Please Help -pg117161181144
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i am 19 years old and i am 5 weeks pregnant...I havent told the dad yet (hes 23) because he is in the middle of a not so final divorce he alreday has one child from his previous marrige and he loves her other son just like his own...we took every precaution to keep from getting pregnant but yet here we are and i know that he doesnt want or need anymore kids right now...i am afraid of what he will say when i tell him if i even tell him at all...any advice?
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What do you mean 'if you even tell him at all'.. .he needs to know... I was 19 when I got pregnant, and my b/f was 23 except for the whole divorce thing and kids.. but maybe he will be excited.. you never know. If you want this baby then I wouldn't be afraid of what he will say, just do whats right to you.
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I believe that he has the right to know. The baby is not just yours it´s his as well. You need to decide together about what you are going to do. Maybe he reacts in a way you did not expect and is happy about it. I know it´s hard but just tell him, he deserves to know...
Good luck
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if my partner was pregnant and hadnt told me i would have been gutted..... I have 2 other kids to a previous relationship and was over the moon when i heard she was pregnant... imagine how he would feel if he ends up finding out from a third person and not from yourself.... he certainly needs to know and has a right to know
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