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Well I was going with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we finished because of his family. the past year things have been on and off between us as feelings have been getting mixed up.. we finally got back on track around mid september the bang mid october a girl that he had slept with has came back and said that she is pregnant with his child. Yes the girl is pregnant but she is apparently well known for sleeping around but is certain that the baby is his. He doesnt even want the child which is not fair and the girls friends are saying to me that she wants him to have nothing to do with the child if that was the situation then she wouldnt have told him. his family is telling him he isnt doing enough even though hes attending all doctors/hospital appointments but they are forgetting that he is not in relationship with her but he is with me. i am truly crazy about this boy and would do anything for him, its killing me not knowing what to do. i want to stand by him but the only thing that is stopping me is the excitment running in his family that he cant enjoy because of my hurt but doesnt want me to leave him, people is telling him that hes not doing enough which is causing arguments between the both of us, and his family wont let him be a man about it. i have a bright future ahead of me but i always thought it was with him. does anyone have any advice?
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First off, don't you go getting pregnant by him too. That would really be a mess. I think you should support his being there for his child's mother, stay somewhat detached emotionally, and see how things play out. There are 3.5 billion other males out there if this relationship does not work out. GL!
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Thank you this comment really helped. i am going to try your advice and see how that pans out. thanks again :).
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Thank you this comment really helped. i am going to try your advice and see how that pans out. thanks again :).
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