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I have quit a few questions. First of all why would you be interested in a 14 year old CHILD? I don't care how mature she seems that girl is still a baby! You are not a man just a pervert! And then to post something like this on the internet and ask for people to help you with a question like that! If you really cared about this girl you would be with her the whole time and you wouldn't be asking people on the internet about her delivery! You should be at the doctor with her!! What were you thinking? Did you think that people would actully support this? Another thing is I would like to know exactly what kind of job it is that you have that you feel you can support her and a baby?! You say you thought this through but is that really whay happened? I mean your stuck now because she's pregnant and the babies comming but what was going through your head to let this happen! This isn't playing house Son this is another humans life you are now responsable for! You can't discard her and the baby when you get tired of them! I think you made a very HUGE mistake but I hope your true to your word and stick with her! Good Luck!

Hey, if you claim you are ready to have a child, maybe you should not date one, and only now when she is actually pregnant you worry about her 14 year old body, well before you brag about mature your girlfriend is, and how at 14 she is wonderwoman, maybe you should act 20 and not 12, you are living in a fantasy land and she is a 14 year old that is probably dancing at a bar, she moves pretty fast to me and you cannot seem to find a real woman, most 20 year old men I know go out with the college girls, not a 14 year old they could get arrested for, if you guys "planned"this pregnancy, then maybe that topic should have occurred to you, I just hope to God you guys Don't leave your child in a public place, then come back after your child has been abducted and ask Gee has anyone seen a baby?

From your posts , it sounds to me like you are just fooling around.first of all it doesn't sound like your from England, wouldn't your girls best friend be best mate? They don't use friend over here.and second of all. I think you should be ashamed of yourself dating a 14 year old.It doesn;t matter what her body looks like she is just a child just beginning to learn about the adult world which seems like you know nothing about! you weren't thinking about your girl and her future.wanting to marry is fine but not at her age, why couldn't you wait? afraid she would realize what she's doing and find someone her own age! what was wrong with waiting until she was a lot older! getting her pregnant seemed like a good way to trap her huh. Planning all this you probably filled her head with fantasies! you need to wake up and be ashamed! you will see how the real adult world works. I just feel for your baby I hope it has a good life cuz you two are totally not ready for this!Good luck!

Hay it is right to give up your child when she is 2 becus i did and every body thinks i am a bad presone.

to everyone whos posted - I know i should have thought things through more, before we decided about having a baby together, but its to late now, and people telling me that were stupid for planning it are doing us any good. and im not some perverted lad i love my girl and just because she is 14 (15 tomorrow) doesnt mean im gonna treat her any less, id do anything and everything for her. can't a man love a girl without getting tortured for doing so? i think people are a__suming that all i want is s_x from her or something, and ive heard it all before, but our relationship is nothing like that, our relationship is based upon our love trust and loyalty to eachother. also in december our twins are due and I'm so proud of my girlfriend and I'm going to thank her and give her all the love and support she deserves, everyday for the rest of her life, for being such a great girlfriend and for giving me my babies! I have been going to her doctors appointments and everything to make sure everythings okay aswel. shes doing well by the way for anyone who has an interest. still can't get over that we are having twins! so happy! by the way the person who made the comment about people from england not saying "best friend" what are you on about? plenty of people do, and the majority of england! thank you again.

hi danny i've been reading your posts and other peoples views on here for sometime now and i thought id share with you my thoughts. i think your a very brave and remarkable person. i can understand why people are telling you that you are lets say "perverted" but thats just because the majority of men in this world are. people don't think that a man could actually truely love a younger girl and not just want her for s_xual fun. i think if we had alot more people like yourself in this world, a lot of girls lives would be very happy. and most people replying on here are probably just jealous of you, because seriously how many men could we name that would stay by their pregnant girlfriends side, love her, trust her, be loyal to her, and want to give her everything she needs? i can't name one to be honest. i don't think its right that people are slatting you on here, I mean on all the other pages girls worrying about being single mothers and their boyfriends leaving them after finding out they were pregnant, but you actually want to stay with your girlfriend and play an active role in her and your twins lives. how can people say such horrible things when your handling this all so well. and so what if shes 14 (well 15 tomorrow as you wrote on your last post) i no plenty of 14 years olds and 16 years olds etc who are very mature and you wouldnt ever think they were that young. im sure your girlfriends very mature, and she should be feeling very lucky to have you by her side. just you carry on with how your copying and hold your head high, and dont let peoples comments get you down. best wishes to your girlfriend from me. let me and other people who are interested no how shes getting on please, but i understand you cant post on her much, i mean you are obviously busy looking after your girlfriend. take care. byebye.

Danny, now you are saying that she is having twins, and you are going on about how deep your relationship is, SHE'S 14, how serious can a 14 year old get? She cannot even get a job for petes sake, let alone get married. Let me tell you something I am 31 years old and I am on my first child, all the people I knew that were expecting children at a young age are not even together anymore! I went to my high school reunion and all the women that had kids at 16 and 15 all said that they wish they would have waited, and how they are not even with the guys they had made children with, I am talking a good 20 couples that I knew, most of them got married straight out of high school, you and her are not gonna even think the same way you did when you were teenagers, at 19 what kind of a life can you give this girl? I am not gonna believe for a second that you have a degree, and she is 14 and probably working at a bar, I don't know how people can get on this post and actually congratulate you guys, and I still don't know what the hell attracted a 17 year old to a 12 year old? Either you are making this whole story up or you are just a sicko, and to the guy that said that guys are perverts, not all of them thikk like you and danny-boy

In regards to Brandy, you probably felt it was the right thing to do, it takes a lot of maturity to give up your child if you feel that you were not mature enough or perhaps not ready, so just ignore the people who condemn you.

By the way Danny, you are so lucky my husband cannot get a hold of you, one sick puppy, you are one sicko!!

Danny I have been there. I got with this man at the age 12 going on 13, he was 3.5 years older that me. I was in love let me tell you, I dropped everything for him. We loved each other so much that words could nver explain. It still hurts sometimes when I look back to the way my heart burned for him, after a couple years we planned to get pregnant, I wanted to give him a loving family. He came from a very broken home. He never missed not one doc's appointment he hardly ever missed a kick, we were so happy and still very much in love. Of course we heard it all the entire time we were together, people said it wouldn't last, we were to young, we would grow apart. We never listen we thought we were different from everyone else. We fought to prove everyone wrong, and people started backing off when they saw what great parents we were. But its true when they say you change as you age. After 5 years of dating and a little over a year of marriage we got a divorce. I never saw it coming, he didn't either. I was to young and needed change at some point I realized that he wasn't going to take me anywhere in life, and I knew I was going places. Stay by your kids side even if you two split up, please stay constint in their lives. After we split he got heavy on drugs and now can not and doesn't want to see our daughter that he loved so much when we were together. Good luck in your stiuation. I know that its going to be hard and its really going to hurt.

Okay to the person who wrote to the sicko on 9/28/05 at 14:16. You think that if we had a lot more people like this sick piece of S**t that there would be "a lot of girl's girl's lives very happy". You are just as sick as Danny boy is. Maybe you didn't see that she was twelve when he started preying on her. How long after that did it take him to rape her? You are the type of person that should be locked up right along with the sick b___d that posted this topic. You are saying that what he did is okay. Well it isn't. What the hell is the matter with these people?!

i think u r doin a gd job standin by ur girl, and im sure u will be the best parents you can be I dn't think it's fair that people are slatin u. It is true that you can fall in love young so why don't people accept that. One of my cousins had her baby at 15 and her bf was 19.They are still together now and plan on getting marrired on their ten year anniversary which is in 2 years.They love their girl so much and have worked d__n hard to ensure her future.I know it will be hard havin twins but i want u to know it can work! If you both love each other as much as u say u do then look on this pregnancies as the start of ur new life together.I wish u both the best of luck. email me if u want to talk .Good luck!

hey danny don't lisen to those who r putting you down ....cause no one of those people r in ur position n need to keep thee nasty coment off....i wrote 2 ya a while ago but ya neva wrote bk well let me tell ya what happen i live in ny and ma parents press charges on ma boy they made me have an abortion he moved who knows where is been a month i haven't see him or talked 2 him i have no idea if he is ok n where da hell he is well good luck 4 ya 2 say hi 2 ya girl for me n hope the babies r really healthy n u guys get married n stay together...unlike me im very depress n have no idea what to do well muahs n take care

hey, smart a__s put it to ya this way, if your 12 year old daughter stepped out with an 17 year old, would you just let them do it? you make it sound as if 12 is old enough to raise a child, you can't even get a job, even 14 is not old enough...your parents are probably helping you and your boy is nowhere to be found, a real man fights for the woman he loves, why don't you try to see reality, this a__s split the moment he had some heat! your parents just beat him to what he was going to do anyway!

Looks like "to betty" is the only one who's done the math here. A 12 year old and a 17 year old!!! It would be a frosty day in hell before I 'd let my 12 year old date a 17 year too. I don't care how "mature" she is.

Danny, I hope the cops lock you up and throw away the key. This is unacceptable