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I am 16 days preg and just took a test showing positive showed it to my fiance. he looked mad and confused but he has known for a week that I thought I was and now he got kinda angry said he was in shock and kept looking at the test asif hoping it would changeand then fell asleep on the couch... what do I do to help him feel better about this? it was kinda planned... but kinda not. we had talked about it and then kinda got nervouse afterward.
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Give him a little time to get used to the idea. My husband was in shock for about a week after we found out about our first pregnancy, and when we found out about the second, he would laugh hysterically every time he caught my eye (long story). It will take your fiance a little while to get used to the idea, and soon he'll be going around acting like a proud dad-to-be.
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he'll come around. if he's marrying you he obviously already plans on spending the rest of his life with you. men pretend to be made of stone but they can buckle under pressure just like us. i wouldnt worry too much. my boyfriend was a little funny too, but since the first sonogram, all he does is kiss my belly and talk to the baby. good luck with your pregnancy
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Just try to talk to him about how he feels but don't let him pressure you into something you don't want. I was engaged for 2months before I got preg, it was an accident. My fiance pressured me to abort and I did it so he would stay with me. I fell into such a depression afterwards and he left me 3wks after I did it. Having the abortion was the worst decision of my life.
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