trying to cause anyone any arm. That is ridiculous to write. If you took the time to read any of these posts or threads you would see how many women take u/p meds solely to concieve multiples..

 

yas2000 - December 20

you guys can you drop it now...whats the matter with you???come on...are you still in college..are you playing sherlock holmes or cluedo???why are you so obsessed with individual people esp those who stand up a bit and answer back..as harshcly as you...first it was me now its tiffany another day it will be someone else..we are here for one reason only and that is to share information..what you may find totally unrelated to you and unuseful and immoral so to speak...will be important info for someone else...lets just drop it ok? and get on with that is really important....supporting each other, providing info on whole range of topics ....please.....a warm and sincere request to all of you...its turning from ridulous to childish to plain...nonsense...don't you feel embarra__sed that peoplel here read your posts fighting back and forth and thinking goodness me..who are these kids when are they going to give up?please stop.....what is the point? if there is not anyone like tiffany or me..there will be someone esle...are you goingtto keep arguing like this and ruin peoples posts?whats the point what do you achive? is it personal sattisfaction...does it give you a high???i suppose not so then please stop!!!!answer qeustions where you feel you can help....don't put down people for the choices they make are making...please please please...we are all from different backgrounds and with different history and upbringing....you cannot except everyone to have your point of view...why cant you understand that????

 

onetwothree - December 20

Yas, did you have your u/s yet?

 

MCF - December 20

Hi YAS2000: I think it is awful that you have to spend so much time defending yourself and your position, when alternatively, you can be providing information that women prefer hearing about. By the way, I know you are a kind and thoughtful person and do not have any intention of creating problems or arguing with anyone. These other women are hiding behind a post. I totally doubt that they would have the courage to speak out like they have been, if they didn't have the post to hide behind. Please keep up your spirits. I truly believe that the majority of the women appreciate your input. I know you are not giving advice and you mentioned that many times. Why can't these women understand that and just leave it alone. Yas, please enjoy your pregnancy because it is a blessing and have a very Merry Christmas and Happy New Year !!!

 

????? - December 21

OKAY? SO THE RESULTS OF THE ULTRASOUND ARE.......WERE ARE YOU?YOU'VE BEEN TALKING ABOUT THIS ENDEVOUR FOR AWHILE YET HAVN'T EVEN MADE AN APPEARANCE WITH THE RESULTS.....WHAT'S UP WITH THAT?

 

shea - December 21

hello. my name is Shea. I plan on starting Clomid on the 24th. Im not sure if I want to take it days 2-6, 3-7, or 5-9..whats the difference? Thanks

 

.... - December 21

go to a DOCTOR!!!!!

 

krob - December 21

she did go for her ultrasound she posted it somewhere here anyway inconclusive it was dont know if it is twins

 

yas2000 - December 21

hi guys..yes i posted somewhere else..about my scan...it was inconlcusive and am booked in for another one in 2 weeks time....they saw sacs..one clear one and one faint one whihc could be shadow or blood clot...hence i am having another scan...looks like i am actaully more behind than i thought or somehing else is going one...there were no babies no heartbeats... well..let me tell you the latest..and its not very encouraging news.. i canme back tommorrow after my scan feeling totally normal and going on about my normal chores....i had some left over chicken from the night before whihc i kept picking on...(i am mentioning it casue it may have relevance for what i am about to tell you)..anyway, at 8 in the eveing all of a sudden out of nowhere...i began having ga__sy cramps...i tried to ignore them and brush them off as normal cramps..but they went from slight to bad to worse to excruciating...i was on all my fours with the pain...and they wouldn't stop and kept getting worse and worse..i couldn't sit on my bum..lol sorry tmi..because the pain was all over my stomach my back and below...it felt like i was exploding from inside out...i thought here it goes i am having an extreme miscarriage....anyway...i then began vomiting violently and i vomited 3 times...i couldnt walk straight and move at all...we then obviously rushed to hospital....by now i am crying with the pain....and am wheeled into the ER and am taken into the gyno section...there i was examined and couldn't let the doc touch my stocmach..it was as if i was being squashed form inside..these pain were intense pain you get from extreme diaorrhea but about 10 fold....i cannot even describe them to you it was that bad to me worse than labour pains...the OB then told me since i have no blood she belives it would be bowel related..hence i a__sume i may have cought food poinening due to the chicken i ate which she agreed may have been the cause.....i couldn't even give a urine sample by now i had been completely dehydrated,,,,so they had to insert a catheter and extract urine from me to rule out kidney or bladder infection...she also gave me an internal exam which was so painful but said the cervix was closed and she didnt believe the pregnancy is in danger... i was sent home with pain killers which i puked up again...and antibiotics..it wasn't until 2am i finally fell asleep blocking out the pain....i was exhausted!!! today , this morning i woke up and my whole abdomen and uterus area feel like i did 2000 situps or have been completely bruised inside...i had huge migraine too...as i walked about for 10 minutes trying to strech myself..as the continuous cramping had ceased..i felt a gush and trickel...oh oh...there it begins..and my fear were justified..i had about 3 tablespoons of blood flow out of me...i went and wiped myself expecteing a continuous flow...but that was it..it was fresh blood...anyway...my hopes are already quite negaitve and i have accepted that this may not be it this time..i phoned the gynoward at the hospital and was told that unless i kept bleeding and hd severe continuous cramps..there is a high chance i have not mc'd! i was told to go on bedrest which i have done all morning and just found it frustrating and thought i need to do something else..so am here telling you all about it..i got a pad on and there has been no bleeding after that incident but i have prepared myself for the worst...my friend told me she had this happen to her in the exact same manner..and still carried on to give birth to her boy who is no 2.5...i cannot say i am very optimistic..as these cramps were so intense....it almost felt it killed me..so if it has my pregnancy..i wouldnt be at all surprised....i am now walking bent over as my uterous and abdomen feel completely bruised...it has improved but i cannnot cough or sneeze without it hurting bad...i have been to the bathroom twice and found brown mucous..but no more bleeding...but only time will tell..i am expecting a gush of blood anytime..if it comes it does thats life...if it doesnt hallelulia!!!! anyway...thought i let you know....i wish everyone out there... good lukc and prayers in your pegnancy...my mum is around to help me so i feel quite positve...take care will let you know how i get on...

 

yas2000 - December 21

oh i forgot to mention..the bleeding they said may have been caused by the cramping..but also by the interanl exam from the ob who mya hve irritated my cervix..as she pushed against it yesterday due detect the kind of pain...well...i don't know what to believe..i belive it when i see it that the pregnancy is till viable..and i will know on the 4th...

 

Jill - December 21

I am so sorry to hear that you were so ill Yas. I truely hope you and your baby recover quickly from this. Hang in there and take it easy. Try not to stress too much about the possibility of a miscarriage, it will ony make things harder. If your Dr. thinks everything is okay it probably is. Take Care. I hope your are feeling well soon and have lots of good news about the little one(s) inside. My thought and prayers are with you.

 

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