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me and my gf are both 14 and like last month about we had s_x unprotected we always have unprotected s_x . and latley she told me she has been feeling sick by getting morning sickness and her br___t are sore and that she said she is almost 3 weeks late on her period could she be pregnant? cause i am freaking out alot im not ready to be a dad now can someone help me and give me answers please?
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 | Ed - February 20 |
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I probably don't need to tell you anymore that it's not smart to have unprotected s_x when you don't want your girl to get pregnant. Buy a pregancy test and shape up for your girls sake. If she is pregnant and wants to keep it, you can kiss a "quiet" puberty goodbye. Be a man and take your responsibilities.
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what did you think unprotected s_x could lead to??? It takes 2 to tango and sounds like she could very well be pregnant. I agree with Ed - grow up and take responsibility for your actions
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omg she just took at test and it showed she was pregnant and i am freaking out and have no idea what to do im not ready for a baby at 14
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 | pj - February 21 |
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Not ready for a baby but ready for s_x at 14? Come on - you ready for one, you're ready for the other. Good luck, dude. Too late to do anything about it now. Go tell your parents and be prepared to go get a job - babies cost a LOT of money. It's cool to have s_x, isn't it?
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You can't tell a kid jack. He wanted to play grown up ... now he's in for the full ride. (Makes me ill ... can't even drive a car yet but now he's gonna be a "daddy".)
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| Ed - February 22 |
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It should be forbidden for kids to have a kid under a certain age. What kind of example can a child give to his baby? Well Chris, good luck and try to make the best of it!
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im just going to break up with her cause i dont want a baby but i love her so ill just tell her to get a abortion
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Yeah, beaking up with her sounds like the responsible thing to do cause she's really needs the rejection right now on top of the physiological changes of pregnancy as well as dealing with how to tell the parents. Are you now going to go sow your wild oats with some other 14 year old?
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You guys are soo supportive, a kid asks for help and all you do is criticise! Now you're surprised he wants to leave her??
People make mistakes, especially young people. Offer some advice or Shut Up! Chris- You and your gf need to talk to her parents and figure out what you want to do. Your options are adoption, abortion, or keeping the baby. i know you probably don't want to tell her parents, but they need to know; especially if you guys decide to keep the baby, because two 14yr olds are incapable of raising a child w/o help. Maybe you want to let her break it to her parents alone at first, and you after everything's calmed down, the 4 of you can discuss your options. If she decides to have an abortion, most places won't do them after a certain number of weeks (i think like 14 or 16), so you need to start figuring this out soon. She may or may not make the choice that you want ; even though you both played an equal part in creating this baby, the decision is entirely hers, and you'll have to live with whatever choice SHE makes. Do you like another person having this much power over YOUR future? If not, then wrap it up! Keep having unprotected s_x and it will happen again. If she decides to keep this baby, you could have to pay child support when you turn 18.
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As a man, husband, and father-to-be this kid needs to hear this and realize that if your man enough to have s_x you better be man enough to shoulder what this brings in all of its different aspecs. 14 and having s_x? I'm sure its much easier now a days for kids to get protection and get educated about these things - don't tell me this kid couldn't get protection, they just chose to take a completely unnecessary risk and now that this kid gets caught with his hand in the bag he wants to bail? Be a man, its her choice, standby whatever she chooses and deal with it, what are you going to do - runaway? This type of thing doesn't go away, make the best of the situation. Honestly, I think this might be a hoax - just my gut feeling. If not - I said what I had to say.
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How would you know if he'd listen or not? You haven't given a single shred of advice to listen to!!! All you've done is belittle him and call him an idiot. Now you're surprised he wants to run away from the problem, but meanwhile you haven't given him any advice on how to deal with it. People make mistakes and i'm sure the fact that his gf is pregnant now has been a huge wake-up call. Yes, unprotected s_x is dumb, but it's done now...he needs to be advised on what to do next, not to be insulted. And if you must insult him, at least offer some guidance to go along with it.
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ive been thinking and running away isnt the answer im gonna stay with her and we will tell our parents somehow i told my older bro who is 19 and he is so p__sed at me. but i still dont know how i can help with no money and job
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| pj - February 23 |
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McDonalds hires 14 year olds... try there dude...
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NOT running from this is the smartest thing you've said so far.
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Bite the bullet - only advice coming from here is McDonald's, BK, Wendy's, Pathmark, Walmart, Shop Rite, etc, etc......they always need workers. If you're serious about what you need to do, become a trade apprentice, decent $$$ and the more experience you get the more you make. Tough decisions for a 14 year old but its time to step up. Happy now my dear naive Anita? Any clue what she wants to do yet?
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well i got a job it pays good i guess and our parents are mad but they say they will help and support us and my gf is getting excited about this now and so am i
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