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Okay, we talked some more and he is totally for telling his parents. I have some huge issues going on. I didn't want to go to the doctor in the first place, but I did because he said he wanted to know for sure... I didn't keep anything that said absolutely that I was pregnant because I don't want anyone finding out. All I had was the hole in my arm with a bandage, the OBGYN's card, and the receipt saying I was at the doc. I got rid of anything else that said anything definite on it. So tonight, he got kinda upset and said he trusted me but that he wanted to see something. I don't know what to do. I have nothing and I DO NOT want to go back to the doctor... Well, not yet at least. That was the first time I was there, and it was a hell of a time at that. I am just so aggravated that I went there for him and showed him the freaking hole in my arm, and it's not good enough for him. He said he does trust me, but that everything was here-say and he wanted to actually see it. UGH!! I am sooo frustrated. Right now, I have nothing... And then if he goes and tells his parents... I'm always thinking worst-case-scenario... They might be like, she's lying blah blah blah... Then I would be forced to go back to the doc... And I really don't want to. I am so confused right now. I don't even know why I think half of what I do. lol! He sorta let it go after a while, but I know he'll be back on that topic in no time... And I am so stressed out about everything else that I hate adding something to worry about. Anyway, sorry for ranting... Seems I do a lot of that lately. Hope all is well with you.

Oh man LP just go buy a home pg test if anything but you need to make an appt with the dr as soon as you can, you want to make sure everything is going ok with you and baby don't wait until your further along you just want to make sure your safe:)

It will take him time. end of the day he will be a dad one way or another for the rest of eternity. no getting out of this one. i believe if you do the deed then you take all the responsibility all on your and partners shoulders

My husband became a father for the first time when he was 19. He wasn't sure what to do other than take care of his gf and baby. they had a second child in 2001. They were married after the 2nd kid was born and divorced a year ago this month. He and I got married july of last year and now I am pregnant with his 3rd child and he is 25. just give him some time and support him. he'll eventually turn around out of the shock and support you

im partner is a midwife and im freaking out that im not going to be neaded all so her mum is a midwife to . how can i show her i wont to help

I am so glad I found this place. My boyfriend is 34, and I am 21. I was on birth control the whole time, and I didn't know I was pregnant until I was 26 weeks along (just got ultrasound one Wed.) it's too late to get an abortion (that's what my boyfriend wanted) and now he wants me to give it up for adoption. He says that he wants kids, but he wants to have kids when he's got "money in the bank" we've been together 2 years, and I know one of his exes and him broke up bc she was pregnant, and she told him she was cheating on him (never came after him for child support, so I thought she was cheating on him) he treats me like a little kid sometimes, but I love him so much, I know if I left, I would totally disrupt my entire life, and I don't know what my family would do, I think they would help me and support me if I moved home, but I love my boyfriend so much...I'm 21 and I'm dealing with this, and he's 34 and is adamant about me giving up the child, and freaks out when I talk about it saying I shouldn't get attatched and this and that....I don't know what to do.

You know I am going through the same thing. I know its hard but you make sure you are okay and the baby is okay he will come along. Hopefully, we can keep in touch and share the progress. You make sure you are strong and dont let no one else persuade you.

Hey, e mail me lbzgurl4u@yahoo.com maybe we could rant about our situations to each other...I haven't ran into anyone in the same situation, it would be nice to have someone who UNDERSTANDS to talk to. :)

he is stupid for doing that life is a beautiful thing anf it felt great when I found out I was going to be a father.