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I love these people with the "get over it" att_tude. It's no big deal until it's your husband that has the s_xual addiction & before you know it, that addiction rules his life & it destroys your marriage. Let's see ya "get over" that.

I'm not comfortable with my fiance looking at it, especially with me in the condition I am in. I don't look at other men and he knows he should do the same.

My dh looks at p___n all the time I'm fine with it because I know that i'm the one that hes actually touching he can only watch them never touch Its not like hes gonna go out and cheat on me just because he looks at p___n.

I told myself the same thing corinne ... I was wrong. It became an addiction for my husband years before I ever even met him. (It STARTED in his TEEN years.) Porn/s_x addicts hide this addiction from everyone because of the shame. Hell, I didn’t even know there was such a thing as a “s_xual addictions”. Porn FEEDS that addiction. And once that addiction is out of control ... it's ... WELL ... out of control, especially YOUR control. My husband was the last person ANY ONE (including himself) thought would ever cheat. He did. Just remember, there is always a first time. And if you are willing to let your husband look at p___n “all the time” & totally think that it not get out of HIS control … well just ask yourself one question. Would you let him experiment with drugs “all the time”? Same thing. Don’t believe me? That is your choice. But I’m telling you from personal experience & from talking to others whose husband’s struggle with it each & every day. It is NOT a “harmless” game to be playing with. It is something that could potentially destroy lives. Play with FIRE … get burned.

See I understand what your saying. But what I meant is that I don't find it to be wrong when hes checking it out like every now and then. I do think that if they have a problem with it then yes it is wrong like wanting to look at p___n more then they would their own wife but i find occasionaly to be fine with looking at it.

i belive 90% of men watch p___n, i know my fiance does i find his little flics on his computer, no it doesnt bother me, hes not cheating and hes not taking anything away from me, hes a man and thats what they are into, id rather that then cheat

So tell me ... I forget. Is it nice there in the dark?

If p___n is what turns him on then I want to be a part of it. I wouldn't want him sneaking off just to watch p___n.

No, not every 'normal man' as was stated in some posts, look at or watch p___n. No one can say that every man in the world does, come on. Like everyone's opinion here, everyone is different as to what is acceptable and what is notin their lives and their relationships. I would not tolerate it at all in my marriage. Others would. What makes you happy, do it, I think, as long as it doesn't harm the relationship and there's no deceit involved. WHen the man wants the p___n more than the woman, that's wrong.

I dont see anything wrong with a guy watching p___n, unless of course in doing so he is neglecting his wife or choosing to watch p___n over having s_x with her. I think maybe it is insecurity issues that make some women upset by this? I know I dont have a problem with my SO fantasizing because i know i have my own fantasies, but when it comes down to it, he's with me, not Jenna Jameson. Besides, watching it may spice up your s_x life by giving you some new ideas. And I think its completely shallow minded of someone to say that because a man watches p___n and masturbates to it alone that he will cheat on you if the opportunity arises. Thats like saying that because someone likes watching videos of high speed car chases they will run from the cops when they get the chance. I understand some people are disgusted by it, and that is perfectly fine. But no one should judge someone else about something they dont know much about.

Mommatx said: "But no one should judge someone else about something they don’t know much about." ******** Read my past post. Unfortunately, from experience (living with a s_x & p___n addict), I DO know what I'm talking about. It might "spice it up" or "you might learn something"? Be careful what you wish for.

Its not okay for my man to do it. I don't care about single men, or men whos wives don't care, but if you lady doesn't like it, don't do it.

me and my boyfirend were trying for out frist baby and we coulnd conceive but we got in to watching p___n before we have s_x and it mad the experience much more invergerating i have orgasums every time we have s_x now were as i didnt before and im happy to say im now 16 weeks pregnant with our first baby

Are saying that p___n got you pregnant?

WOW.. I never knew that p___n could have such an effect on people.. I relaize there are s_x offenders and stuff out there.. and it all starts somewhere.. But I also think that if your in a relationship and you both agree that p___n is ok to do then why not. I mean honestly I love watching Porn and I htink im worse than my b/f. It doesnt mean that im gonna cheat.. because im not and I do everything I want wiht him... Im not saying that some people might cheat.. but I won't. If you have a stable relationship and totallyfulfill each other there is no reason to stray at all. If people don't want to get bashed on here keep your comments to yourself I guess.. and there is osme bashing going on for sure in here against it and people who do it. I was with a drug addict for a husband and turned my life upside down.. but I still don't come out and bash against things that happened to me.. I struggled, got through it and now im stronger than ever.. i say enjoy your life and hey if it involves Porn.then go for it. BUT you shouldnt' hide it from your spouse.. then he/she will think there is something wrong with them or something wrong they are doing in teh bedroom..

p___n is fine for many reasons, the main one being when your woman doesn't want anything to do with s_x. it's like some women don't understand it can't just NOT happen, and if she ain't gonna do it, i will. the secondary reason is when she refuses your main fantasy and you feel the need to enjoy said fantasy. what do you do? jerk to it and get some sleep. problem solved.