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just remember lots of ho's out there look for a ring so they can hit on the man they want a married man so may not be such a bad thing....

Hi teacherwoman I interested to know why you fell the need to have YOUR man wear anything h that he clearly wishes not to could it be that you fell insecure? No self confidence in _holding_ on to him? If your man is going to play away from he will regardless if he wears a ring or not (ho but you say you trust him!). I don't wear any jewelry, except when I 'dress up' to go out to somewhere special. Then sometimes I will wear jewelry to match my apparel gold watch and necklace dress ring(s) and/or wedding ring. Regards Keith dad of 2

to me personaly a ring doesnt mean anything, either does that peice of paper... its whats inside i couldnt care less if some woman tryed to snatch up my man, because i wouldnt let it happen and if he did then id kick his arse lol.... i wear mine, altho mine is thick and i do get skin irritation and i have to use cream, or ill go a couple days without wearing it... as for my hubby, he hasnt worn his at all, with his work it would get damaged. another reson he hates rings :) it depends on a person I THOUGHT IT WASNT ALL ABOUT THE RING??

well i am not married, however 2 marriages in my family have failed due to infidelity. my father cheated on my mother and my uncle cheated on my aunt. now i know nothing about your marriage but i do remember that towards the end of my parents marriage my dad didnt wear he ring. actually he didnt wear his ring for quite a while before they separated. my mother was completely blindsighted when my dad left so, id just have a talk about trust and voice your concerns, especially since you have a baby on the way

I think he should wear it if it makes you happy. Maybe he could just take it off when he's at home. I would be uncomfortable if Jay didn't wear his ring. It's not because of trust, it's just I feel proud of our commitment and I think of that as a sign of it. Plus, to be honest, I think his hand looks super hot with it. (Sorry, we're still kinda newlyweds) :)

Well teacherwoman I feel like you, my Dh does wear his ring but he was not crazy about it at first but it was important to me. My Dad has never taken his off and could not take it off now if he wanted to, he can't get it over his knuckles. He has been married to my mom for 38 years. Growing up with that kind of devotion made it important to me, luckily I have not had any problems with my hubby wearing his. He goes days sometimes with out taking his off, but most times he takes it off to shower and sleep etc.

My parents have been married for 23 years, and my father has never worn a wedding ring, and I've never seen my mother without atleast her band. I dont even think that he has one, i've never seen it. Some men just dont like to wear any jewelry. Most people are going to know he's married anyway. I dont think that a ring is that important.

A MAN'S POINT OF VIEW: He's probably upset with you about something. It is uncomfortable for some men but if it's important to your wife most men will put up with it. UNTIL they become VERY upset for some reason. In my case, I happily put up with wearing my ring until I found out (11 years into our marriage) that my wife cheated on me when we were dating. Then, it didn't just feel a little tight, if felt like a cinder block on my finger. I felt like I was hoodwinked into marriage (I had confronted my wife about these rumors before we were married and she lied). I was reminded of how stupid I was every time I saw the thing on my finger. My wife HATES that I won't wear it. I'm not just pouting. It's part silent protest, part being free from caring if she's upset since I'm even more upset over a larger issue. The whole thing about letting other women know that your married is kind of a joke. My wife says the same thing, but that almost a__sumes that if I were approached I wouldn't be able to resist. I would never cheat on her, so why not be comfortable?