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just a quick one, how do men feel when their wives miscarry or lose the baby somehow. I know that us women take it hard but how do you guys take it. I imagine it's in your own way as not to upset us. but really how do you feel. just wondering as i just went through a tubal pregnancy which had to be terminated, i am devastated, my husband doesnt show any emtion except a few nights when the pain was bad i would cry and he would tear up.so what really goes on in your heads at times like these?
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I would be devistated! My wife is 10½ weeks along now(well almost), and if ANYTHING were to happen, I don't know who would be crying more. However, I can't speak for all men, because I am actually a very emotional Man, or so my wife tells me. I would think that the average man would feel very upset, would be hurt just as much as you(the wife). However, according to society a man's "role" is to be strong, and to not show emotion. So, men in general would be less likely to cry, or talk about it. This is a man's way of dealing with things. We hold it inside, and deal with it on our own, especially since your husband knows how rough it has been on you, he doesn't want to make things worse for YOU, so he is dealing with it on his own.
Did that make any sense? I hope so.
Brian
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I don't know what I would do because my wife is 21 weeks. I think I would not say anything because it would hurt me to bad to express myself. It would take me a while on my own to deal wit it. I am sure your husband cares, he just might be like me. Thinking about anything other than what hurts you keeps you from accepting whats going on at the time. He needs time to deal wit it in his own way but you should see how he feels.
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brian and sean, you seem like such good guys. i wish i had a dude like you. your ladies are sooo lucky to have you. best of luck with your pregnancies. autum...please keep trying. and i hope you and hubby get through this and have a beautiful baby soon.
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