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Hi Iam 17 years old and turning 18 next year 2006, I think that Iam pregnant because I took a ovulated test and it came out a positive, and then I took a pregnancy test at Mt Shasta over to Hannahs house, and it came out a positive. I do want to have a baby, but my boyfriend just turned 22 and I am scared because we are only 5, 6 months apart and we really love eachother. I dont want any thing to happen to him. The reason why we only did it because we love eachother. I heard about the laws and I dont even know what to do. I dont want him to go to jail or court just because he got me pregnant. Yes we did you protection before, but I am really scared for him, I dont want anything to happen to him. We both love eachother alot, and I would cry if hes in jail. My heart hurts to see him put up like this, I just want them to leave him alone. I can trust him because he always wanted to be a baby daddy. He really loves kids and I do to. All I want is a normal family. I dont want to raise this kid on my own. His baby needs him. We both need him. I know his parents would be happy if we had a kid. I promise to stay true to me, since Ived been with him for so long we are already living with eachother. We treat eachother like we are already married. He is a good father because I seen him treat kids really good. He never cheated on me, cause he was looking for someone to love. He found me and our love came so much closer then I never had before. I just want this to be normal like other familys. I had friends like this who ended up with the same situations. But me I am scared for him, cause he just turned 22 last september 3 in 2005. My homies please help and support me and my loveable boyfriend.

Gurl, it happened to me and i cried for days not knowing what to do, where to go. i had nobody i was so depredded it took me 2 months to get over the fact he left me pregnant with his child. as the 2 months pa__sed i began seeing other men and i told him i was pregnant he didn't care things were going good between us. i decided to get an abortion so i called my ex to tell him but his phone was broken so i left a message a couple of days went by when i got a phone call from him he was crying asking me to take him back i did. i broke the other mans heart and i didn't get the abortion now im 6 1/2 months pregnant with my babys daddy. i had so many chances to get the abortion done but i didn't for some reason i kept putting it off "like they say God makes things happen for a reason"

If he really loves you he'll want to take care of you and your child.That child needs both of you and he needs to understand that.Like I said before if he really loves you he'll come back for you and your child.

the best thing is too look at your future with out him in it..its hard but its better to be prepared than counting on the fact that he may come back...being a mom at any age is scary and hard dont get me wrong it had its rewards and you will love your baby , but if your not ready there is always a family out there who would love a baby, the best thing to do is put the baby first im a__suming you still have to finish school so really make that a goal i had my son my jr year of high school and i placed him for adoption. I finished school and am in collage now to be a dr. I know one day i can look at him and say he was the best thing that ever happend to me and i am proud to be able to say i gave him the best future possible. It will always hurt but i can live with pain knowing he is loved and cared for far better than i could have done at 17. what ever you decide good luck and your in my prayers.

I know what Nessa is goin through seeing as I am going through it myself. TO be honest it's the exact same thing. Only I am older than she is. There are days I wish he would come back to me and then there are days I'm happy he is gone. I've come to see that the only thing I can hope for is that he will be a father to his child. Nessa that can be the only thing you should hope for. The baby won't fix what went wrong. Just be strong, lean on the ppl closest to you and it will get better.

Hey,I'm 18 and i have a 4 month old and her dad was not good for her so i left him... girl you will get over him and someone better will come in your life!

Hey,I'm 18 and i have a 4 month old and her dad was not good for her so i left him... girl you will get over him and someone better will come in your life! ...just like me.

Nessa, I know it hurts, but if a guy says he loves you and another girl, then he doesn't actually love either of you. Would you really want someone back that you could never trust? You know you always have a support group here. One day you will meet a man who will treat you right, if you demand the respect you deserve. You look out for you and that little one! HUGS!

fyi the posters kid is 2 years old by now.

nessa the guy doesnt love you. i don't even need to know him personally to be able to tell that. the facts speak for themselves, he left you when you went through the probably the biggest grieving period of your life when you lost your baby and he just left, nastier still, he used such horrible words. he also then went on to use you for someone easy to sleep with (lots of ex bf's try this one because they find their ex gives in to s_x easily because she might still be under the impression that them sleeping together insinutates that he 'loves' her still and therefore just put up with it). why would you want him back? you have to learn to love yourself and learn that you deserve much better than that, you and your baby deserve better. i personally think he is just saying he loves you because he doesnt want you to be utterly devastated, when in reality he is probably focusing all his attention on his next vulnerable victim. you don't need to get him to understand you are going to be parents, he should be mature enough to know that making a woman pregnant makes him a father (whether he acts like one is another story though). i would really recommend you look this book up on the internet, its called 'he's just not that into you' and its by Sherry Argov. its brilliantly written and it boosts your confidence, it lets you know what to accept and what not to accept, because lets face it, all us women have probably been clinging onto a pitiful man just for the sake of thinking we 'need' a man. have a nosey for it, and don't whatever you do, try chasing your ex up!