Im So Confused Pg1282676916

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dee1991 - August 24

Im 19 and about 30 weeks pregnant. and i just moved n2 a huge city (im from a small town). im tryin to find the right doctor down here but everything is so unpersonal i feel like cryin everytime i try to get ahold of some one and get yet another stupid machine to top it all off im goin through this by myself i dnt even have a mom to ask questions... so can someone plz give me some advice...

 

Grandpa Viv - August 24

HUGS! The hospitals hate to have a woman present for delivery with no prenatal consult. With this in mind, perhaps you could actually visit the hospital and explain your predicament to reception. Alternatively, the County Health Department will take an interest. What city are you in?

 

chrissy91 - August 28

hi im struggling to understand the concept of pre-c_m and becoming pregnant

 

chrissy91 - August 28

hi another question me and my bf used the with drawal method. is it possible to get pregnant when he didnt penetrate. also there was no sign of pre c_m but a milky look on his p___s, would that be from him or me. what are the chances of getting pregnant him

 

Grandpa Viv - August 28

Hi Chrissy! Hmm, if he did not penetrate, I guess he could not withdraw - lol. Seriously, if a guy's p___s was in contact with your v____a, and he came close to ejaculating, then there is some chance of a sperm getting in. Your fertile window is cycle days 8 thru 16 of 28 - anything in the last week of a regular cycle is not likely to get you pregnant. Even with full penetration and perfect timing, there is only a 30% chance of pregnany. Go buy some condoms of your own, read up on how to use them, and incorporate them in your foreplay. Good luck!

 

chrissy91 - August 29

hey again.. he also told me that he urinated in the morning and then we did the with drawal method say 5 hours later can that still have an effect on the outcome. But i yet still ask he didnt pre c_m or c_m or ejaculate. does that lower my chances of pregnancy.

 

Grandpa Viv - August 29

If he did not ejaculate or pre-c_m then obviously there is no chance of pregnancy. I question how you know he did not pre-c_m - just his say-so? How would he know - a guy does not know when that is happening. Pre-c_m is a lubricating fluid that comes from the Cowpers gland. Fluid to carry the sperm also comes from the prostate gland. Neither gland itself contains sperm. A woman also produces lubricating fluids from the Bartholin glands and from inside the v____a. Penetration would not be possible without this lubrication. As foreplay and arousal continues, sperm starts to move down the vas deferens tubes from the testes to the urethra. At some point sperm may become mixed with the lubricating fluids, and this is the kind of pre-c_m that can cause pregnancy, even if the p___s is withdrawn before the main ejaculation. If the guy is a hold-back ace, almost c_mming, but managing to delay it, then the risk of pregnancy would certainly be there. Are you having any early signs of pregnancy? When is your period due, and when was this incident? GL!

 

chrissy91 - August 29

hi no there are no signs of pregnancy. the incident happend last wednesday and my periods comes in 3 weeks. let me ask, my bf wasnt holding back from ejaculating but if he pre c_m wouldnt he feel it.

 

Grandpa Viv - August 30

Relax! If your next period is due Sept 19th, your likely ovulation date is Sept 5th, and any sperm inside you from Aug 25 will be history (sperm can live 5 days). You must have done this the last day of your August period. In answer to your question, a guy does not know if sperm is present in his fluids before ejaculation. It seems that you are on the verge of becoming s_xually active in a serious way. Please go buy some condoms of your own, read up carefully on how best to use them, and make sure an unclad p___s never comes near your v____a. Knowledge of the fertile window (Google that) is also useful. GL!

 

chrissy91 - August 30

hi again, sorry for the confusion. ok so your saying since i had the incident on the 25th of august and say the sperm is inside me, the sperm would die five days later(being the 30th of august). so therefore by the time the ovulation period comes(sept 5th) the sperm will be dead and history inside of me. this conversation has helped me a lot in the process. thankyou so much.

 

Megh - September 19

I had s_x with my bf on 16 sep..he didn't takd any protection..when his sperm came he gave up it outside of my vagin. We r not sure either his sperm is inside me or not..on the other hand my menstrul period was running from 15 september. Is there any possibility of beings myself pregnent?still I'v not taken any peel..plz give me solution..

 

Megh - September 19

I had my 1st s_x with my bf on 16 sep..he didn't takd any protection..when his sperm came he gave up it outside of my vagin. We r not sure either his sperm is inside me or not..on the other hand my menstrul period was running from 15 september. Is there any possibility of beings myself pregnent?still I'v not taken any peel..plz give me solution..

 

Megh - September 19

As far as i know, in menstrul period there is on chance to be pregnent. But if such an accident occurs in my life, what would i do?plz give me advice as soon as possible.

 

Grandpa Viv - September 19

Megh, you are correct - there is very little chance of getting pregnant from s_x in the first couple of days of your menstrual. The chance of pregnancy starts to rise as your menstrual ends, and is at its maximum at ovulation, which is usually 14 days before your next menstrual. Sperm can last in you for 5 days, but your egg is only good for one day after ovulation. Don't place too much faith in that 14 day figure - it can vary by several days. If you pay attention you may notice the signs your body gives at ovulation - several days of fertile mucus, an ovulation cramp, and a cervix (entrance to the uterus) that goes from low and hard to soft, high, open and wet (finger check). If you accidentally get exposed to pregnancy during your fertile window, you can get the morning after pill (PlanB) which reduces the chance by 75% if taken within three days. If you do one day suspect you might be pregnant, you will probably feel a few early signs before your next menstrual is due, and if the menstrual is late or light, that will be the time to take a home pregnancy test. GL!

 

Megh - September 19

We r confused if sperm is inside me or not. Will i take morning after pill? If i find myself pregnent after few days what'll i do?if i take pill now, but there is no sperm inside me what will happen then?

 

Grandpa Viv - September 19

Megh, if any sperm got in you on 9/16. it will be dead by the time you ovulate on 9/29. PlanB is a heavy dose of hormones which will upset your current cycle and is not needed in this instance. If you are going to obssess about such a small chance of pregnancy, perhaps you should not be having s_x.

 

chrissy91 - December 5

hi i just wanted to knowme and my bf were having s_x it was 5min into it and the condom rip and he immidiately took it out. can i get pregnant?

 

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