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Kim, you're being silly trying to pick a fight with her. Just because you've had 5 pregnancies does not make you the almighty authority on the matter. Every pregnancy is different, and you cannot claim you know any more than anyone else just because you've had a couple more pregnancies than they have. The argument you're trying to start here is futile.

I was not trying to start an argument. I have answered all of her questions and was just curious to know how many pregnancies she had prior to her twins to compare her twin pregnancy with. I have NEVER claimed that I know more then anyone...I have only stated what is going on in my body. So who's the one picking a fight? Lin..please spare me. I am a very calm and docile person...I have no feelings of almightyness over anyone. I just know what is is like to have 5 children and now pregant for the 6th time. Those TTC seem to get very offended around here. And I'm sorry for this problem for some. And would never pick a fight because I don't start fights. But I see I had the respect to answer her questions and she still hasn't answered mine.

Also tell me why you are accusing me of anything? Just curious..I really don't understand...LIN there is a lot I can not relate to and never will. But I would never accuse anyone or hurt anyone just because I don't understand their situation..Like I do not know what it's like to TTC. Because I have never wanted to or have tried. And I wouldn't judge a person or make statements to one who is. Because I personally do not know what that is like or see the problem in it "for myself". Do you understand the point I'm trying to make?? You seem fustrated about something..I am far from trying to pick a fight.

I thought we were just sharing stories and helping each other here...SO many things about other peoples pregnancies I will never know...Like I don't know what it's like to have a C-Section, or not to dialate, I never ripped, tears, or have been cut, had 7-9 pound babies, pushed and baby flew out, one was barely caught. Some I had morning sickness..some I got pregnant with never having a period...just things like that. But would never accuse the person that had a LMP or who ripped. The bottom line is..I GET PREGNANT. And I thought it was going to be fun around here...But some of you ladies are depressing me with your meanness.

No, I don't understand what point you're trying to make. Why are you talking about ttc? What does ttc have to do with anything? I'm not being mean, I'm just telling you that this argument is pointless, and it IS an argument that you're trying to start. You're both being aggressive toward one another, and you're both being snotty. You're not asking about her previous pregnancies just because you're curious. You're asking, because you want to prove a point. At least be honest about it.

Wow I just have to b___t in here a second .If Kim has anwered all of the questioned asked about her experince about her pregnacy why should she not be able to ask a few question's herself .It does apear that Kim has been attacked in previous post , does anyone here really know her IRL ? I also thought this was a place to come help each other out not attack other's and call them out for being fake's . If anyone has real proof Kim is not feeling what she has said please then let us know .I'm not going to lie this has become more intresting to me than Days Of Our Life's .Good luck to you all on your pregnancy's single's or multiple's . But could we please be more supportive here .That's what most of us are here for is support and anwer's right ?

Good call Kattiebugg!!

Very good call! Honestly..I am not picking a fight. Nor have I been rude I mentioned TTC because this is just something I used as an example. As to say..I am not familiar with it , or know what is is like. But as I stated before..I would not attack a person who is having a problem with this, nor say they were lying about not being able to. And once again..NO ARGUMENT here. Lets be real..How can I tell someone about something I am not familiar with. Asking twins4us, just better helps us who are reading this thread better understand her insight on the situation, being that she had several pregnancies to compare to a multiple one :-) Nor am I being rude or snotty towards her, I have absolutely no reason to be. It is not even in my character. Her agressiveness and rude behavior came first, despite it, I still have answered ALL her questions.

LIN - ohhh and since you don't understand the point I'm trying to make..Maybe I should break it down... There are a whole lot of things I WILL NEVER (know) understand. But I will never put anyone down if their situation is different. For example..It astounds me and baffles me to no end "HOW" someone doesn't know they are pregnant and need a test or doctor to tell them. I will NEVER understand that personally. But I would never call a woman a liar because she just doesn't know. Different strokes for different folks. Matter of fact if you look at my threads. I never waivered not once on my pregnancy..Even when I got sooo many negative blood and urine. Never did i say well maybe I'm not..It is an unmistakable feeling for me and there's nothing like it. But if a preson is unfamiliar about this within themselves, then that's when the "not knowing" comes in. The knowing comes in for me when I get up. I have known without a shaken doubt when I have gotten up pregnant. So me having a period through pregnancy, no period at all before..non of that matters to me. I did not waiver until I got a posistive. Because I KNEW I was pregnant. But you have to get a positive to get prenantal care don't ya?? hmmmm

Kim - I don't remember how early you felt your twins but I know with my singleton (I only have one dd) I felt her very early on, in fact I dont think my ultrasound tech even believed me when I said I felt her at 14 weeks. I know that when I had an ultrasound at 8 weeks pregnant I saw her moving on the scan. I think some women are just more sensitive then others, I also feel myself ovulate every month and I also know when its more then one egg. I dont understand why twins4us is being so rude but I am hoping for you th eoutsomce is what you would like it to be and I am waiting to hear the results of the scan! Goodluck!

Heather, I really don't think twins4us is trying to be rude. I think she believes there are inconsistencies with Kim's posts and is suspicious about it. I think it may have gotten out of hand a bit, but that wasn’t all on her part. Several women contributed to that on both "sides".

Well if there are any inconsistencies..Lets try to work them out here. I'm not sure what I wasn't being consistent about. If any questions, please ask and I will answer to my best ability. I think it was more "lack of understanding" rather then her seeing an inconsistency. But nonetheless..we can talk about it. For example she mentioned LMP for me..then I realized that she was adding up info she didn't have. I never had a period when I got pregnant. But I did do a lot of spotting and bleeding in the first few months. I think maybe she just didn't have enough info that she thought was substantial to make a decision..:-)

Heather thanks also for all your input..it just lets us all know that everyone feels different things. Build, body size, weight, height, I can only imagine how everyones feelings are different. I'm not a tiny woman..and sometimes when I see little woman carrying these big stomachs..I think to myself ..Boy! She must be miserable and how is she going to get that baby out of there..LOL But low and behold my girlfriend 110 pounds 5 feet tall. Plopped out a 11 pound baby v____ally. Cracks me up!

Kim, I have had one term pg(before my twins) and one blight ovum after my twins. As far as LMP, you never had one, but yet you know how many weeks you are? How do you know that? What are you using to calculate? You had an sono in Dec yet didn't see anything when you "should" have been 8-9 weeks pg. You then had another sono in Jan and they dated the pg as 6w4d, and you said you should have been 14 weeks.So again how do you know how many weeks you are if you have NO starting point to go by. No dating sono, no lmp, nothing....just a feeling.

Heather I am sorry that you think I am rude. But as an "old timer" on many multiples boards I am skeptical as these types of scenarios are usually the work of trolls. They love to cause controversary.

time4us..I never remembered you on any of my threads. I just took your advise and put my name in the search box to follow my own story...LOL. I see we have talked lots of times. And WE definitely don't need to have any negative feelings towards each other. So let me help you help me..I just know in November I was pregnant. I know for sure I was..because I woke up in the middle of the night and said "Damn, I'm pregnant" I just knew it. then I started that spotting c___p that made me really know. I've done it before...then that vein popped out in my b___b..then I just knew cause I felt pregnant. Now I'm not sure how accurate that Ultrasound was on Jan 23rd. But one thing that did strike my attention was..I looked up other pictures of fetuses at 6 weeks (internet) and it looked nothing like mine. My baby looked to be fully formed. Then 3 weeks later I was in a car accident..rushed to the hospital. They gave me a quick U/S and the tech said my baby was 12 weeks. So at this point honey I'm sooooo confused about everything except when I got pregnant. I will tell you how my visit goes tomorrow and the U/S on the 11th though :-) I'm huge! LOL