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Listen I am really tired of you ridiculous people who come on these forums and ridicule people that you don't know or understand. People come on these sites for support,advice,and answers and you people cant be anything but rude to them. I am 17 and have been trying to get pregnant for 19months and just because I am not 25 I get treated like a stupid teenager who doesn't understand the responsibility of a child, which is bullshit. I plan to be a stay at home mother (if it ever happens) because I think that children deserve to have their parents attention at all times. I know it costs about $10,000 a year to raise a child, and me and my husband have enough to deal with it, of course at some times in the beginning we may struggle a bit but who doesnt?I know that raising a child will be hard at my age or any age but it will be a responsibility that i cherish, because when they are grown i will know that i had a part in making them who they became. You say teenagers need to grow up and most of us do, but what about you? The older people who come on here and call us stupid or a bunch of s___ts are no better, actually I think you are worse because you are older and should be giving us the advice that we need. It is really a shame that people cant give me any real advice because of my age, and I can only pray that I don't grow old and become as judgmental as so many of you are. Some of you's say get married, all right I did that, Finish school, OK did that, Wait until you are comfortable financially, OK that's done, and still for the few people who are young and in my situation it is still not good enough.WHY? Who would you support to have a baby? What are the requirements to be treated with respect on these forums? Who do you think would be a good mother and why wouldn't I? Why should I wait until I am older to be sure that I want a child? After 19 months of taking my tempurture,and ovulation kits, and cervical position and cervical mucus, and then being devastated each month when I get a BFN,i think I am pretty sure that I am ready. And for the young teenagers who cannot spell, please finish school, so that you can get a job when you have a child and not have to rely on your parents or go on welfare. I am not trying to be mean or pass judgment because I am the last person who wants to be judged but some of you's spell like first graders. Make sure you weigh the pro's and con's very carefully before you go through with it, and if you do decide to go through with it I completely support your decision and know you can make it if you try hard enough. And you people who are making fake posts like "my stepfather raped me and now I am pregnant" really need to grow up and get a life. How dare you people come on here and make fake posts about stuff that people go through everyday, people end up not believing people who actually telling the truth. You people are really sick and need help, and please do not have children until you get better. Finally if you all have a need to put down my life and my feelings then go ahead and do it, but if you, do then don't expect me not to say something back that may be a little rude. I can only take so much c__p before I lose my temper.