When Did She Conceive

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crackersforme - September 9

Hi all -- can you help me? She had s_x: April: 6, 10, 11, 26, 27, 28. May: 1, 3, 4, 8, 9, 11, 15, 16, 24, 25, 28, 29, 30. Bled April 7th thru 10th & May 13th thru 15th (although I'm not positive how heavy the bleeding was in May but April was definitely a normal period). My days inbetween my cycles since December have been 28, 34, 30, 28 & 36....so not regular 28 day cycle. When do you think she conceived? There's no way she conceived on April 10th, is there???? That's the only time she slept with a different guy & we're starting to get worried the baby might be his.

 

dixie14 - September 9

I would say, no its not really possible that she did conceive on the 10th of April. How far gone is she, and will be able to work it out better.

 

dixie14 - September 9

Looking roughly at it she conceived around the 28th of April and 1st may. They say that it is 14 days before your period that you conceive. Hope this helps.

 

Grandpa Viv - September 9

If the last good period was April 7th, s_x April 11 has a slightly better chance than April 10th. The due date would be Jan 14. Judging by her s_xual activity in early May, she did not have much of a period, but say it started May 5, then s_x May 16 would be a likely guess, and due date would be Feb 12. Good luck!

 

SaraH - September 10

VERY VERY unlikely that conception was April 10th. Wouldn't be too worried. Not 100% impossible but almost. if she bleed through that day. I would say most likely concieved either the very very end of April or the very very end of May depending on if the bleeding in May was an actual period or not.

 

crackersforme - September 10

Thanks for all your replies. I was kind of confused by Dixie & Grandpa's responses as they seemed to contradict each other. SaraH -- her main 'bleeding' ended the 9th of April & she spotted April 10th. She only really actually bleeds an average of 2 days each month -- if it's any more, then it's just spotting. Said she just spotted a bunch during & after the s_x on the 10th really red blood, though (not brown). Had no spotting on the 11th after or during the s_x. I believe she tested the middle of May & got a negative, but when she tested the middle of June got a positive right away.

 

Grandpa Viv - September 10

Her first trimester ultrasound will determine if she got pregnant in April or May. To a lesser extent so will the delivery date. If she got pregnant in April the father is a close call. Good luck!

 

sagekelli - September 13

my docs told me i would have concieved between days 10 and 15 of my cycle, if you don't know how that works, the first day you bleed is day one, so april 16-21 would be it based on that concept unless may was a period and not implantation bleeding, if thats the case the conception date would have been may 22-27, according to to what my ob and planned parenthood told me.

 

sagekelli - September 13

oh keep in mind that if she had s_x one day, she could have gotten pregnant from that encounter as far as 3 days later because sperm can survive up to 3 days in a womans body.

 

crackersforme - September 14

Would the ultrasound be able to show an exact date, though? I've heard they can be off a couple of weeks...especially if the baby goes through a spurt or something..........Wouldn't she have tested positive the end of May if she had conceived in April? She didn't test positive until the 3rd week of June.

 

crackersforme - September 28

Just wanted to let everyone know since she had her ultrasound a few days ago. She got pregnant the very very end of May. Therefore, the bleeding in May was an actual period. SaraH was right on the money.

 

babyL - August 9

hi same question the other girl had just need to hear it. Had s_x April 16-morning17th. and had s_x everyday at the end of april and all of may with my boyfriend. doctors say i got my period april 27 which if im remembering correctly i did. Doctors say i Conceived May 1st -5th. how many weeks pregnant would i be ? and i did not get pregnant in april 16/17 ????? im due feb.6.2012 , So im hoping i got pregnant in MAY not APRIl. someone tell me which month !!

 

Grandpa Viv - August 9

The way I figure it you got pregnant the second week of May. Since doctors give you weeks of pregnancy based on your last period, that makes you "15 weeks" today, even though you have only been pregnant for 13. Confused?

 

babyL - August 11

No i`m not confused, I just wanted to no that I didn't conceive april 17.. there`s no way. doctors said I concieved second week in may or the first week in may.. i`m just trying to make sure! thanks!

 

jmclo0h4 - January 1

I have a quick question (sorry for posting on your question!) I got back into a relationship with my boyfriend at the end of march, our method of birth control was the "pull out" method. On April 7th, i got raped. Then was with my boyfriend the 13-14th. My sono-tech said i conceived the 14th-15th. is there any way to tell who the father is?

 

Grandpa Viv - January 1

jmclo, sounds like you are due the end of this week. Congratulations and good luck! Sorry about the rape, I'm sure this has been on your mind all nine months. Do you remember that your last good period started about April 1, and at the time of the rape you had just finished? Sperm can only last in you for 5 days, and you ovulated a full seven days after the incident. In my opinion the chances are overwhelmingly higher that your boyfriend is the father, in spite of the fact that he uses pull-out (very unreliable). If you are really concerned, a paternity test on father and child is not too expensive.

 

jmclo0h4 - January 3

Thank you so much! :) and it has been on my mind CONSTANTLY! my last period was actually March 11th.. they were very irregular. the only problem with getting a paternity test is that my boyfriend is white and the rapist was black. big difference! :( you have slightly put my mind at ease though, and so have a few other people! thank you

 

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