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I'm 23 and only 4 weeks pregnant, Me and the father have been together for nearly a year now, his ex partner has a 4 month old baby which she says is his, he has not seen this baby but his family see it regularly, I don't know what to do as I fell pregnant whilst I was on the pill so was a huge shock when we found out. I'm worried that if I keep the baby his family will think I did it on purpose :o( What do I do?
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Why does it matter what his family thinks and how does it affect his ex? Has he indicated he's going to leave you or anything? It's your baby, and his. And you've been together a year.
So it was an accident, but you don't sound unhappy. I think you should do what you want, not keep his family happy.
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I think you should evaluate the situation based on your relationship with the father as of now. I wonder about a guy who would deny a child. Maybe you should have a face to face discussion with family and his ex to get a good read on your position.
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A great quote I just read the other day:
"Love says I sacrifice myself for the good of the other person. Abortion says I sacrifice the other person for the good of myself."
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