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I have been with my partner for 3 years, I already have a child who is 9 from a previous relationship. we have had alot of difficulties in our relationship and have split up a number of times. We split up about 8months ago and then found out she was pregnant. She always wanted a baby and stopped taking the pill although I said i didn't think it was a good idea because of our problems but due to her doctors advice she wanted one now. I feel a little forced into the situation but the problem is we just don't get along. We have tried talking about things but nothing seems to change. When we talk about what we want for the baby we have different ideas that lead to a row. All she keeps saying is I don't think this is going to last. I'm really depressed about it and feel unhappy in this relationship, I don't want 2 kids by 2 different women but I also don't want to be unhappy and keep arguing. I know everyone argues in a relationship, but I feel my partner is very unreasonable at times and it gets me really down and I think it will get worse when the babies born. I really don't know what to do but i'm just not happy. Please any advice I know I've got to be a man and be there for my child but my feelings towards my partner are not ones of love lately, but more anger.
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It sounds as though you and your partner need some time alone together.Also you should maybe try to spend some time alone with friends you with your guy friends and she with her girl friends.Try working on falling back in love with eachother.You need to let her know that this is also your child as well and that your views and ideas of how the child should be raised is also your decision not only hers.I'm 31 weeks pregnant and i also had times of disagreeing with my husband and how "I wanted things to be and no ifs and or b___ts about it...it was going to be my way..he wanted to change the babies name a million times and nothing doing i said NO..now that i'm a little more understanding we've chosen a name we both love and i try to be more understanding..i hope that your spouse does the same.Good Luck To You!!
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