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unplanned - December 7

I was planning on breaking up with my girlfriend of 6 months when we got pregnant(unplanned). I am lost and don't know what to do. We have kept this a secret for 3 weeks now and I don't know who to turn to. Help.

 

H - December 9

Well, you may not like my advice, but you made a baby now it's your job to raise it and give it a complete family. Marry her. Do what is best for the baby and forget about your own personal needs. The child should not have to pay for your mistake. If this is not something that you will consider, then please consider adoption.

 

mama-beans - December 9

My two cents.. babies aren't the best reason to get married. You DO have a responsability toward this child, so you do need to be there for it, physically and financially.. But marrying Mom when you have no feelings for her will just be providing that child with an ugly and unhealthy home life.

 

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