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Hello all. I am 21 years old and having symptoms of pregnancy. I had unprotected s_x (first and only time) back in December the day after my period had ended, so I figured there was no way I'd be ovulating yet. My period was a week late in January so I took a HPT which came out negative. I finally got my period but it lasted only two days and was very heavy. I took another test in February, because I didn't have a period at all that month, but it also said negative. Convinced that I wasn't pregnant, I fell back into some old bad habits, such as drinking and yes, smoking marijuana. I've smoked pot off and on for a while and one thing that always happens when I smoke regularly, is va___al bleeding, so it's been hard to distinguish when or if I've been having real periods. Back in march I started feeling fluttering low in my abdomen, my immediate thought was that I really was pregnant but I kept telling myself I was just paranoid and it was probably gas. The flutters have continued, become more frequent and more wide spread. Sometimes I would describe it more as a rolling sensation. It is now June (smoke free for a month and a half), I have gained 12-14 lbs since December, I constantly have to pee (this is a big change for me, since I used to go 3 times a day MAX). For about two weeks in April I was severely constipated. I'm exhausted, moody and feel just plain weird. I am very short, barely 5 foot and have always been pleasantly plump with wide hips. My stomach fat now sticks out uncomfortably, it didn't used to and looks like a pregnant belly under clothes, but feels and looks like ordinary fat rolls to me. My appet_te comes and goes. Some days I can't eat anything, other days I eat quite a bit. I'm terrified now that in August I'm going to randomly go into labor and be totally unprepared. I have not been to a doctor because I don't have insurance, but also because I'm afraid I'll look like an idiot if it turns out I'm not pregnant. Again, it was the day after I had finished my usual 5 day period. I've heard sperm can live for 3-4 days, but that still doesn't seem like enough time to start ovulating. Also, I have not been s_xually active since then. I really have NO CLUE what to do. If I am pregnant, I'm screwed. If I'm not... I honestly fear for my sanity, because there's no doubt that I feel something moving! Any advice?