Father To Be And Depressed And Confused
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Well its another one of those why does my pregnant gf hate me threads.its just its been real hard lately so I ned some help.to start off,my gf is now exactly halfway through the pregnancy.it was something we both wanted.were both early twenties.well anyhow when we first found out we were both so happy and excited,i would go to her house everynight,stay with her til she fell asleep and then leave(she still lives with her paremts).then outa nowhere she quit asking me to come over,said she needed her space, this was two months ago.she would text me once a day saying she loved me.then I did the stupid move of asking her about ustwo weeks back.she flipped said I was a mistake and I havent heard from her since.i still talk to her mom every few days and she doesnt understand it either,she knows I'm doing everything I can for this baby and her daughter but I'm getting shutout.her mom hopes my gf comes to her senses bc there really isnt anything I wouldnt do for that girl and plus its not like anything happened between us,it was just I was there everyday then boom she didnt ask.me anymore.and I would assume were not together but im still here for this girl,im not gonna runoff like I know alot of guys do.just please give me some advice to keep keeping on,i just hope its hormones and not how she really feels but I cant keep my mind off of it.thanks in advance for you guys and gals responses
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I don't think you have much choice but to hang in there and hope she comes around. Maybe she is one of those people that likes a certain amount of space, which you should allow for next time. Keep up a low-key communication with her mom with the message that you are still part of the scene. Send flowers once a month. When delivery approaches, let them know you would like to be there with her.
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