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I am only 17 but i figured i should ask older people instead of teens. My boyfriend is 19 and he wanted me to get pregnant, so i did. dumb i know! He was there for like the first month or so, well I am 4 months pregnant and he doesn't come around or call me at all. I have been doing ok but I have those nights when I just break down in tears. His mom isn;t much help, she called me and told methat he doesn't love me and doesn't wanna be with me anymore. She also said he doesnt think the baby is his and that a paternity test will be done and child support will get set up. The thing is, the night before she called and told me this, he left me a voicemail on my phone telling me that he has been thinking about me and he knows he must step up and he has money already saved for the baby...I don't know what to believe. Either way, he isnt around and I don't know if he rally wants to be in the picture and is just afraid or if his mom is right. It has been a month since I have talked to him but he left me that voicemail 2 weeks ago. He is also moving in bout a week, I need help.
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tell him he's gotta buck up his idea's and stop being a foul all his life!it takes two to tango but it take a real man to be a real dad/father to stands bye his dueties:-)
he's 19 he has his own mind(he sent his fellas to plant the egg in the sack)it has got nout to do with his mum(was she in your bed...NO I DONT THINK SO!!!)if he wants to be a boy he should of thought of that and KEPT it in his pants or boxers lol he choses to become a dad....u can cope just as well on your own..and there is plenty of fellas out there who would luv to take both of you on and be the babies daddy?
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dnt let him move in if he aint ready!
if you both got things on your mind tell each other.. tell him he's a man now not a boy(so he dont need to go running off to mummy every time things get to much for him)
bringing a baby into this world aint a game.. they aint toys you get for christmas then leave to one side when you get board they are lil human beans who have minds of there own and they never ask to be brought into this world!!! think about it.
tell him he has to grow up a be a man or walk(he caint say you never gave him the choice)as he didnt think about the choice he gave you!he needs to stand by you now for you and the baby(you and baby dont need the stress) good luke
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thanks guys...its juts so hard to see him with different girls now. we were together for 3 yrs and i'm afraid to let myself get stressed out cuz i dont want to hurt my baby. it hurts so much that he would lie to me and leave me, i did nothing for him to do this.
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