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well im 15 and have been with my partner for a year now we are soon to be married and we want a baby we both think were ready for it but do you think its a good idea?
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This is probably not a good idea. You are too young for marriage and too young for a baby. Just my opinion.
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15 and getting married? Why? You are so young, and have so much of your life to live. Be a teenager! I was 24 when I got married, and 26 when I had my first baby. I enjoyed myself, had a childhood, and now I am enjoying my children. I think that you will end up resenting your kids, and you do not have enough life experience to raise a child yet. Just my opinion though.....you have to do what you think is right. If you really thought it was the best thing for you, would you be asking for opinions from people on this forum? Probably not.
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Have some fun and enjoy your life right now why rush into things so quickley. I mean if u guys are planning to be together forever than enjoy your youth together and wait til your a little older before you do something major. Im 23 and my boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years we accidently just got pregnant 6 months ago and even though we are excited now I still wish we had a little more time alone to have some fun. You guys have so much time ahead of you dont rush anything:)
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no wait for a little bit get settled down
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Joanna- I was 17 when I got married. We were together for 3 and a half years before our marriage. I was still in my senior year of high school when I married but I stayed and finished. I'm in college now, paid for mostly by the military. Do you want to finish high school, and do you want to go to college? I will tell you this, high school is the last place you want to be after you are married, so if you want to finish school, it may be easier to wait until after you graduate or at least until your senior year. I'm only 18 now but I'm still not ready for a child. That's a personal decision that you and your boyfriend have to decide together. How old is he? Just make sure that there is a staedy income and that you are, physically, mentally, and finacially ready to support another person. Sit down with your boyfriend and someone who has experience with bills and children and get them to help you figure oput how much this baby is going to cost. Make sure that you are able to support your decision, whatever it may be. Good luck:)
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